User:Gukky

"Findlayed" (verb)

ie..to be Findlayed...

This is a term that refers to the situation when man dates a women and declares his love for her but yet he says he cannot make a commitment. Out of fear, he runs and hides in his "man cave" and never calls her back.

To believe in the romance and love that is offered, and to wait patiently by the phone that does not ring...because the commitment-phobe male cannot succumb to his feelings in action ie...I love you but I can't be with you right now....give me time.....

You allow the feeling of love to surround you because he offers you the world you dream of, and then after the moment you let your guard down, he strangely disappears and you find yourself alone....