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Fear

Fear is the constitution of feelings of anxiety and distress caused by the awareness of danger or expectation of pain or failure. Fear associated with shame and doubts are the worse challenges one will encounter in his trial to come up with something. Fear, in cases of brave people it works best as it saves them from failures in life. Fear in general is a good caution of whatever step we are to move toward anything. Its therefore both advantageous and disadvantageous.

Fear is a good caution of the situations in expectations. When walking in darkness we always have that fear to fall, hit ourselves into objects and to be savaged by animals or other people. It’s the same fear that always took control of us when we are to do something that will change our lives. We use to have that fear of doing something and fail, fear to invest your resources in opportunities we never tried and fear of what the society will say to us. If we have fear to fail, loose in investing or to make mistakes we should then come up with a smart way to avoid failing, wrong investments and making mistakes.

Fear of what people will say about the progress of the steps you are taking in life to change your living standard is the scariest. We are always in worries of people’s talks and gossips, simply because we want to be regarded as good people to them by living as they want us to be. In Africa we fear people to say to us that we have become well-off by blood sacrifice or by joining Illuminati. Yes, people will forever say any bad word to you because shame and jealous is driving them. Stand up on your own, let people’s talks fuel up your trials. Be smart to choose to work hard and make life greater. The question is will you ought to change yourself or you will remain who people want you to be and die a coward with no any achievement?

Fear is more an advantage than a disadvantage in most cases. Brave people are those who live for their entire lives live with fear to be cowards or die without any achievement. Brave people always take advantage of the fear within their hearts to use it as a defensive tool from living without making any move to change their lives, no one likes to live a life in which you have to struggle with everything, struggling with getting a smartphone nor keeping credit on your phone, it’s simple but difficult to attain such a life. One should be brave enough to avoid such abject poverty and to be brave is to take control of fear in you and use it to defend the shame you will have if you did nothing.

The fear in us is natural and will stay forever. If we can’t take control of it and use it to defend ourselves from poverty, people’s discouragements and misjudgments. If you live without any successful trial, you have made in life you have cursed your future and the future of those you will bring on life as they will have to suffer for that until they reach the age to make changes to themselves. Be smart, be fearless and also take it that fear is a caution to make you aware of the chances of you to fail in life. Good luck!

By Epafras Shatty Shatipamba

‘Lessons in life’

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