Pashtunwali

Pashtunwali (پښتونوالی), also known as Pakhtunwali and Afghaniyat, is the traditional lifestyle or a code of honour and tribal code of the Pashtun people, from Afghanistan and Pakistan, by which they live. Many scholars widely have interpreted it as being "the way of the Pashtuns" or "the code of life". Pashtunwali is widely practised by Pashtuns in the Pashtun-dominated regions. Pashtunwali dates back to ancient pre-Islamic times.

Overview
The native Pashtun tribes, often described as fiercely independent people, have inhabited the Pashtunistan region (eastern Afghanistan and northwestern Pakistan) since at least the 1st millennium BC. During that period, much of their mountainous territory has remained outside government rule or control. Pashtun resistance to outside rule and the terrain they reside in is sometimes speculated to be why Indigenous Pashtuns still follow the "code of life".

Pashtunwali rules are accepted in Afghanistan and Pakistan, and also in some Pashtun communities around the world. Some non-Pashtun Afghans and others have also adopted its ideology or practices for their own benefit. Conversely, many urbanized Pashtuns tend to ignore the rules of Pashtunwali. Passed on from generation to generation, Pashtunwali guides both individual and communal conduct. Practiced by the majority of Pashtuns, it helps to promote Pashtunization. "Ideal Pukhtun behaviour approximates the features of Pukhtunwali, the code of the Pukhtuns, which includes the following traditional features: courage (tora), revenge (badal), hospitality (melmestia), generosity to a defeated..."

Pashtuns embrace an ancient traditional, spiritual, and communal identity tied to a set of moral codes and rules of behaviour, as well as to a record of history spanning some seventeen hundred years.

Pashtunwali promotes self-respect, independence, justice, hospitality, love, forgiveness, revenge and tolerance toward all (especially to strangers or guests). It is considered to be the personal responsibility of every Pashtun to discover and rediscover Pashtunwali's essence and meaning."It is the way of the Pashtuns. We have melmestia, being a good host, nanawatai, giving asylum, and badal, vengeance. Pashtuns live by these things."


 * The Pashtun tribes are always engaged in private or public war. Every man is a warrior, a politician and a theologian. Every large house is a real feudal fortress. ... Every family cultivates its vendetta; every clan, its feud. ... Nothing is ever forgotten and very few debts are left unpaid.
 * Winston Churchill (My Early Life, Chapter 11: "The Mahmund Valley")

Pashtun institutions
Pashtuns are organised into tribal or extended family groups often led by a "Malik" (a wealthy and influential leader from the group). Disputes within clans are settled by a jirga (traditionally a tribal assembly involving all adult males). In times of foreign invasion, Pashtuns have been known to unite under Pashtun religious leaders such as Saidullah Baba in the Siege of Malakand and even under Pashtána female leaders such as Malalai of Maiwand in the Battle of Maiwand.

Main principles


Although not exclusive, the following thirteen principles form the major components of Pashtunwali.

The three primary principles:


 * 1) Hospitality (مېلمستيا) – Showing hospitality and profound respect to all visitors, regardless of race, religion, national affiliation or economic status and doing so without any hope of remuneration or favour. Pashtuns will go to great lengths to show their hospitality.
 * 2) Asylum (ننواتې) – Derived from the verb meaning to go in, this refers to the protection given to a person against his enemies. People are protected at all costs; even those running from the law must be given refuge until the situation can be clarified. Nənawā́te can also be used when the vanquished party in a dispute is prepared to go into the house of the victors and ask for their forgiveness: this is a peculiar form of "chivalrous" surrender, in which an enemy seeks "sanctuary" at the house of their foe. A notable example is when US Navy Petty Officer First Class Marcus Luttrell, the sole survivor of a US Navy SEAL team was ambushed by Taliban fighters. Wounded, he was aided by members of the Pashtun Sabray tribe including Mohammed Gulab who took him to their village. The tribal chief protected him, fending off attacking tribes until word was sent to nearby US forces.
 * 3) Justice and revenge (نياو او بدل) – To seek justice or take revenge against the wrongdoer. No time limit restricts the period in which revenge can be taken. Justice in Pashtun lore needs elaborating: even a mere taunt (پېغور) counts as an insult. Monetary compensation can be an alternative to Badal, for example in murder cases.

The other main principles:
 * 1) Bravery (توره). A Pashtun must defend his land, property, and family from incursions. Death can follow if anyone offends this principle.
 * 2) Loyalty (وفا). A Pashtun owes loyalty to family, friends and tribe members.
 * 3) Kindness (ښېګړه). Pashtuns should act in the welfare of others.
 * 4) Arbitration (جرګه). Disputes are resolved through the Jirga.
 * 5) Faith (ګروه) contains a wider notion of trust or faith in Allah. The notion of trusting in one Creator generally comports to Islamic monotheism or tawhid.
 * 6) Respect (پت) and pride (وياړ). A Pashtun's pride, has great importance in society and must be preserved. Pashtuns must respect themselves and others in order to be able to do so, especially those they do not know. Respect begins at home, among family members and relatives. Someone who lacks these qualities is not considered worthy of being a Pashtun. As per the poetry by Khushal Khattak, “The loss of life and wealth should not matter, what matters is pat.
 * 7) Female honour (ناموس). A Pashtun must defend the honour of women at all costs and must protect them from vocal and every harm.
 * 8) Honour (ننګ). A Pashtun must defend the weak around him.
 * 9) Courage, manhood, or chivalry (مېړانه). A Pashtun must demonstrate courage. A turban is considered a symbol of a Pashtun's chivalry.
 * 10) Country (هېواد). A Pashtun is obliged to protect the land of the Pashtuns. Defense of the nation means the protection of Pashtun custom.