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The National Domestic Violence Hotline is a 24-hour confidential service that can be reached through calling or online chatting. The NDVH was created through the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) in the United States. The Domestic Violence Hotline offers a variety of help options. The website offers help for victims, survivors, family and friends of victims, and people who are concerned that they might be harming another person. The website has different tabs to educate people on different topics such as violence in the LGBTQ community, advocate information, what to expect when calling the hotline, and education about domestic violence. The National Domestic Abuse Hotline is partnered with two outside organizations which are Break the Cycle and Loveisrespect.

Domestic Violence in the LGBTQ Community
The Hotline is aware that domestic violence can happen to anyone regardless of sex, gender, race, or sexual orientation. Research shows that people in LGBTQ relationships often use the same tools to gain power over their partner as in heterosexual relationships. These tactics can include using children, privilege, isolation and emotional abuse to name a few. There are additional resources for people in LGBTQ relationships such as the NW Network. The NW Network was founded by and for LGBT survivors of abuse. Forge is also a great resource to learn about the rights of transgender domestic and sexual assault.

Break the Cycle
Break the Cycle is a partner of both the National Domestic Violence Hotline and Loveisrespect. Break the Cycle was founded in 1996, to help provide a resource for young people, specifically ages 12 -24, experiencing dating violence. Break the Cycle provides leadership and education opportunities to teach young people about healthy relationships. Let’s Be Real (LBR) is an online/ offline movement for people under the age of 24 to come together and have conversations about relationships such as sexuality, break-ups, and first-time hookups.

Loveisrespect (add on’s and edits underlined) (need to check sources, and cite correctly)
Loveisrespect, a 24-hour national Web-based and telephone resource, was created to help teens (ages 13–18) experiencing dating abuse, and is the only helpline in the country serving all 50 states, Puerto Rico and the Virgin Islands. It was launched February 8, 2007 by the National Domestic Violence Hotline and partnered with Break the Cycle in 2011. In addition to the telephone hotline there is a text feature, and a live chat option, which allows teens to connect to trained peer advocates via the web.

Featured on loveisrespect's website is the Teen Dating Bill of Rights, a set of affirmations and pledges for teens reflecting the importance of awareness of dating abuse and the need for young people to take a stand and nurture healthy relationships.

==== Dating Bill of Rights ==== Teen Dating Bill of Rights:

I have the right:

- To always be treated with respect.

- To be in a healthy relationship.

- To not be hurt physically or emotionally.

- To refuse sex or affection at anytime.

- To have friends and activities apart from my boyfriend or girlfriend.

- To end a relationship.

I pledge to:

- Always treat my boyfriend or girlfriend with respect.

- Never hurt my boyfriend or girlfriend physically, verbally, or emotionally.

- Respect my girlfriend's or boyfriend's decisions concerning sex and affection.

- Not be controlling or manipulative in my relationship.

- Accept responsibility for myself and my actions.

How to help someone being abused
The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV) provides specific recommendations for people who suspect a person is involved in an abusive relationship. Signs of abuse may include: a jealous or possessive partner, a person in constant fear of upsetting their partner, or unexplained marks or injuries on a person’s body. Domestic Violence Experts emphasize the importance of support for the person during this time. The NCADV offers a list of ways to help prevent abuse such as: encouraging women to talk to their OBGYN about sexual assault screening, and verbally asking if a woman is in an abusive relationship during each checkup. As well as working with youth groups and teaching young adults about healthy relationships and healthy sexuality.

Information on what to expect when calling the hotline
The national domestic abuse hotline is 100% confidential. After calling, the advocate will ask a series of questions to make sure the caller is safe, find out what the situation is, and then help the caller brainstorm a plan for help. The advocates are trained in issues related to domestic violence. The hotline is not just for the victims of domestic violence. If a person feels like they are showing signs of abuse to their partner, then it is encouraged they call the hotline. The hotline advocate will help the caller by asking questions to identify red flags, and teach the caller techniques on how to calm down.

Advocate Training
The advocates at the hotline are highly trained and undergo a series of training sessions and practice to ensure the best quality. The advocates work around the clock, and can provide help in over 170 different languages. To become an advocate, a person must first go through a 40-hour training to qualify, and then that is followed by two weeks of being monitored practicing. Advocates know how to help victims during crisis situations and are prepared to direct calls to local shelters, counseling programs and other helpful resources. Advocates continue training for the entire time they are working for the hotline.

Education about Domestic Violence
The hotline website provides information on a variety of topics about domestic abuse. When looking on the website a person can find the definition of abuse and the warning signs of abuse under the "is this abuse tab". The website also offers tips for victims and survivors, along with statistics and helpful resources. The website will also give information on how to lead healthy relationships.