Talk:Pedophile movement/Archive 2

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The point of view outlined in this (very good!) article is seriously missing in paedophilia. Someone should expand that article to include at least a mention of this.
 * The article was moved from boylover, deleting that articles history and talk page. User: Zanthalon repeatedly deleted without explanation links to organizations that help "child lovers" and children who were "loved" alike. Get-back-world-respect 22:15, 11 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * The changes to the external links that you have made were not supported by other people who have been involved in editing the page. Your troll-like vandalism is not appreciated. The links you are adding are already on the child sexual abuse page where they belong. Pedophilia and child sexual abuse are not the same thing. Please desist from trying to blur the distinction. --Zanthalon 22:18, 11 Jul 2004 (UTC)
 * Right, not every "childlover" becomes a child abuser. Some can be helped, e.g. by Stop it now A campaign to prevent Child Sexual Abuse by calling on potential abusers to seek help.
 * Some children that were "loved" can find help as well: Male Survivor - Overcoming sexual victimization of boys and men.
 * Please do not restrict links from here to pages where theses aspects are neglected. Get-back-world-respect 23:10, 11 Jul 2004 (UTC)

Incidentally, the discussion of the boylover is still there. Talk:Boylover --Zanthalon 22:20, 11 Jul 2004 (UTC)
 * You should have move talk and history with the rest of the page. Get-back-world-respect 23:10, 11 Jul 2004 (UTC)

The Difference Between Pedophilia and Child Sexual Abuse
Links that relate to abuse recovery and the sexual victimisation of children do not belong on this page. Pedophilia by itself does not imply any action on the sexual attraction at all. Whether it is a paraphilia or not, pedophilia is not an action in and of itself; therefore it does not have any victims. I am removing once again the links that are already appropriately placed on the child sexual abuse page. Zanthalon 23:33, 11 Jul 2004 (UTC)
 * The links do not only relate to abuse recovery and sexual victimisation of children. Just read. One focusses on helping pedophiles to deal with their paraphilia, so this is exactly the right article to have it. Also note that many who were once "loved" by a "childlover" have severe problems with that experience later, so the other link is equally appropriate. Get-back-world-respect 23:41, 11 Jul 2004 (UTC)

Please see Talk:Pedophilia and Talk:Child_sexual_abuse for more discussion on this same topic.

Requests for Comment
Both the links in question and the behaviour of Get-back-world-respect have been submitted to Requests_for_comment. If you wish to comment on this issue, please do so here: Requests_for_comment/Get-back-world-respect. --Zanthalon 14:44, 12 Jul 2004 (UTC)

Boylover
The term boylover was not invented by pedophiles, but probably comes from pederast and is a neutral term.Wildt 01:19, 12 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * While I understand that this maye be intended as a neutral term as used by some as such, it doesn't sound that neutral to me. In fact, the entire article seems like a page promoting "childlovers" rather than an NPOV article on a subject. Just my $0.02. BCorr | &#1041;&#1088;&#1072;&#1081;&#1077;&#1085; 20:03, 12 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * I can understand how this might seem to be a page promoting a particular point of view. The goal, however, is to present the issue objectively. I believe that this page has evolved out of a need to address the social movement of minor-attracted adults who seek societal and legal acceptance for their sexual attraction. This is not properly addressed in Pedophilia which focuses more on the clinical definitions and history of pedophilia. --Zanthalon 21:58, 12 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * If that's the goal, I'd suggest that the article should directly address the social movement, rather than the difference between the definition of pedophiles and that of childlovers. It should talk about 1) How there are generally defined, 2) how they define themselves, 3) What the goals and work of the movement are and 4) How they are organized, what they have achieved to date. Thanks, BCorr | &#1041;&#1088;&#1072;&#1081;&#1077;&#1085; 22:02, 12 Jul 2004 (UTC)
 * Presenting an issue objectively cannot mean taking the view of a partisan group, using their definitions and advertising their websites. Wildt, who used the term if not pedophiles? Usually foreign terms are used when talking about paraphilia, I do not believe that the league of the dyslexic fought for the new term. Zanthalon, paraphilias are not legally forbidden. Abusing children is forbidden. It can be prevented by proper treatment. Get-back-world-respect 23:50, 12 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * In Danish there is Drenge-kærlighed (boylove) which is a translation of pederasty. I belive I have seen older British newspapers calling pedophiles childlovers. Vern Bullough mentions that pedophilia used to be called "knabenliebe". But I see now that the article doesn't say the term was invented by pedophiles.


 * BTW this article is 37KB long. Wildt 18:25, 14 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * I don't know if the moderators (or how are they called here?) look at the pages in question, but the last revisions (especially after the changes made by 'neutrality' and some others), seem to indicate a very biased view, which is currently 'anti'. While the feelings may be understandable, in all other issues that have a dichotomy in feelings and arguments, the wikipedia solves the matter by representing both views equally. Why isn't this done here? - mass

The Childlove Movement
I have recrafted this article, using BCorr's excellent suggestions as a basis for doing so. The article now focuses on the childlove movement and its history rather than on a semantic discussion of the terminology used.

While I understand the concerns of Get-back-world-respect regarding the issues of the prevention of child sexual abuse, treatment of offenders and recovery for victims, I still do not think that this article is the place to put links to the organizations he is supporting. Several leading pedophilia experts, including Dr. Fred Berlin of the National Institute for the Study, Prevention and Treatment of Sexual Trauma at Johns Hopkins University in Baltimore, Maryland, and Dr. John Bradford, a psychiatrist specializing in pedophilia at the University of Ottawa have concluded that most exclusive type pedophiles, ie, those whose primary sexual attraction is to children do not abuse. Their data shows that the majority of sexual abuse is perpetrated by so-called situational offenders, people whose primary attraction is not to children, but who turn to children for sexual purposes due to adverse factors in their lives or an inability to attract sexual partners within their primary attraction group.


 * This article is interesting and probably useful in conveying attitudes among a segment of the population. However, it cannot possibly be viewed as NPOV when it uses terms like "consensual" to describe sexual relations with a minor, and especially a pre-pubescent minor. A relationship between an adult and a child is never an equal one and this article presents the issue only from the adult's point of view. Let us suppose that we use the term "childlover" only to describe non-violent pedophiles. Now suppose any of these children grows up with an altered view of relationships, perhaps has difficulty relating sexually and emotionally to peers, and perhaps most significantly feels, as an adult, that they were coerced, that they felt pressured and intimidated to engage in "consensual" acts, and that they were taken advantage of. But the adult member of that "relationship" thinks it was consensual. What recourse should that now-adult child have against his "lover."


 * Another flaw of the article is that, after acknowledging the descriptive difference between pedophiles and ephebophiles, it never again bothers with the distinction. A relationship between a non-peer and a teenager is at least biologically appropriate if of tainted equality, but a relationship with a prepubscent child is not even biologically appropiate. In this article, they are all "childlovers." If an objective of the movement is to change people's perception of pedophilia, I fail to see anything in this article which makes any move in that direction. -- Cecropia | Talk 03:46, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * Interesting observations. I have made some additional edits to reflect these observations. In particular, I have mentioned that childlovers argue that children are capable of consent. I have also added a paragraph pointing out that ephebophiles have some different issues and that they argue that sexual maturity and adulthood begin with puberty.


 * I also point out that most childlovers claim not to advocate penetrative intercourse with pre-pubescent children.


 * You wrote: If an objective of the movement is to change people's perception of pedophilia, I fail to see anything in this article which makes any move in that direction. The object of the article is not to argue the case of childlovers but to provide information about what they believe and advocate. --Zanthalon 04:19, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * I didn't say that was the object of the article but the article says it is an objective of the movement, and I didn't see anything in the descriptions of the movement in the article which would encourage empathy toward the movement or its members. Thanks for your response. -- Cecropia | Talk 04:25, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)

Logical questions raised by assertions
I appreciate your efforts to clarify the article, but the clarifications in themselves raise logical questions. I've interspersed some comments:


 * The primary misconceptions that childlovers usually seek to dispel are that they seek only a sexual relationship with the child and that they seek to engage in sexual activities that could be physically harmful to the child. They argue in the first case that the physical relationship is simply a manifestation of the emotional and spiritual love that exists between the participants, rather than being the raison d'etre of the relationship. Once again, the adult's (controlling individual's) POV. If anything this emphasizes the inequality of the relationship. In the second case, many childlovers wish to point out that they do not seek penetrative sexual relations with pre-pubescent children, but only to engage in what they would consider to be age-appropriate activities such as snuggling, kissing, fondling or oral sex. Fondling? 'Oral sex'? Age appropriate? Maybe for a 16 or 17 yo. Again no acknowledgment of the inherent difference between pre- and post-pubesence. And again, by specifying what the "childlover" does or doesn't seek, and what they consider age-appropriate emphasizes their sense of control and actual control of a "consensual" relationship.


 * Childlovers point out that there is ample scientific and medical evidence that shows quite clearly that children are sexual from a very early age. And that they wish to engage in sex with adults? I think you'd better give some citations other than advocacy websites. Therefore, they believe that there is no harm in a child engaging in sexual activities as long as there is informed consent. What makes consent with a child "informed"? "Let's take off our clothes? OK?" "Is it OK if I touch you there? Does that feel good? I won't hurt you. OK?" "This is our secret, right? Most childlovers do not support age of consent laws None at all? 12 years? 6 years? 6 months?, arguing that with proper sexual education who will be writing that curriculum?, children can be capable of consenting to intimate physical activities.


 * Ephebophiles are also largely opposed to consent legislation. They argue that in former times, puberty was considered to be the threshold of adulthood in many societies and that it is a natural indication that the body is sexually mature. They believe that ages of consent are legal definitions that are both arbitrary and discriminatory. So they are empowered substitute their own judgment? Why?


 * There are also a number of efforts underway to define the ethics of childlove and to create an ethical framework in which consensual adult-child relationships could take place. They had better address the legal issues in tandem, unless we are creating an ethical basis of violating widely accepted law. Otherwise it can simply be viewed as the age-old efforts of criminals to justify criminality. Much of these efforts are based upon the works of Frans Gieles and Gerald Roelofs. The primary efforts have taken place under the auspices of IPCE, the Human Face of Pedophilia and CLogo.
 * -- Cecropia | Talk 04:50, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * This article urgently needs a section Criticism. Get-back-world-respect 07:05, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * An article about a controversial person or group should accurately describe their views, no matter how misguided or repugnant. It is not usually necessary to also describe opposing views. Retrieved from Guidelines for Controversial Articles --Zanthalon 18:43, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * I would rather integrate this article into pedophilia. See my suggestion on Wikipedia talk:Requests for comment/Get-back-world-respect --Moonlight shadow 20:19, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * No article on Wikipedia is entitled to present debatable views without rebuttal. I think GBWR's proposal to have a Criticism section is generous. And that they "believe" that children can form their own relationships is arguable under at least three grounds: (1) that they objectively believe this rather use this as a rationale for their desires; (2) it is legally insupportable as parents have the right by law to determine the appropriateness of children's relationships--what standing has a pedophile to challenge this?; (3) a pedophile's belief about a child's maturity is a legal nullity. -- Cecropia | Talk 20:03, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * I do not think that the form this article is currently taking makes it appropriate for inclusion in the pedophilia article. Of course, the whole issue is open for discussion, but I have moved this article in the direction of discussing the childlove movement per se, while leaving the pedophilia page to deal with the clinical and historical issues of pedophilia.


 * While I agree with Cecropia's assertion that childlovers do not have a legal basis as parents have a right to determine the appropriateness, I do not think that this is an issue for this page. This is a youth rights issue. The article already mentions that many childlovers are also supporters of youth rights.


 * The issue of a child's maturity is an issue for age of consent legislation, and this article already mentions that most childlovers have problems with current consent legislation.


 * Bearing that in mind, I am continuing to work to address the issues and concerns you brought up yesterday. But it is not likely to happen overnight; I do have a life outside the Internet to lead as well. :) --Zanthalon 20:59, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * I agree that this should redirect to pedophilia where it could have its own paragraph. In my eyes the term "childlover" for pedophile is an offense to every mother and every father who loves his child while not being sexually attracted to it. And presenting the fight of paraphiles for the legality of sex with children as a youth rights issue would be called sick by an overwhelming majority of the population, even though not the majority of the users who find such an "encyclopedia article". Get-back-world-respect 21:45, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * Get-back-world-respect shows bias and prejudice in the assertion that that the term "childlover" is offensive. Should you be editing this section when you can't leave your bias behind? Who says that your points of view are more valid than that of "child lovers?" Furthermore, nobody objects to the use of "survivor" for those who have been sexually abused. "Child lover" is a term that pedophiles apparently give themselves, like those who choose to call themselves "survivors."  Why is the chosen terminology of pedophiles offensive, but that of others not?  Whether or not you find the way they frame their objectives sick or not, it isn't your place to edit or censor.  If this is supposed to be balanced and objective, then both points of view must be presented. Madeline


 * The term "childlover" as used here is offensive as it implicates that only people who are sexually attracted to children really love them. The term "survivor" is only used in an external link, and many abused children commit suicide, so those who do not are indeed survivors, even if it would be as inappropriate to call them so in an encyclopedia article as it is unacceptable to call pedophiles "childlovers". Interesting to see that "Madeline"'s only contribution to wikipedia is in defense of pedophiles. Get-back-world-respect 03:35, 15 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * Pedophiles have never claimed that the term "child lover" applies only to them. They use it as a defense against the loaded term "pedophile" and it accurately reflects their true feelings and intentions.  You're wrong on that count; pedophiles certainly don't claim a monopoly on the ability to love children.  "Many abused children commit suicide?"  Perhaps about 0.01% of them?  Where are the figures, GBWR?  You might also be interested to know that many non-abused children also commit suicide.  You'd surely be interested to compare the rates of suicide to a control group.  If it is inappropriate to use the label "survivors" give themselves, only then it is inappropriate to use the label "child lovers" give themselves. Your remark about my only contribution to wikipedia is wrong, GBWR.  As it happens I've made dozens of contributions to other areas before I registered my username, so you might want to have a think about your pithy remarks before using them.

Offensive links
I do not think that wikipedia should link to grossly offensive pages, not even for reasons of "documenting". Links to communities of people who propagate sex with children or child pornography, which are both crimes in most countries, in my eyes fall under that category. At the article Anti-French sentiment in the United States a link "Fuckfrance.com" was added. Such a title is totally unacceptable for a website, and we should not advertise such things under any condition. What would you say if we listed crap like FuckUSA.org or FuckIsrael.com? At both George W. Bush and John Kerry even all "critical" links were deleted. I do not see why there should not be a limit of indecency for link lists of other controversial articles as well. What do others think? I ask the same question at Talk:anti-American sentiment, Talk:anti-Semitism and Talk:List of self-identified pederasts and pedophiles. Get-back-world-respect 22:08, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)
 * Zanthalon readded such links without explanation even within the article as if they were wiki-links. Check Wikipedia_talk:External_links, this clearly should not be done, amongst others for the obvious reason that it makes it difficult for the reader to distinguish between wikipedia links and external links. He also removed without justification a comment that the term "childlover" is seen as a euphemism. Get-back-world-respect 22:10, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * This was an oversight on my part. I noted your earlier comment to this effect, but copied in the new text to the wrong window, which edited the wrong version of the document. Thank you for pointing this out. I have now added the links in question to External Links. --Zanthalon 22:44, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)
 * Ok. Get-back-world-respect 22:52, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * The trouble with deleting links because we find them offensive is that offensive is subjective. What you may find offensive, others may not. I might not be as offended by a 'fuckusa.org' site as you might think, since I tend to have a somewhat anti-American point of view. There are a lot of links on Wikipedia that I find offensive, such as links to skinhead and neo-Nazi organizations. That being said, I fully support that they are there. Deleting them and pretending they are not there is not going to make them go away. I am not familiar with the debates in anti-American Sentiment or in anti-French Sentiment in the United States so I cannot comment at all on why these links were deleted.
 * There are laws that define a lot of what those groups propagate as crimes. That can objectively said, and I am not even sure if it is legal to willingly link to such sites. Get-back-world-respect 22:52, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * While what these groups advocate are considered illegal in many jurisdictions, talking about them is not. Smoking pot is illegal but telling people how to do it or grow marijuana is not illegal. Blowing up buildings with bombs is also illegal under most circumstances, but having a website telling people how to make bombs from household chemicals is not illegal. As far as I know, none of these groups are encouraging anybody to actually break the law. They are advocating changing the law and discussing ethics on the basis of a society where the laws were different than they currently are. If any of these groups were actively inciting people to break the law, you would have a very valid point in asking for them to be deleted. --Zanthalon
 * Child pornography is prohibited. Some of the groups you listed are known for spreading it. And I do not think you are as shameless as saying that these groups do not use to encourage pedophiles to practice their paraphilia. Which other reason would there be to delete links to organizations that help pedophiles? Get-back-world-respect 23:13, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * Could you please point out to me which of these groups are known for spreading [child pornography]? Could you provide proof of this allegation? As far as I know, none of these groups are engaged in or facilitating any illegal activities at all. --Zanthalon 23:17, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)
 * So you have never gotten copies of the magazines with nude children - all "over the age of consent"? Ask NAMBLA then. Get-back-world-respect 23:35, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * I have never received any magazines of nude children at all. Furthermore, since I am not a member of NAMBLA, I am wholly unfamiliar with any printed products they may sell. But I take it you have received their literature? Then perhaps you are in a better position to tell us what was inside? --Zanthalon 23:50, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)
 * Do a google search and find out what people who still have contact to the real world found out about NAMBLA. Get-back-world-respect 00:59, 15 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * The reason to delete the links would be that the sites are not helpful for the article reader and provide no valuable information. The fact that the organisations maintaining these sites might have also distributed child porn is irrelevant. They don't do it on these sites, so why should we care? Paranoid 05:39, 14 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * I think that the definition of childlover in the first two paragraphs is sufficiently detailed. I do not think that adding the word 'euphemism' adds to the definition at all. --Zanthalon 22:34, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)
 * As you wrote that an article about a controversial group does not need to cover the view of the majority, it still does have to prominently point out the controversy. Get-back-world-respect 22:52, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * I think that the controversy surrounding this page is sufficiently attested to in the notation at the top that the neutrality of the article is in dispute. --Zanthalon 23:53, 13 Jul 2004 (UTC)
 * No, neutrality tags are meant to be temporary while the content is worked out on the talk page. Then they get removed. Rmhermen 01:17, Jul 14, 2004 (UTC)


 * My point precisely. Some of us here are collaborating to make this article neutral, whilst others are resorting to being as obstructionist as possible. I believe that a consensus can be reached about this article in such a manner that the neutrality notice can be removed. --Zanthalon 01:24, 14 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * If there is controversy, please at least point out an external source claiming that there is. Your assertion is not sufficient. Paranoid 05:39, 14 Jul 2004 (UTC)
 * I want to include external links that show that there is a controversy, but a certain interest group is blocking it. Cecropia's comments show I am not alone with my view, and if you still have some contact to the real world you know that this article is extremely biased for those who call themselves "boylovers". By the way, a simple google search shows that "boylove" is the only term frequently used. Get-back-world-respect 00:59, 15 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * If you want to include external links, then present them for discussion here. You have already included your external links on a number of other pages, and the page here links to those pages. So I do not see any further need to include them here. But if you really think so, then try to provide logical arguments rather than your own biased point of view.


 * Is this article biased in favour of boylovers? I was unaware of that. I for one am not a boylover at all. So I have no reason whatsoever to write an article biased in favour of boylovers. But if you really think so, present your arguments and we can discuss it further. --Zanthalon 01:16, 15 Jul 2004 (UTC)


 * I insist that a page about people who are pedophiles but in no way harmful because non-violent and caring for consensus with children who are easily influenced by them needs external links to organizations that help pedophiles by offering them to help with psychological treatment. This article nearly completely disregards the common opinion that "childlover" is a euphemist term people use for decriminalizing the crime of child abuse. And if you are not a pedophile, why are pedophilia related topics the only ones that show up in your contribution list and why do you try to  edit all those article such that they shed a positive light on pedophiles? Get-back-world-respect 02:25, 15 Jul 2004 (UTC)

Text moved from Talk:Boylove below
A little more to the article. And the two have been made into one.

I know that this has been discussed before. However I still vote for integration with the article on pedophilia. As with most terms there is no one and only definition of pedophilia. Just as heterosexuality and homosexuality it is not only about making love, but also falling in love. It depends on the individual pedophile, whether he considers sex important to him and morally acceptable. Defining girllovers and boylovers as "non-sadistic" is not very specific either. I believe that most situational offenders are not sadistic, even if the sex is not fully consensual. --Moon light shadow 09:30, 9 Apr 2004 (UTC)


 * Pedophilia seems something apart from boylover / girllover. I think the reason this article is so small is that no one has taken the time to build it up because of the nature of the topic.


 * Anyone feeling adventerous and want to goto the Nambla website to research their arguements as to why man boy love should be accepted? :)--ShaunMacPherson 05:22, 20 Apr 2004 (UTC)


 * This discussion should go to child sexual abuse section "Motivation for outlawing sex with children", because not all offenders are pedophiles. What would you consider the difference between Pedophilia and girl/boy love? I think it is not acceptable to declare girl and boy lovers as good guys by definition. Most pedophiles actually love children and do not want to harm them and in many cases do not perform sexual acts with children at all. However just like with heterosexuality and homosexuality there are a few rapists and sadists, although most cases of child sexual abuse by force (and also overall) are committed by situational offenders, who consider children acceptable victims rather than prefering them. The problem is that all these acts are blamed to pedophilia in the public perception and consensual acts are considered impossible. -- Moon light shadow 09:34, 20 Apr 2004 (UTC)

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''Some researchers have considered girllovers attracted to children not real pedophiles, because often they are not as fixated on their deviant sexuality as boylovers, and more often curable. Also boylovers more frequently relapse after treatment. Boylovers statistically prefer children a little older.''

I took this section out for discussion here. This is quite a claim, I'd want the names of the major proponents of these ideas, and the counter arguements (science is very rarely one sided) as to this claim that homosexual pedophilia is more 'deviant' then heterosexual pedophilia. As well this term of 'curable' is more then a little vague, and suggests bias since I'd surmise that boy and girl lovers do not think they are in need of curing. --ShaunMacPherson 05:22, 20 Apr 2004 (UTC)


 * "Also boylovers more frequently relapse after treatment." This is already said in more detail in Pedophilia. -- Moon light shadow 09:34, 20 Apr 2004 (UTC)


 * I cannot seem to find the relevant information in pedophilia indicating that homosexual pedophiles are any less reponsive to treatment than heterosexual pedophiles. Give me one more hint?


 * Sorry, I was not quite right. It actually does not give more details, when comparing girl lovers to boy lovers, but only says the same. At the beginning of section "Underage sex": "The probability is much higher for boylovers compared to girllovers." However it includes the percentage of delinquent pedophiles who relapse. --Moon light shadow 15:10, 20 Apr 2004 (UTC)

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Page Name: I think that this page needs to be either re-named "Boylovers and Girllovers" or that we need to stop the Girllover redirect and put real content there. Alternatively, we could use the generic term "Childlovers" as the page title and redirect both the "Girllover" and "Boylover" pages to it.

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This article has improved drastically since I commented on it last. Very good work to all involved! --ShaunMacPherson 14:58, 8 Jul 2004 (UTC)

boylover, pedophile, child molester
These two paragraphs are flawed. However I can not fix easily them.
 * The term boylover is taken as a contrast with the terms pedophile or child molester. Many boylovers consider pedophile to be the more general term; that is, all boylovers are pedophiles, but not all pedophiles are boylovers. This is because pedophile would also include girllovers and child molesters, whereas boylovers differentiate themselves from the former and distance themselves from the latter.


 * A boylover is not a child molester. To assume that all boylovers are child molesters is equally fallacious as to assume that all heterosexuals are rapists. The fact that one expresses a sexual preference does not mean that that person is willing to break the law or harm others merely to achieve sexual gratification. Boylovers condemn child molesters and rapists of children as vehemently as any other sector of the population.

They try to make two many distinctions at once (boylover <-> girllover, pedophiles and child abusers overlap). The term child molester is not used in the common way, but to refer only to those persons, who have sexual contacts to children in a way, that child lovers consider unacceptable. This should be made clear in the article. --Moon light shadow 19:30, 8 Jul 2004 (UTC)

I have created a new page, Childlover that encompasses both boylovers and girllovers and redirected the boylover page to it. This is more accurate, rather than talking about girllove-specific issues on a boylove page. Zanthalon