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= Emily Norcross Dickinson = Emily Norcross Dickinson (née Norcross, July 3, 1804 - November 14, 1882) was a member of the Dickinson family of Amherst, Massachusetts, and the mother of famous American poet Emily Dickinson.

Early Life and Education
Emily Norcross was born in 1804 in Monson, Massachusetts, to Joel and Betsy Norcross. She was one of nine children, although four of her siblings died at a young age. Her father was a staunch believer in women's education, and sent Emily to Munson Academy for several years, before having her attend a boarding school in New Haven.

Courtship and Marriage to Edward
In 1826, Edward Dickinson, who was training to be a lawyer in Amherst, Massachusetts, traveled up to Monson on legal business and met Emily Norcross. He was instantly attracted to her, and the two struck up a lengthy correspondence. Over two years, they wrote ninety-three letters to one another, with Edward writing sixty-nine and Emily writing twenty-four. Edward constantly showed his affection for Emily in his letters, whereas Emily was the much more laconic in her replies. She knew that her lack of enthusiasm frustrated Edward and wasn't afraid to let him know it, writing once in a letter "Frequent repetition of my disobedience I trust will not exhaust your patience, which I think has been faithfully tried." On October 30, 1826, she reluctantly accepted his proposal, saying that "you may rightly conclude that my feelings are in unison with yours."

Later Life and Death
In 1829, she gave birth to her and Edward's first son, Austin Dickinson. One year later, she, Edward, and Austin moved to the Homestead (now the Emily Dickinson Museum), where their daughters Emily and Lavinia were born. Her husband's busy career as a lawyer and as the treasurer of nearby Amherst College meant that she often stayed home without her husband, which made her often feel isolated and lonely. In 1855, she endured a particularly troubling period of depression. She spent most of her time at home, either taking care of her household or tending her garden, which was her biggest passion. She suffered a stroke in 1874 from which she never truly recovered, and spent the remainder of her years paralyzed, until she died in November 1882.

Relationship with Emily Dickinson
Emily Norcross Dickinson never had a deep relationship with her daughter Emily. Her daughter found her mother uninteresting and boring, once writing in a letter to T.W. Higginson that "my mother does not care for thought." In a different letter to Higginson in 1970, she bluntly said that "I never had a mother. I suppose a mother is one to whom you hurry when you are troubled." Emily Dickinson scholar Vivian Pollack suggests that the distance between Emily and her mother had an impact on her poetry, and that it contributed the sense of loneliness in her works. After her mother passed away, however, Emily started to show more compassion towards her mother. Writing to her close friend Elizabeth Holland, Dickinson remarked "When we were Children and she journeyed, she always brought us something. Now, would she bring us but herself, what an only Gift."