User:חיים וייצמן/sandbox

oh! my dear wife! I can't certainly know who you are! but you are great!. I am sure you look is great and your traits are exceptional.. but also, merely due to the fact that you're a part of a great process! i will explain :) 3 years ago.. I decided that i'm going headfirst into the way which called Shdduchim.. I knew what I'm looking for, I had a clear vision of how my home is gonna be.. I HAD NO CLUE OF WHAT I'M GONNA GET THROUGH!!! I subscribed to a Shidduchim site called "Hidabrut 7 Brachot"... this, indeed, was my fist step into the complicated wold of Shidduchim... I'm not gonna elaborate on that.. but essentially, an about 5 months of speculated matches, online-chats, but no more... and then it came!, my grandma signing me to pick up the phone because "I have a phone call".. I did.. in the other side was a woman voice, "are you Chaim Weizmann?" "who's that? (me) and she answered "it is Shlomit from Culanu Shadchanim" the response elicited was unpredictable! i coughed nervously while she giggled at me, I genetally tried to tried to inquire about her identity (I sent some application at the recent time before) our conversation was nice she turned out to be national-religious oriented, who studies in Charedi Seminar until recently with great passion for writing .. and eventually after about 20 minutes or so (while evading my grandma's ears) we agreed to meet on Tuesday (it was Sunday at this time).. (later on provided my grandma with some phony excuses of the caller identity.. I can't believe it actually worked until this day!) the same day.. i'm taking a nap at my own home, when I got a phone call from my grandma.. "Chaim, the same universe representative (yup! that's what I told her) just called and asked for you number.. I gave her.. I hope I did the right thing".. WHAT!!! I nearly screamed! (at the time.. my parents didn't knew about my intention to start Shidduchim.. and I hadn't My own cell-phone at this time.. so she actually gave them our home's number), "no.. it's okay..." I mumbled into the phone try to conceal my concerns... the following act was.. to keep the phone within my reach of course! no call so far... my entire family was gathering around the computer while I filled my first subscription to the Open -University when my sister picked up the ringing phone.. with asking face.. she extended it to me saying "Chaim.. It's for you!" on the other side was no other than Shlomit! everyone were staring at me at this point.. the only word I could mumble was "afterward!" (please afterward!)she suspiciously responded "okay.." . after I shut down the phone my mom predictable question was "who that was?" "the university Representative do you remember? they had another suggestion for me... I can't get rid of them!!" surprisingly... it worked! maybe 30 minutes later.. "afterward" arrived.. my father just missed the phone.. " 02?! who is that??!" and tried to make a call back!! my heart beated widely!... well a short investigation and he knows EXACTLY WHAT IT IS ALL ABOUT! miraculously!! the call just failed over and over again! when he gave up.. I imminently took the phone and tried myself... she answered (after several attempt from me too) the whole matter was "simply" better way for me on the public transportation... (c'mon!) Tuesday! following Shlomit advice.. I embarked the bus toward Beit Shemesh, there, too! I needed to confront freinds from the Yeshiva, give them, the same-nature excuses... BEIT SHEMESH! disembarked the bus (on the wrong station.. but what?!) and tried to find my way to the date location ("BIG" center) expectedly though.. i am far by 20 min by foot! after a long wandering though, B"H I arrived by very slight late... my heart is beating strongly (I didn't know even how she looked like!) on the meeting point.. (book's store.. mutual preference) stood before me two girls with the same look expected (height, hair color, religious orientation etc..), one of them looked at me though... "are you Shlomit?" she smiled and nodded, "ok I'm Chaim! nice to meet you!" she stammered "my father, needs to take me.. he's..." I thought 'yea.. it's not for her'... her father appeared all of a sudden! "Hello my name is***" (sorry forgot.. as well as the following events).. then.. we both agreed that a book-store is not the ultimate place for schmooze.. we headed therefore, to the nearby coffee house... we sat in front each other.. and ordered a drink... "what kind of music do you like?" (it was me), mmm... rihana.. yours? (didn't mean much for me) "classical music, you know, Beethoven etc.. but I can tolerate other kinds.. except Mizrahi Music". she made a repulsive face.. yes.. we're on the same opinion in this.. "what do you know about vampires?" she asked.. "well Iv'e just read about it recently.. *Wikipedia stuff.. including various sources of the origin of the myths*" the conversation went comfortable and smoothly, I really thought that my initial assessment was wrong... but then..., "do you really wear this white shirt all the time?".. "yes! it's my uniform as a Yeshiva Bochur and my favorite as well" .. "well" she answered " usually I don't want to insult the guy.. but.. you know.. I don't think it is for me..." .. "why?!" I asked inappropriately.. "idk.. you're too tall.. and the clothing thing.. I need to think about it.." "OK" I answered, "I'll pay" she said, "no.. why? I should!", "for that?!" she giggled while pointing at the ice-coffee which she earlier expressed her disappointed from, "yes" I answered.. (quite amused though). we parted then.. and inappropriately I said "lehitraot!" (see you later) quite ignored.. she waved me slightly.. while I'm leaving and she's waiting to her father... at the way back it was very obvious to me.. it was my first meeting, as well as my last. my thoughts about the recent event didn't let me off.. it was really a milestone experience... a single phone call at the yeshiva made it clear.. move on...

8 months later! Bein-Hazmanim, just came back from a wonderful trip to Eilat with my parents, I was sitting at my grandma's home on my computer when all of a sudden I received this E-mail from a Shidduchim site named Jwed... says "I'm in Israel too!" I was confused.. after looking at her Shidduch page I sent a message, bear my phone number and says that I'd happy to know more...