User:AHSAN MARWAT

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This is my first page in Wikipedia and i hope all those people who involved wikipedia like to my little bit article.... best regard Ahsan

RESPECT

Respect means a lot of different things for different people. It includes taking someone's feelings, needs, thoughts, ideas, wishes and preferences into consideration. It also means taking all of these seriously and giving them worth and value.

In fact, giving someone respect seems similar to valuing them and their thoughts, feelings, etc. It also seems to include acknowledging them, listening to them, being truthful with them, and accepting their individuality and idiosyncrasies.

BEHAVIOUR :

Respect can be shown through behavior and it can also be felt. We can act in ways which are considered respectful, yet we can also feel respect for someone and feel respected by someone. Because it is possible to act in ways that do not reflect how we really feel, the feeling of respect is more important than the behavior without the feeling. When the feeling is there, the behavior will naturally follow.

SURVIVAL :

Going back in time, respect played an important role in survival. If we think of a small tribe wandering in the desert we can imagine that a person not respected by anyone could be left behind and die. Such a person was considered to have no worth, no importance, no value to the group.

CHANGING VALUES :

Nowadays it seems much more possible- to survive without being respected. Someone could, for example, inherit a large sum of money, have many servants and employees and have salesmen constantly calling on him and catering to him, yet not be respected in the least. Someone could also make a lot of money through having a particular talent which is valued, such as being able to dunk a basketball yet not really be respected, perhaps because of the way he treats others.

IMPORTANCE :

When we are respected we gain the voluntary cooperation of people. We don't have to use as much of our energy and resources trying to get our needs met. When people respect one another there are fewer conflicts.

In summary, it is for both evolutionary and practical reasons that respect is important, and also why we simply feel better when we are respected.

Respect seems to be like a boomerang in the sense that you must send it out before it will come back to you. Respect cannot be demanded or forced, though sometimes people mistakenly believe that it can be commanded.

SHOWING & EARNING :
If respecting someone means respecting their feelings and their survival needs, then if a person does not respect your feelings, they don't respect you. If those in positions of power and authority do not respect your needs and feelings, they will not earn your respect.

MY HOBBY
We all do some kind of a work either to earn our live hood or to make a career. Hobby is something which we enjoy doing, we like indulging ourselves in the activity during our leisure or free time. We all have our likes and dislike. We enjoy doing something more than others. A hobby gives us pleasure for we do it, for the love of the work and not under compulsion to earn. Thus, it is more fulfilling and gives us more satisfaction and joy.

Pursuing a hobby also increase one's efficiency, interest and ability. It gives an opportunity to full development of one's various aspects of personality. Hobbies like collecting stamps, listening music, drawing, gardening, playing an indoor or outdoor sport, writing, reading, bird watching, collecting antiques, photography etc, are very educative. We learn many things with practical insights which we cannot learn from.

One of the favourite things that 1 enjoy doing is gardening. I like the joy of beholding a blooming garden, a green lawn and greener plants at home. Therefore, it has become my hobby now.

I caught this habit of nurturing plants from my mother. Now with her help and my renewed interest we have managed to maintain a small garden in front of our porch. It has a green carpet of velvet grass and a small trimmed hedge growing around it.

We have also prepared flowerbeds in which we have planted a few rose bushes, lilies, sunflowers, mogra, China rose and colourful variety of seasonal flowers. We also have grown gladioli, orchids, chrysanthemums, germaniums, jasmines, ferns and crotons. Recently, bought Christmas tree.

Everyday after 1 return from my school and have my lunch, 1 rush to the garden to do a little digging and watering the plants. We also regularly add manure and other medicines for protection and better flowering. During autumn one has to clean the garden daily because of the number of dry leaves shed. Otherwise, I clean it only twice a week. Grass grows very quickly during the rainy seasons, so one has to mow it regularly.

Moreover, every day before going to school, I check the kind of flowers blooming and the number of buds ready to bloom. On birthdays and anniversaries, I sometimes make a bouquet from my garden as a present.

Now I am thinking to grow vegetables also in one corner of the garden. If I succeed, then we won’t have to buy vegetables and we can even distribute it among our neighbours and friends. At least the common ones can be grown which occupay less space and are eaten every other day.

Gardening is a good hobby. I really enjoy it. When others appreciate and admire our garden I feel very proud of my efforts. It is a great joy to behold the small garden in full bloom. It is not so expensive also and increases the beauty of my home. Gardening also keeps me fit and healthy. I really enjoy gardening.

MY AIM IN LIFE
For becoming a successful man, one should have a certain aim in one's life. A man without aim is like a rudderless ship in a stormy sea. The aim of an individual should be noble and good to shape his career in the later part of life. Without a right or aim right choice of profession the problem of bread cannot be solved. In addition to this the purpose of birth will be defeated bringing penitence unto him. As an individual, I have certain needs to fulfill but simultaneously I have an aim to serve my countrymen. The best service I can render to my countrymen is by becoming a doctor of good repute. Undoubtedly it is a humanitarian profession. In Hindu philosophy a doctor is adjudged as second god. I have a great aptitude for the study of medicine. The study of medical science is for the benefaction of mankind. By studying the art of healing I can cure diseases and fight against death. In my view it is nobler than any other profession. In my country there are limited opportunities for the study of medicine. Its opportunities should be enlarged for the better service of the human race. The number of doctor is limited keeping in view the population of our vast country. The state helps for the extension of hospitals. There is a great want in the field of well-equipped laboratories. Laboratories are of immense necessity for research works for different systems of treatment. Many new diseases are spreading in India an account of the lack of research work. There are malaria, TB diseases, cancer, brain fever, asthma and blood pressure. The number hospital should be increased for facilitating the cure of such diseases. India is a land of villages. There is lack of trained doctors in village areas. I shall try to be a good doctor. I have a great weakness for rendering, services to the members of the society such as nursing the sick. I shall Try to spread education among the illiterate ones for sanitation and keep the people aware of the environmental pollution. I have a weakness for technical education. I have been well trained in practical art and science. I have a good scientific basis. I shall try to produce the best of medicines with the least expense and shall try for their serving at the cheapest rate. As a doctor, I shall serve the people sincerely without being a money-monger. I want to be a doctor like Dr. Bidhan Chandra. I shall work for the development of health care of the village people of my country. I shall try for the betterment of people. I shall stick to the profession with tenacity without wavering. I shall not lose my heart if I cannot progress at the start. I shall have faith in myself and I shall apply myself to the task. My honest efforts must reward me with success. Now I am preparing for the medical entrance test. I come of a well to do family and I feel, I must do the right thing in the right moment. If at all I am given an opportunity to study medicine I shall spend the life in the realisation of the lofty ideals.

Besr Regard Ahsan Ullah Khan Marwat