User:Everydayjewel

Today was as always recently a headache waiting to happen. Living with a mother-in-law that has just gotten out of the crazy house just adds to the unlimited rehlm of never knowing whats next. My husband and I had zero issues while she was away for the whole "30" days she was gone. Yet, the minute she arrived back here hell broke loose. She has been a drug addict for over 40 years, she has been in and out rehabs throughout my husbands entire life. She has tried committing suicide at least 6 times, the last "attempt" was in June of this years. She ended up throwing a knife at my husband and trying a sympathy attemp in her bathroom. I have never been through so much in my life. I wasn't raised around crazy and I have a hard time dealing. My husband is a good guy, he's 8 years younger but we have a great relationship most of the time. However, it does seem that every time one of his family memebers are around or involved theres nothing but DRAMA!! Either someone is telling a lie, or their starting rumors. Of course the easiest target is by far me. I have in the last year delt with my name being slandered by his mother and sister. Delt with his mother going to his grandmothers on his fathers side telling her a load of lies and the grandmother buying in to it. To his power tripping father running his big mouth. You name it and believe it or not I have went through it. Hell, pure and simple for the last year. Today is just another reality for me, THE Mother In Law!!! The minute she is around theres an issue. On Tuesday my husband and I went to a doctors appointment with her for very good reason, she lives with us. For the last year we have heard from her mouth that shes dying, that she isn't supposed to walk, that she's supposed to nap 5 times a day, and that she has to take 16 different pills for every reason under the sun. So, because we have been put through so much we went. I personally had to go to hear what was the truth because my husbands mind last about 2 seconds. Being the evil, ruthless, @#@&* that I am and all she didn't want me in the room. Another one of her games as always. But, my husband demanded I was in there because it has to do with the two of us. She as always is being a sympathy queen looking for my husbands attention. Problem is she isn't getting the attention from him she wants. We get in the room and the doctor arrives. We get started by an introductiona and from that point on it was unbelievable. My husband and I made a list of questions we wanted to ask the doctor. Such as the ones I have already mentioned. Well, don't you know that because her pain pills where mentioned she starts getting all pissy. As a matter of fact to the point that the doctor got a little upset and told her basically thst he had real sick patients he could be seeing and that if she wanted to argue with my husband do it on her own time. So after 2 hours in the doctors office we find that the doctor knows she is a drug addict, that he has no doubt that she can't be trusted that we shouldn't leave her alone for any longer than a couple hours, and that he doesn't doubt that she is the type of person to take a crap load of pain pills and drink on them and overdose. Goody!! Just what I've always wanted a physichotic, drug addicted, mentally unstable, trouble making mother in law. I am being sarcastic by the way. Unbelievable! I deal with a moody husband who snaps over everything, (doesnt hurt me), a father in law that thinks he's God's gift to the world, a sister in law whos also a drug addict and two faced, and a messed up crazy trouble making mother in law. What a gift. My nerves are competely shot. As I was trying to say today just another screwed up day with nothing but threats from my mother-in-law and a husband who loves to turn his back on me and run with his tail tucked unless hes throwing me under the bus (in other words). Unfortunitely we ran into his sister at the grocery store. With that came attitude from the sister, (who by the way turned my husband and myself into the dcf for elderly abuse of his mom)charges dropped! So here comes attitude as I was saying from the sister and the mother in law. After leaving the store a short while after the sister calls wants to come over to our house and visit with her kids. I know exactly what that means.....Problems and a bunch of them. The mother gets a smerk on her face cause she knows that she wants drama and the sister will start it. Gotta go be back later to finish