User:Anishkumarsingla

Are We Ready for A New Face of Inbian Women!!!!!

aids (accuried immuno defficiency sindrom) becominga night mare for the people of the world. in india 52 lakh people are suffering with aids in which 20 lakhs are women and the no. of women is incresing rapidly. mainly the cause of increasing no. of hiv effected women on such a speed is the illeteracy, wrong unproper knowledge about aids and non-insistance to their husbands for using safeguards. in india. a great no. of indian womenis still practising the great and ancient tradition of the role of an ideal indian housewife only.they cant say a single word to their husbands as the majority of husbands in india behaves as dictators still today.the man do anything outside the home, he can make girlfriends, acn make unsocial and unsafe sexxual relations and get infected and transmits these virus to their innocent wives who believes them as god in indian society. the another main reason is also in men section, and that is the lack of knowledge about the aids and also for the working husbands working in other cities cant visit home and make sex contacts with the sex workers and get infected. i think that it is not a question to teach only our daughters to be sure of protective safeguards and defer on these issues with their husnands. but it is the time to teach not only our girls married or unmarried but as well as to the whole youth about the changind scenario of the life by aids and the reason of its trasmisson and the preventing measures and also t0o motivate the youth for spreading this knowledge to the other people also so that the mission of anti-aids should get a success. i think that we should  teach our daughters or girls about the aids in our society from class fifth ownwards in schools of any type because a large no of girls still today get married in small ages mostly after tenth ar they are not allowded to do higher studies which is the time for any young person to get knowledge about aids and they didnt get it. if once our daughters are teached they can protect themselves as well as can insist to their husbands or partners for using safeguards to remain away from STD or aids.i think their nothing wrong to teach daughetrs about the aids because it will protect our own daughters from such a harmful disease whose way lets to only death and sufferings. also if the daughters are teached they can ask for HIV testing before marriage which can prevent HIV transmission to the spouse up to a certain level. However we must not forget basic ethics of Marriage and of HIV Testing as Marriage is a question of faith and committment. and by demanding HIV testing, the princple of confidentiality will be maintained the majority of reasons for the transmission of aids is unsafe sexual contacts as well as some other reasons in which mostly the innocent people are effected. Sex is not the somain, which is related to any age, or class or some thing else. In India it is unnecessary viewesd as something special about which you are not suppose to talk. But this is one of the reason that the HIV/AIDS has spread so much even in the young generation i.e. 14 and above. If they are given propoer education, it can be prevented. Prevention is the only way out. i think that the opening of western culture and its views are now dominating the minds of the childrens in the early ages and affecting them in the field of premartial sex. to give the knowledge about the sex to the girls under 14 who didnt go to school we have to make huge and time spending steps to reach them and tell them about safer sex. we have to involve the higher secondary and collegeus girls which can go directly to the homes of the people and discuss the matter with the girls of this age group. in remote areas we have to make open rallies to open them from the problem of not discussing this type of matters openly. as if we are applying western culture in our lives then we have to also apply their culture of open mind and open discussion on any type of matter. also the freedom from the parents and the overconfidence upon the childrens by the parents also leds to the wrong way. some time ago a report was published according to the survey of the chandigarh medical college and hospital in which they told according to the survey done that 65% of the girls studying in chandigarh has done premartial sex. the era of premartial sex is increasing day by day among the youth and the girls are equally involved in itwhich is also leading a way to the increasing no of STD (sexually transmit disease) which can leads to aids.this situation is not only in chandigarh but in all over india, the differnce is only that the situation of chandigarh get highlighted.one time pleasure leads their lifes towards the path of death.if we teach and discuss openly with our daughters as well as sons on the issue of sex and aids we acn prevent them from the lifesucking disease. i feel that age is not a criteria to decide whether someone has to be informed about sex or not. everyone has a right to be informed. the problem lies with the fact that we do not have available resource persons or well prepared modules to carry on the message effectively at the same time efficiently to the population. i think, a good speaker must be able to carry out the message irrespective of the crowd he is made to face. definitely the communicator or the medium and language used to communicate must be acceptable and must be targeted to reach different age groups. i would not trust any tom dick or harry to inform my kids about sex. if that is allowed, sex education may become a promoted adult movie show for both the young and the old. what is to be said, must be said how it should be said and where and when it must be said. after all sex is just an abbrevation for a Sacred EXpression of love and effort must definitely be taken to promote its growth softly and smoothly and yet as subtly as possible and definitely not assure its end.also. Safe sex behaviour should be promoted -be it girls or boys. Its more important for girls, since even today the level of awareness among them are comparatively low and women seem to have less freedom exercising their sexual rights ! It should be promoted in school and at home by teachers, parents and informed peer alike.