User:ARUN NAIR (M S)

I, Arun Nair was born in July 17th,1972 in a small village in Anchal, in Kollam District in Kerala, in South India. Did my schooling upto 10th standard in VSSC CENTRAL SCHOOL at Thumba in Trivandrum district. Pre Graduation and Graduation was done privately.

After graduation went to New Delhi and worked there for about 3 years.

Joined Gokulam Towers as Manager on coming back from New Delhi. Gokulam Towers was guest house of TCS, Technopark, Trivandrum.

Trained at Iridium Technologies, Technopark as MT.

After completion of medical transcription, went to Saudi Arabia as Programme Coordinator for a Software Development Company.

Married Avanni (Film Artist) and presently doing own business at Attingal.

We started Home Nursing and Marriage Bureau together. The home nursing has stopped and Matrimonial Service in still continuing without much luck. Lack of advertisement can be the reason. Besides Marriage Bureau run by us is a one man show.

Searching for better prospectus, we started a Pet Centre. Business is good, but do not have money to invest. There are lots of enquires for birds and breed dogs. We are going through the toughest time in our lives with no one to help us in any way. Have to pay interest money to lots of people and I feel real ashamed to face them. Our liablities run to just 4-5 Lakhs. It hurts like we owe 50 Lakhs.

We have three people at home who are schizophernic. My mother-in-law Omanamma, Sister-in-law Jayasree and Brother-in-law Vishnu. Mother had been a patient since 1991. Jayasree started showing symtoms since 2005 and Vishnu later on. I wonder how my Father-in-law Narayana Pillai, managed to look after all of them with his little income. My father-in-law was a very lucky man. He passed away on February 4th 2008, leaving all of them on my shoulders.

Had I not loved my wife so deeply, I would have run away long back. I really do not know what to do now. I am turning out to be a vegetable these days.

Leading a very painful life. Wish I had a child to look forward to. Someone to live for. Life is turning out to be a waste. Do not know where this is leading to.Hoping for a better start by July 15, 2013 as told by astrologer Kammath at Trivandrum.

What happens after July 2013 is beyond my reasoning now.