User:Fida othman

HOW DO PARENTS' LOVE TO CONTROL AFFECT THEIR KIDS? All parents around the world want to see their kids the best of the best that's why they always prepare them a pefect plan of life since they're born, this thing can be considered as good for some people because it shows how much they love and care about their kids but I think it's a little bit selfish because everybody has the right to do what ever he wants in his life, follow his dreams and do what he thinks it's best for him, of course taking an advice from olders wouldn't hurt but this advice should really be an advice because some times it starts then turn to be an order and the conversation will surely end up with a fight because every kid in this planet doesn't wat to feel controled like a puppet, and it's right because feeling free to make any decision you want and assume the responsability of its result is the best feeling in this universe so what if we fail, what if this decision turn up to be wrong, parents shouldn't be blaming us as their kids for that, they should feel happy we've learnt a new thing, a new exprience which will absollutley make us wiser on making future decisions, I know parents can't be like that because that contolling behaviour is insie them, it's just something inside them and that's life; every kid fights with his parents but the problem is that in Islamic coutries, kids really don't have other choice then obaying his parents with no right to talk or defend his dreams and this doesn't mean all arabic scieties are like that, such cases are more found in the middle east