Talk:Ed Decker

Criticism
Some criticism is good, but this article seems exceptional critical -- to the point of not being WP:NPOV. I think this needs to be worked on quite a bit.

--RucasHost 13:01, 9 August 2007 (UTC)

This is Ed Decker, the one being falsely accused of things in this article.. hard to correct when your enemies know how to work the web against you.. I will make corrections and hope they stay in.. edecker@nwlink.com  July 30, 2008

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POV
This article must adhere to the policy on biographies of living persons. Controversial material about living persons that is unsourced or poorly sourced must be removed immediately, especially if potentially libellous.

It is my assertion that the comments and information concerning Ed Decker on individual lds church members websites not be considered a "reliable" source. If one wanted to state information about Ed Decker commiting adultry one would need information directly from the church or scanned information from the divorce decree. Ed's excommunication letter mentions nothing on adultry and Ed's statements are more in line with the excommunication letter than with what the two "sources" state otherwise. Also the sentence reads as though Ed Decker quit the church because of adultry, this is also not true according to the facts. The following needs to be sourced or removed. 1. Need to have official records from the LDS church showing if Ed Decker ever was counciled or disciplined for commiting adultry. 2. Official records (Church, government, verifiable statement of the former Mrs Decker) that Ed commited adultry.

If these sources do not exsist or can not be found then I will revert the changes and request that the page be locked. IowaRussell (talk) 04:36, 16 March 2008 (UTC)

http://www.angelfire.com/ga/kevgram/Ed.html is not a reliable source IowaRussell (talk) 09:23, 20 March 2008 (UTC)

Can anyone tell me why http://www.angelfire.com/ga/kevgram/Ed.html as a source has not been removed? Let's keep things cleaned up here! I'm removing it unless someone can prove me otherwise. —Preceding unsigned comment added by 76.107.145.71 (talk) 00:43, 16 February 2009 (UTC) Also, the other two sources - one from Geocities and the other from ldsinformationstore - do not qualify as reliable sources. Removed. This last part of the article on Criticism needs rewritten due to large amounts of POV bias. —Preceding unsigned comment added by 76.107.145.71 (talk) 00:49, 16 February 2009 (UTC)

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Early life and dissent from the LDS Church
Decker converted to the LDS Church at the age of 20, and was ordained to the Melchizedek Priesthood. He and his wife Phillis had five children. However, according to Phillis' written history of the events, Ed had many affairs that scattered all throughout their relationship—the most damaging with her best friend. It was so bad that he even "left the hospital after she had his baby to be with his girlfriend".

Many times his wife would consult with her LDS Church leaders about his affairs. In speaking with their leaders, "Ed would repent and apologize and claim he would never do it again", even though it continued. So his wife and the Church would forgive him. Finally Ed left Phillis for good with their 5 kids (ages 4,5,7,9, and 11) and demanded a divorce settlement in his favor which she agreed to, otherwise he would "disappear and she would have to raise the children herself without ANY help from him." Later he gained custody of the children. According to his wife's legal Divorce Decree "...the defendant, John [Edward] Decker, Jr. not regarding his marriage vows and obligations, has, since his marriage to the plaintiff, in this manner has been guilty of extreme and repeated cruelty towards the plaintiff, in that he on many occasions had the company and companionship of other women."

Ed has said that he divorced Phyllis, not the other way around, after a number of attempts, through the church, to correct a marriage in trouble. Part of the problem was Phyllis's extramarital affairs, not his. The first was with a Mormon Missionary, Elder Smith from Utah. That caused Smith to be removed from the mission field when Ed and another elder found them in bed together when Ed was filling in for the missionary who was supposed to be sick that day. Another involved the assistant manager of a local grocery chain that resulted in a pregnancy. Another of many more involved a neighbor in Illinois. Ed happened to walk in while the man's wife was screaming at Phyllis to leave her husband alone. Phyllis is now on her third marriage. Decker was excommunicated from the LDS Church and divorced his wife. According to his wife's account, "it was a series of affairs Ed had that led to our divorce".

In 1976, Ed was excommunicated from the LDS Church. Ed's excommunication documents can be seen at http://www.saintsalive.com/mormonism/ed-leaves-church.htm or at Utah State University Special Collections Library {#210] at Logan, Utah where all of Ed's church records are on file.

A critic of the Church and a new faith
In describing his "conversion" to evangelical Christianity, Decker reports that a crisis in his life showed him the "One-Sided Biblical Jesus" and changed his life forever. Shortly after, Decker founded Saints Alive in Jesus, a ministry that actively challenges the Latter-day Saint doctrine. Through the Saints Alive Ministry, Decker is active as a public speaker and evangelist. He also volunteers as a pastor at a large evangelical church in Kirkland, Washington. }} Best regards —Eustress talk 00:07, 21 February 2009 (UTC)

Complaint about article from Ed Decker

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For the record.

I was neither divorced or excommunicated for adultery. I divorced my former wife, Phyllis Ray Decker Montanari Danielson. I did so after extensive counseling with the Bishop and our Stake President and their recommendation that I do so.

I remained an active Mormon for a full 7 years after the divorce and was finally excommunicated in Bellevue, WA in 1976 AFTER I requested that my name be removed from the records of the church…

The original documents from my excommunication are on file at Utah State University Special Collections Library : Collection #210, J. Edward Decker Collection, where most of all the research, books,  videos, audio records, correspondence, files, etc  are on file for researchers to use.

That document clearly shows their reluctance to excommunicate me and that it was”[my] decision and mine alone.

These two facts clearly show that the Wikipedia posting on your website is false and slanderous.

Text that caused the stir

Public court records from Ed Decker's first marriage state his first wife divorced him on ground of multiple adultery and mental and emotional cruelty. This is in the public divorce records of the Court along with the affidavits. The divorce was granted on those grounds.

I just opened an ANI thread over it This mormon critic appears to been the subject of a a tract from i have removed it for now since the source is dubious at best hopefully the ANI will work its work Weaponbb7 (talk) 19:13, 6 June 2010 (UTC)

@Ed Decker: I appreciate how you must feel upon seeing inaccurate or poorly sourced information in your biography. In the future please point out any such inaccuracies here on the talk page instead of in the article text itself. Wikipedia is very concerned that our biographies of living persons be accurate and not contain unverified information and I assure your concerns will be taken seriously, but it is not appropriate for you to edit an article about yourself as you have an insurmountable conflict of interest on the subject. Beeblebrox (talk) 19:28, 6 June 2010 (UTC)

Criticism section
Why do we have a criticism section in this article? It's my understanding that criticism should be integrated into the article, not called out in its own section. Yworo (talk) 02:57, 7 June 2010 (UTC)

Saints Alive in Jesus
Why isn't his "Saints Alive in Jesus" organization directly mentioned in the article? -- 208.81.184.4 (talk) 20:10, 28 March 2012 (UTC)

Written like advertisement
Parts of the article seem like an advertisement for books or like a news release. Specifically, the sections "Counterculture apologetics" and "Works".

There are many dead links and much self-referencing. --Yammie2009 (talk) 22:53, 14 February 2013 (UTC)

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The ostensible subject of the article just got blocked, but I do agree with this edit. Drmies (talk) 23:46, 14 May 2018 (UTC)