Talk:Heather Has Two Mommies

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Proposed Revisions for Article

1. I am going to break the articles into sections and add four sections according to Wikipedias criteria. The sections will be lead section, summary, analysis and reception sections. 2. For the analysis I plan on adding some information from scholars that elaborates upon both the negative and positive consequences of having this book in the classroom. The article currently has no analysis section. 3. For the reception section, I am going to write about the author's hard time trying to get the article published as well as how people felt about the release of the article. The article currently has no reception section. 4. I also plan to change the ranking of the novel on the ALA's most challenged book from 1990-1999 because it is listed incorrectly.

Bibliography for Sources I am using

Works Cited

BERNSTEIN, MARGARET. "Children's Books on Gay Lifestyles are Causing some People to Squirm." THE SEATTLE TIMES, 1991, NewsBank. Web.

Esposito, and Jennifer. "We'Re here, we'Re Queer, but we'Re just Like Heterosexuals: A Cultural Studies Analysis of Lesbian Themed Children's Books." (2009)Web.

Leo John. "Heather Has a Message." US News & World Report. August 17, 1992. Web.

Miller, Alyson. "Unsuited to Age Group: The Scandals of Children's Literature." College Literature 41.2 (2014): 120-40. Education Database. Web.

Newman, Leslea. ""Heather" and Her Critics." 1997: 149+. Literature Resource Center; Gale. Web. .

---. "The More Things Change ... Heather has Two Mommies Turns 20." 2009: 58. Biography In Context; Gale. Web. .

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May 2005 discussion
Revised "parents are lesbians" to "mother and mother's partner are lesbians". IF her parents were lesbians, then her Dad would be a lesbian!


 * Sorry cowboy, this is an international encyclopedia, not some U.S. red state. &#8212;Christiaan 00:09, 2 Mar 2005 (UTC)

No personal insults, please. That especially includes edit summaries. Thank you. -Willmcw 00:21, Mar 2, 2005 (UTC)

I encourage the anonymous user to see one of J.J.'s new cartoons and learn the dangers of over-politicizing:. &mdash;Sesel 20:14, 2 Mar 2005 (UTC)

Sesel, heal thyself. Apologies to Hippocrates.


 * As far as I know, "parent" is not synonymous with "biological parents". Should a child conceived through sperm donation refer to his mother and his mother's husband?  Parenting is about raising children - hence terms like "foster parent", "step-parent" etc.  Does the book delve into the biological relatedness of Heather to her "mommies"?  If not, then this distinction is not only irrelevant, but inaccurate (I can't say, I haven't read many modern children's books).  I assume that 155.84.57.253 has read the book and can answer this question?  In the assumption of good faith I will also assume that 155.84.57.253 is on a mission to clarify the relatedness of all fictional characters in Wikipedia articles, and isn't just here to push a POV.  I eagerly await them all appearing on his/her user contributions.  Guettarda 20:31, 3 Mar 2005 (UTC)

User:155.84.57.253 claims that because the author uses the term "partner" at some point then we should replace "parents" with partner etc. Apart from the fact that there is nothing inaccurate about using "parent" and that using "parent" reads far more easily and that "whose mother and mother's partner" is silly political correctness, the author actually uses the term "partner" when talking about one in relation to the other, just like people often refer to a father or mother as a "partner" in relation to each other. This article is talking about them both in relation to the child, i.e. parents. Further more, just to push the point home about how ridiculous User:155.84.57.25's edit is, the title of the book is called Heather Has Two Mommies (my emphasis) &mdash;Christiaan 23:38, 3 Mar 2005 (UTC)

Just to show how ridiculous Chrissy's edit is, "he?" thinks he knows more about the book than the author. What am arrogant and utterly foolish edit. 155.84.57.253, 4 Mar 2005


 * You should read what you link to. Both usages exist in that webpage.  More importantly, in talking about an author's book, the author is not the final authority on language in that discussion.  Hence your link, while interesting, has no bearing on this revert war.  Can you cite usage from the book which details the relationship between the two parents, which "Mommy" is the birth mother, etc.?  Can you find something in the Wikipedia MOS which defines that "parent" should only be used for biological parents and that bans terms like "step-parent", "foster-parent", etc.?  It's a simple enough thing to do, if you are so confident that this is the accepted style.  And if it isn't, and you feel strongly, you should make a reasoned argument, supported by usage in English (broadly) that supports that usage and get the MOS changed.  Simple enough.  Guettarda 16:04, 4 Mar 2005 (UTC)

Mothers vs. Parents
LesbianLatke - please discuss reverts and don't call them vandalism. And before you call Christiaan a vandal, have a look at the history of this page. Guettarda 19:30, 9 Mar 2005 (UTC)

Christian didn't consult with me, so I didn't consult with him. And I didn't call (him/her) a vandal - I called the action antifeminist vandalism. Is Christian a male or a female? LesbianLatke 9 Mar 2005


 * Christiaan explained his edits in the edit summary. Usage has been discussed here at length.  You cannot call an explained edit vandalism.  Vandalism is a serious charge.  If you call the edits "antifeminist vandalism" then you are implying that he is an antifeminist vandal.  It's a personal attack, especially based on what he says on his User page.  Given that he (and others) have put a lot of effort into defending this page from someone trying to inject what appeared to be a right-wing POV, it's totally undeserved.


 * In his edit history he said: "I think parents is more accurate, as mother, according to Wikipedia, is typically biological". If you disagree with the reasoning presented, then you should present your argument, and back it up with evidence if possible.  Wikipedia strives for a neutral point of view.  We just had a long argument here with someone trying to change this page to "mother and mother's partner".  "Parents" was accepted as superior wording - "parents" is widely used for non-biological care-givers, and so was readily defensible.  It is more neutral than "mothers" or "mother and mother's partner".


 * To quote from Wikipedia policy:
 * A general purpose encyclopedia is a collection of synthesized knowledge presented from a neutral point of view. To whatever extent possible, encyclopedic writing should steer clear of taking any particular stance other than the stance of the neutral point of view.


 * The neutral point of view attempts to present ideas and facts in such a fashion that both supporters and opponents can agree. Of course, 100% agreement is not possible; there are ideologues in the world who will not concede to any presentation other than a forceful statement of their own point of view. We can only seek a type of writing that is agreeable to essentially rational people who may differ on particular points.


 * Some examples may help to drive home the point I am trying to make.


 * 1. An encyclopedic article should not argue that corporations are criminals, even if the author believes it to be so. It should instead present the fact that some people believe it, and what their reasons are, and then as well it should present what the other side says.


 * 2. An encyclopedia article should not argue that laissez-faire capitalism is the best social system. [...] It should instead present the arguments of the advocates of that point of view, and the arguments of the people who disagree with that point of view.


 * Perhaps the easiest way to make your writing more encyclopedic is to write about what people believe, rather than what is so. If this strikes you as somehow subjectivist or collectivist or imperialist, then ask me about it, because I think that you are just mistaken. What people believe is a matter of objective fact, and we can present that quite easily from the neutral point of view.


 * --Jimbo Wales, Wikipedia founder


 * Hope this clarifies things. Guettarda 20:46, 9 Mar 2005 (UTC)


 * It's my belief that User:LesbianLatke, User:155.84.57.253, User:Can'tStandYa and more are all sockpuppets. Is it bad manners to suggest such things? I think I could make an interesting case based on comments by these users and their similar edit history. &#8212;Christiaan 22:16, 9 Mar 2005 (UTC)


 * It is bad to casually throw around accusations. However, in this instance there are good reasons to believe that a single user is employing multiple names fraudulently. Sock puppets are not, in and of themselves, bad. But when they are used to give the impression of a consensus, or otherwise skew the editing process, then that counts as abuse and is viewed harshly. The user was already warned about that on the talk:List of political epithets. If the behavior continues there are official procedures for dealing with it. -Willmcw 22:32, Mar 9, 2005 (UTC)

Since a few of you boys are so defensive, I will stay out of your little clubhouse. Happy now? LesbianLatke 9 Mar 2005

Massachusetts Law
Joint adoption by unmarried couples (heterosexual or homosexual) was illegal in Massachusetts until 1993. This is well after the publication date of the book. Prior to 1993, only married couples or a single individual could adopt a child. Two single individuals could not adopt the same child prior to 1993. Therefore, Heather's "parent was a lesbian" rather than "parents", because the other partner had no legal rights to the child under late 1980s Massachusetts state law. See   155.84.57.253, March 11 2005


 * So with what word do we replace "foster-parent"? Guettarda 18:47, 11 Mar 2005 (UTC)


 * Apart from not giving a rats ass about authoritarian Massachusets law (the book was written in Massachusets, not this international encyclopedia) "parents" is not some lawyer's jargon but a term to refer to the primary carers who involve themselves in the task of raising a child to an independent adult. I must say I feel sorry for the half of American citizens who have to live with this kind of bullshit every day. -Christiaan 19:01, 11 Mar 2005 (UTC)

Massachusetts at the time had, and continues to have, some of the most liberal and "gay friendly" laws in the United States. Hardly authoritarian. Chris, perhaps you should restrict your comments and foul language to topics you actually know about. 155.84.57.253, March 14 2005


 * And as I've pointed out on a number of occasions this is an international encyclopedia and I really could care less the relative nature of laws in the U.S. Telling someone they can't adopt a child because of their sexual arrangement is authoritarian. It appears many people agree or the law would still exist. Sorry to disappoint you. Perhaps you should stick to comic books and ethnic slurs? —Christiaan 14:58, 14 Mar 2005 (UTC)

Nice cover for your ignorance - going ballistic. You seem incapable of maintaining a civil discourse. By the way, what's an ethic slur? 155.84.57.253, March 14 2005

Since you won't fess up to your own quote - I will have to requote you here for the record. Otherwise this exchange makes no sense. "It appears many people agree or the law would still exist. Sorry to disappoint you. Perhaps you should stick to comic books and ethic slurs?" 155.84.57.253, March 14 2005

List of Banned books
Atlant, I agree that it's relevant that the book is banned, but why is it "merely having that as a cat is not sufficient"? It seems to me that the way to discuss that a book is frequently challenged and banned is to discuss it in the article text and include it in the category -- which itself links at the top level to the list of banned books. I haven't noticed any of the other banned books linking to the list, and I don't see why the list of other banned books is relevant to the fact that this particular book is often banned, especially since the catrgory makes that information available. Deborah-jl Talk 15:42, 17 February 2006 (UTC)

Tenth anniversary edition
It might be worth noting that this edition (which is the one you'll get from the Amazon link) doesn't mention artificial insemination, or indeed anything about the way Heather was conceived or born. The Wednesday Island 17:45, 29 June 2006 (UTC)

WTF?
How is classified as a childrens book?!?24.144.137.244 01:02, 10 February 2007 (UTC)


 * Just a reminder: the purpose of Wikipedia "talk" pages is to discuss the article, not the subject of the article. And your use of "What the Fuck", even hidden behind the fig leaf of "WTF", doubtless violates WP:CIV.


 * Atlant 02:22, 10 February 2007 (UTC)


 * well seeing as wiki it self classifies it as such, id say hes right (the first guy, the one with no name) p.s. WTF could mean "Wheres The Fudge" he might just be hungry Д narchistPig (talk) 02:09, 27 January 2008 (UTC)

Political Ramifications
This book, and the politics behind it, became an issue during the 1992 Presidential campaign and 1994 congressional campaign. It was frequently lampooned and, in 1994, possibly contributed to the perception that the Democratic Party was out of touch with mainstream values and to the Republicans' sweeping success (that was the Gingrich 'Contract w/ America' election). It would be worthwhile to add a short section on the book's use and possible impact on 1990s electoral politics-- if that can be done without constant, dueling POV issues.169.253.4.21 (talk) 14:41, 20 December 2007 (UTC)Texxasfinn


 * I certainly agree-- and we have an existing example in the use of the book Jenny lives with Eric and Martin by the political movement that created Section 28. The Wednesday Island (talk) 17:33, 20 December 2007 (UTC)

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I just corrected source #8, which was broken. Sac304 (talk) 05:16, 30 January 2019 (UTC)

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Proposed Edits
Hello All! I am a student and my final project for class is to revise a lower ranking article and try to revamp it. For this article I will be: 1. Adding onto the lead section to encapsulate more information about the book as a whole. 2. Adding more information about the overall reception about the book to show more case by case details 3. Adding various sources to the analysis section since there is only one source cited. 4. Fixing minor grammatical issues and working to facilitate the flow of the overall article. Please let me know if there is something I should be aware of! Amycazares (talk) 07:17, 5 May 2021 (UTC)