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NAKED TRUTH ABOUT DEVOLOPED HUMANITY

Life, more mysterious then any other mystery. Too short still too much to experience, Always unexpected. You never guess what is coming next in your life. It’s always full with surprises, sometimes good and sometimes shocking. Except life the most mysterious thing in life is human. You spent whole life to understand someone but at the end of time when you think you understand they show their other side. Everyone in the world trusts in their family blindly and can do anything for them. But when you trust them and they betray your trust, which was the most shocking thing because you can’t tell anyone not even you can tell what you are experiencing and what is happening with you. At that moment you are with everyone but still all alone. You feel too much broken, you have nobody to tell your feelings, and nobody is there who hold your hand and tell you everything is going to be all right. But we all know it’s very rare to find someone who listens, who cares and who is with us in every condition, unconditionally.

Sometime life play very cruel games with us and we cannot do anything because we did nothing wrong. But it’s very difficult to tell others. Sometime we have fear of losing, sometime we can’t tell them. When life play games we can’t do anything because it’s may be our destiny but when someone who is very close to us and we consider them as the most caring and loving, hurt us, that was the most painful thing in anyone’s life. And the worst condition is that we think we are responsible for that.

People say time heals every wound but when someone hurt your soul, your self respect then……. Can these wound heal by time, can you bring back some ones life in normal flow if their soul is killed brutally by someone who is like god for them.

I think this is the cruelest crime done by anyone. Even animals never hurt their child can we think any human can did this to their own piece of heart? It’s difficult to believe but we have examples all around us. Everyday we hear, listen or watch news about killing an unborn child, parents sell their children, family member abusing young and innocent children sexually and mentally. We always proud humans are most developed and intelligent species of earth, but I think we are crueler then anything, our minds are nothing but a dirty laboratory of dirty thoughts and deeds. We always pretend to be nice but inside some of us has a devil that destroys meaning of humanity. I never compare anyone who did this kind of stuff with animal because animals are never be too selfish for their families, its only human who can play with lives for the cost of nothing.

We are not going upward our moral standards are going to downward with the speed of life. Even early man worships mother earth and scared famine character. They knew mother earth who give birth the whole humanity and the women have the power to bring life in this world not the man. But as we know now this is a world dominated by man and women only its dependent not it’s better half as past. We have all rules and regulations and boundaries of do’s and don’ts only for females. They are treated as animals in several places openly and in whole world secretly. Most of us think women as a helpless and dependent and someone who can’t survive without the help of MAN. But I think all man have fear of the power of female.

But it doesn’t mean that only men are responsible for this poor condition of women. Women also have equal part in this crime. We can count on our fingers the number of females who raise their voices for the thing which happens with them. Some time they think about others, sometime about family society and stay silent. Some how supporting the crime. They think that’s the destiny of women and remain silent. Some of the female pretend to be strong but inside they were not different. We have to support women but some times they refuse to be supported and live their whole life with a smiling face and a paining heart. Nobody will come to wake you up you have to write your destiny. When anything wrong happen with you do nothing but react and raise your voice. No body is above your self respect and soul. If you or anyone else hurting your soul and self respect and you still thinking about the reaction of society and effect of your step on you family then you are directly insult the god because you are the most precious and powerful creation of god. Don’t think about the results if you are right then god is with you forget about others. If anyone cares for you they are always support you. Don’t fears you also have the right of living your life and if anyone want to spoil it you have the right to do anything but never give up in life. Remember committing crime is bad but bearing the crime silently at cost of your life is the bigger crime. This life is precious and we have right on it more then anyone. I recall some old lines from The Mahabharata It says “leave a family member for family’s happiness and benefits, leave a home for happiness and benefit of village, leave a village for a city and leave a city for countries’ good, leave a country for happiness of the world and leave anything when it comes to your self-respect and soul leave the whole world for your right because insulting your soul and self respect is direct insult of GOD.

Now discussing about the present naked truth about most of the modern women in this world. Maine kahi pada tha “jab ek mard bigad ta hain tab sirf samaj ka hissa bigad ta hain, lekin jab ek aurat bigad ta hain tab ek pura nasl (generation) bigad jata hain”. I m not full agree with the Arabians behaviors towards ladies, but at some part they are right .to prove my deduce I will tell a fact “once in Australia there is a moulabi(Muslim leader) raise a fatwa that no Muslim gals should wear miniskarts.then many people protest it saying that  this is backdated theory. Then the leader called of a meeting of all protesters and tell them that “Suppose in a calm a n quiet colony u throw a piece of meat and all dogs come to take it ,starts quarrelling among each other,  breaking the calmness of the colony, so whom do u think responsible for this noise, the dogs or the meat? Naturally the answer is the meat. Likewise if the gals wore minis then anything can happen (rape, kidnapping etc) to them. So they should wear respectful dresses”. This is a simple answer that all the ladies in modern days are not innocent, Infect in the ancient days both Ramayana and Mahabharata both made only due to ladies (Sita and Draupadi respectively). Some body may think that I m a hater of women, but this is not the case, I m telling only that all should remain in their limits to maintain a good and peaceful life.

This kind of articles most time written by the females. I’m a man and writing all this is looks strange. Now taking the side of women I have questions for all, when we worship goddess why we kill our unborn daughters, sexually abuse the young girls of family? Are they only pieces of useless meat or we want to prove our superiority over the one who are helpless or have respect for you?”

Now coming in the next phase of discussion .Today’s parents of urban area still don’t know how to take care of their child, some time food clothing and shelter is not as essential for the child as the mental support. Some times child doing some mistakes wills shy away from their parents not telling about their misdeed, this will is relay harmful for a child’s mental growth. Every child should feel free to discuss all problems regarding to him or her with her parents. But due to parent’s rough behavior towards them or many other reasons they are unwilling to do so. Also there is a common scene we see this days that after doing some mistake by the child when the parent comes to know about that he or she scold him like anything creating a image of fear and hatred in the heart of child towards their parents.jindagi ka najuk palo main jab uska choti kandho pe sahare ka jarurat parta tab usko dhakka nahi khana chaiye. Usko sahare ka jarurat hain, jarurat hain himmat ka, ke koi ake usko bole” kya hua galti kiya to, main hu na, main sab sambhal lunga”,sahara dena isiko bolte hain na ki sirf jeena ka jarurato ko pura karna .These things should stop immediately .Parents should always give a supportive hand towards their child .They should always give them a warmth feeling that what ever the situation arises towards them (their child).they are always their to help it out .Parents should always think that if our child’s failure hurt us so much they how deep it is hurting that kid, after all no one likes to be failed. Its their bad luck and some factor which made this .All fingers of the hand is not same so as all child’s capability is not same, some learn a thing late, some learn it fast, parents should understand this things, if taught with care and affection, slowly but surely they will learn the art of living life successfully, everyone knows the language of love irrespective of age also. Parents should have to wait. This may prove out to be an immense psychological backup towards the kid; he will be out of the fear, and concentrate his next job very sincerely. Coming into the next phase of discussion. This is about educational picture of our country, this day’s almost all student going for engineering or medical studies, those brilliant students also pursuing the same kind of studies. One day this will create a very big problem in our country.Acharya Jagadish Chandra Bose saw this future picture of our country and gave a useful comment “If all god student pursuing those professional course they who will do the fundamental research of science. who will invent new things all going to study those old invention, and if we continue like this then one day this new technology will be old and we will far behind the other country”. This comment turns out to be the upcoming future of our country. When no one is studying PhD or masters in science and doing useful research then there will be no technique developed to improve our lifestyle and we will be far behind others in technology and development.

Dibakar Sinha 9/01/2008