User:Asiyabucwa/sandbox

ukubaluleka kwekhaya
Ikhaya kulapho kukho khona usapho lwakho ,abantu abakuxhasayo umzekelo umama,utata,oosisi bakho,oomalume ,ootamkhulu kunye noomakhulu bakho.ikhaya libalulekile kuba abantu abakokwenu ngabona bantu bakunika inkxaso ,kumnyama kubomvu basoloko besecaleni kwakho .Kokwenu kulapho wonwaba khona kakhulu kuba uhleli nosapho lwakho kumnandi niyahleka, nawe uyazi ukuba ungaba themba kuba abasoze bakujikele ngabantu okhula nabo /ozalwe ngabo.

Akhona amakhaya apho kusoloko kukho khona ingxabano ,apho kungekho mntana kungekho mntu mdala ingulowo uzenzela unothanda, akho ntlonipho ,abazali balala ngenyembezi bavuka ngenyembezi ngenxa yabantwana babo abanye bade bathi"ndimncamile" kodwa apho umntwana enze khona impazamo ezibona ukuba uphazamile abazali baye bamamkele kwakhona .Amaxhosa athi "akulahlwa mbeleko ngakufela"lonto ithetha uba akekho umzali olahla umntwana okanye oncama umntwana nto nje uye akubonise ubungozi ngalento uyenzayo xa ungamameli akuyeke uzibonele kodwa xa uphinda ubuya ucela uxolo uye akwamkele kuba ekugqibeleni ngumzali wakho.

UMZALI

Umzali ngumntu onenkathalo osoloko esecaleni kwakho xa uthatha izigqibo kwaye uyakulumkisa ngayo yonke into ofuna uyenza akubonise nobungozi bayo.Ukuba ngumzali akululanga tu kwa phela kaloku nguye ekufuneka agade umntana uba uyakhula na, yonke into ayidingayo uyaifumana kwaye ulala etyile na umntwana lowo.Oyena mzali uqinileyo nosokola kakhulu ngu mama kuba nguye onoxanduva oluninzi kuba utata yena uye abaleke kanti uyofumanisa uba ngamanye amaxesha utata akaziwa wafa etwele unqwazi athi ke umntana wozibona emdala ahambe ayokhangela utata wakhe phofu tata lowo angazange wambona.

 UMNTWANA 

Umntwana ngoyena mntu uza nengxaki ixesha elininzi kuba uthi wakukhula ezibona uba mdala kulapho ingxaki ziqala khona kuba oyi ntombazana uye aqale abe namakhwenkwe alibale ngomama wakhe lo ebemkhulise kabuhlungu ade afumane umntwana ,xa enqandwa umisa ngelithi"andithi funwa mna apha kulendlu kuba ndisoloko ndingxoliswa ,ndifuna utata wam".Umntwana oyinkwenkwe yena uye akhule atshaye iziyobisi ,akhuthuze abantu ayeke neso sikolo ebefakwe kuso kanti xa elukile kuba nzima kuba ngalo lonke ixesha  usoloko esithi "ndiyindoda", abanye ke baye babethe umzali esiqwini .Ukungamameli umzali okanye ubetha umzali wakho kukuzibizela nje amashwa.