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POSITIVE THINKING

One bright spring morning, I drive to work and intrusion into traffic chaos. I can’t avoid an hour of waiting and delay on the job. Unaware of this, I have two choices. First, I can be angry, nervous, concerned (What the boss will say, will I be fined or be fired?), I can swear, madly honk. The result will be a sweaty person with a carved pine between the eyebrows, which has allowed this unfortunate moment to overcome, and not be moved from the place. Another possibility: if I can’t do anything, I reconcile with the situation, I thank God (everyone has their "God" they secretly pray) that I woke up this morning (unfortunately many are not), I have work (in this recession many don’t have it), I have car (many don’t even have a bicycle, or foot). How would the world be better, how people would be happier if they only knew that the key to their happiness and success lies in themselves? You don’t let bad thoughts prevail over your life, one accident attracts other, in all try to find something positive, because life is sometimes gray sometimes yellow. If I didn’t stuck in the traffic chaos, maybe I could cause a car accident, or pedestrian crash, so I’m happy that I stuck in traffic and had one hour of meditation. For someone, one and the same sky is semi-clear, for another sky is semi-cloudy. This first looming the sun behind the clouds, and second always expects a downpour. You create your color of the sky. You are responsible for your own happiness.

In this article, I also want to write about opinions we have about ourselves. People, who have a positive image of themselves, self-confidence and self-esteem, often have positive attitude towards life and other people. While, people who have negative opinion about themselves, hardly pass through life and they are in great danger of developing depression, which is called the modern disease. In today’s fast life, it’s essential that people have a realistic theory of themselves and world they live in, they must know their possibilities and limits. Only then, people can build their self-concept that will positively affect their lives. The man himself has to decide whether he is satisfied with himself and his lifestyle or not, whether to make changes in his life. In the toughest challenges, people must believe in themselves, thinking about positive results, because way of thinking creates winners. Deleting negative beliefs about oneself helps in making decision and solving business problems. Often, opinion about themselves is shaped by other’s opinions. Don’t allow others to tailor your life and vice versa. Give praise to everyone who deserves it. The greatest power lies in the mind. If you learn to control thought, you will learn to control your life. "Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy. [Norman Vincent Peale]"