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DATING GUIDELINES

1.They are to know nothing about these guidelines

2.If you really want them, LET THEM COME TO YOU (make them come up to you but shows them interest)

3.Make them know that they are lucky to have you

oStart the relationship with them knowing that you talk to a lot of people and you have your choice and you chose them,

 o Find someone that allows themselves to get close to people already in relationship and talk to that person get your person jealous just a little and then when the time is perfect let them know that there is no one you would rather be with than he or she (be very careful here you don’t want to push it too far)

 o Both of the above are the best if your careful about it

4.Any room that they are in they are the most important one in there unless you are trying to accomplish rule 3 (start this after rule 3 normally)

5.If you are just interested in going all the way with this person, when you are fooling around or when you are really close to them while laying down and you do something they don’t want to do just tell them that you don’t have to have sex but that you just really want to be close to them

6.Tell your friends, so that you don’t lose them, that you will not be as social with them for about a month to get your relationship started with this person.

7. Kiss her in front of her friends cause it lets her show you off and they tend to like that

8. Look good all the time cause she will appreciate that more thus causing her always to think of you as looking good.

9. If you have had sex a lot and not many people that know them know about it tell them that you did it once but that it was a mistake and that you haven’t done it since because you want to find someone special to do it with and of course that special person will be them (timing in a relationship for this is of utmost importance) 10. Find a way to make them feel bad for you but don’t over use it bring it up once and let them run with it and make it something big like an injury to an important area (key in this is to bring it up once and let her bring it up from then on you shouldn’t over do it cause that’s annoying and girls don’t usually like it) 11. Get a female or male in your life that you are close with so that you can find more about women or men preferably a peer of yours to tell you about your age group. (very important) 12. They can make you happier than anyone in the world and let them know that and if it gets serious burn these guidelines or put them in a place where they will never find them cause if they find them they will never believe that you didn’t use them even if you didn’t 13. PARENTS I know they can really suck sometimes but learn to love them cause if you can truly enjoy being around her family it will pull her closer to you in a good way so I would keep that up 14.Never ever show her any sexual material that was bought before you started dating her because you bought that for another girl and that is a very bad thing for her to find buy new condoms they aren’t that expensive and you will need new ones anyways 15.Know the right thing to say and say it and say it often (if she says she doesn’t like this that is a load of shit on her part because lets face it that’s crap) 16.Find someone who WILL talk to her like them friend and brag to them about you and never say anything bad around them. they will pass on everything and say good things which will make them feel secure in choosing you. 17.find a funky place that you “made out” and if you really have one of those stories then use it (EX Amtrak Train) 18.RESPECT THEM 19.Its important that you found them and you care about them not for their looks but for what’s inside and if you can let her know this then your in a good spot 20.Don’t be rough on their “spots” and find out where their “horny spots” are. 21.Respect their comfort levels but push them 22.“We only have one life to live”, very good motto but can kill your chances if used wrong so be careful of this. 23.Love… scary term but they love it. This is one I don’t trust. I think it should only be used when it is true. 24.Have a soft side and make sure she sees it, but not too much. Be strong too. 25.Make them laugh not too much I think a lot at once and then mixed with rule 29 is the best way to make her happy and make it all work. 26.Know that their friends will hear everything about you, respect that, and if you care about them and they care about you, you will tell them not to tell their friends what you do cause honestly its not there business 27.Remember that every person is unique so test these rules or find out if they should be used 28.You are always wrong so find a way to fix it and make sure they will works at it too cause it’s a partnership kind of thing 29.Make good connections, like inside jokes, so she feels close to you. 30.Find any connections to any girls that you cheat with, if you have, to your girlfriend before you get into it and make sure that its cleared up before you start cause one slip up can ruin you forever. 31.Put important things off for her and be there for each other 32.Don’t over do the sexual stuff too early 33.Be multisided don’t be just athletic. Be everything 34.learn to love doing things do more than just watch movies all the time 35.Be spontaneous 36.If you have the opportunity to kiss, do it don’t be afraid because they might say no. “its better to have loved and been hurt than to not have loved at all” (good quote don’t be afraid to use it, but only use once) 37.Tell her when something bothers you and tell her you want her to do the same 38.Open communication is very important 39.Know what your priorities are 40.Be there for them but be distant (you want them to appreciate their time with you) 41.Appreciate every moment you’re with her 42.Open up to her it will make her trust you 43.Learn from failure experiences 44.If you find something you can’t get past, get out. Don’t lead them on but try to get past it 45.*****MOST IMPORTANT RULE OF ALL***** Always follow your heart. If you know what you want and you know that by going out with a certain person would go against what you want then don’t go through with it. If you think that you could deal with it try things out for a while, paying attention to your feelings and then you will know that should be your next step.