User:Iamsano

Ibrahima Sano born February 9, 1980 in Zaire. I am the son of Mamoudou Sano and Sire Fofana. I have three sisters named Hawa born in 1973, Aminata born in 1974 and Aicha born in 1976. I have two brothers named Moustapha Galby Sano born in 1972 and Mohamed born in 1984. I did my primary school at L'ecole Primaire de l'aviation in conakry.I was not a very smart kid though.When I was young, all I wanted to be was a mechanic. I loved cars much. It was in grade that i changed. I repeated that grade and that was the turning point in my studies. From that year, i was always among the first best five students in my class. In 1992, I passed the national examination and went to secondary school. I did my secondary and high school in Yimbaya.I had a good period there. I met some nice people there too.I was a good student. I started playing basketball on the 3rd june 1996 just after I finished my national examination for high school.I improved so quickly because I loved the game. I did have some terrible experiences in the basketball. I once broke my teeth while playing with my friends in Malaysia, where I did my bachelor degree in Human Sciences " Mass Communication". I won many titles in my Malaysia. I won three Intercollege championship and was the MVP. I had more contribution than anybody else. Talking about my earlier life and my family. My dad was a businessman and he used to travel a lot. According to my mother, my dad was not around when i was born. It took some time before i was given a name and that was the reason my mom started calling me "petit" which means small boy. People ended up calling me by that name until i grew up. My dad was a very generous man and he helped so many people before he died. he died in his fourties in Germany.I was just four years old.I did not know what was going on but i remember seeing a lot of people at our house crying.I also remember going to the morgue to see his body. I did not enjoy my childhood very much. I was so much controlled by my siblings, my aunts and people around.I didnt like school at all. It was when i failed in grade 5 and I ended up having some good friends from very good families. Three of my best friends were N'Famara Sissoko, Oumar Dabo and Ansoumane Conde who died when we were younger. I learnt a lot from them and being with them just made me better.We started competing in the classroom and my grades got better. From that moment until i graduated, I was always among the best. In 1996, I went to high school at Lycee Yimbaya and i was in social sciences. My grades were fine and i actually never learnt anything in English. we studied in French and people never took English seriously at that time. In 1998 I had sex for the first time and it happened in Mali. It was on the 26 of september at 4PM and i cant even remember the woman now. she was older than me. I was taken to her by my friends. it was just a mistake to me anyway. I dont even like to talk about it. I still remember some of my best friends like Oumar Sidibe currently in Mali, Ansoumane Sidibe currently in Ivory Coast. In 2000, i got the chance to leave Guinea for Malaysia to pursue my studies. To be franc, i never wanted to leave Guinea at that time but i didnt have any choice. My uncle called Prof. Dr. Koutoub Moustapha Sano, deputy rector at the International Islamic University Malaysia sponsored me and i couldnt say no. I had great things going on in Guinea too. I left Guinea and thanks to my former step mother Aissatou Kouyate who helped to have a passport.That was a disappointing moment for me but God helped me anyway. My uncle Mamady Sano was very rich at that moment but he never bothers to help me. Coming to Malaysia was terrible but i ended up getting a great certificate and that was good. I graduated on the 25th May 2005 and it was a very happy day. I felt good and my family was proud of me. Life has not been very easy but I have always overcomed no matter what. Looking at my love life, I have met so many different girls and they all have different qualites. I do have my own qualities too. The first white girl I ever had sex with was Lana. It was just a one night stand thing. I then met Shahira and she was evry nice. We could not stay longer because I was a student and she was just travelling.We kept in touch and she was so much in love with me. She went to Indonesia and she ended up getting married. I then met Sara from Poland, then Rachel from England.I also went out with Ann from Germany and broke up with her because she wanted me to marry her and I didnt even know her well. we were together for a month only. I went out with Amber Skinner from the united states and spent two months together before she went back.I spent some time with Rachel and she wanted me to go London with her but I could not. She went and kept calling me. Since I didnt go to England, our relationship stopped. After that,I met Amy from Australia and we worked in the same school.She was crazy about me and of course I loved her too.She was in a relationship for five years but she could not let me go. We then dated for a while and she went to Australia. She still loves me and even asked me to live with her.She was even ready to come back to Bangkok just for me but i told her I am in love with someone else. I have also been with Thai girls and to be franc,i dont know how many women I have been with so far. On the 17 of October 2008, i met a girl called Anna Balaknicheva from Russia and I can say that is the best thing that has ever happened to me. She is nice and open and that is something I really appreciate. I have learned a lot from her and as she said, I act like I am younger than her most of the times. She is a very well behaved girl too. I love her more everyday. I hope we can have a good foundation in the future.She has changed me and I have never cheated or even attempted to cheat on me. I have never felt this way about any girl. I dont know how she feels about us.I know she loves me but we have not talked much about the future. I am faithful to her but whatever happens in the future, I am always going to remember her. Working in Thailand has been great so far. When i first came in August 2005, I worked in Attawit school for eight months and I was the first black teacher there. It is not easy as a black man to have a good teaching good in Thailand because all they want is white skin and not the person's skills or knowledge. Thanks God I have always been lucky. On May 3rd 2006, i got a job at Kornpitacksuksa School in Bangkok and it is one of the best schools in Thailand. It has about eight thousand students from Nursery to Hight school.

Anna Balaknicheva That is the name of my Russian girlfriend and for me she is the best. I met her on the 17th of October 2009 in Bangkok at a night club in patpong. I asked her if I could dance with her and she replied “why not” and that was strange. I liked that answer anyway and we had a great time dancing and having fun. I don’t know much about her life in Russia. I proposed to take her out for a movie the next day and she was fine with that. Sex was not the thing on my mind here like it has always been. All I wanted was to find the right girl and for me she was the one even though I didn’t know anything about her. We went for a movie the next at MBK and we watched bodies of lies by Leonardo Dicaprio. It was a good movie and we both liked it. I then took her to her place and planned to meet her again. So we kept in touch and everything was fine too. Of course, there were some other guys who wanted to be with her but she ended up being with me. It was like a dream coming true. I told my friends that she was the kind of woman I like and they thought I was just talking. I never cheated on her because she satisfies me. We then met on Sunday 26th October 2009 and went to my place. We watched a movie and she had to go back home early because her friend needed her room’s key. I took her home and again nothing really happened. I just gave her a simple kiss and she did the same thing when I dropped her off. I also sent her a note I wrote about her and that was the turning point. She liked the note and she sent me a message the next day to meet at MBK and have a walk. We met and we had a very romantic time. We walked back to her place and it took us about twenty minutes. We had a deal to teach her French every Wednesday and of course we started it but she became lazy later. We had sex for the first time on Halloween night on the 31st of October 2009. she went out with her friends to Khaosan road and I was with my friends at Patpong. It was just like magic, I thought of her and I checked my phone and bingo, there was her message asking me to let her know when I am done and she can come meet me. I replied telling her she could come to silom and meet me. She then came around 2A.M And we went home. That was a great night and I can’t just forget about it. The funny thing is the turning point was on Sunday and she broke up with me on a Sunday and i never got to know the reason. we spend five great months together and the first three were the best. she changed early 2009 and that was hard for me. I just thought she had someone else and i even believed in that. I blamed myself for that later because i trusted her so much. Today is the day she sent me a message saying "we break up" and i feel like i am dreaming. i called her and she didnt wanna talk to me. i sent her a message requesting her to talk to me for a minute and she said ok. i then talked to her and felt a little better. Soon after that, tears and tears, i just started crying and could not sleep. i planned to go to lumpini to play basketball and had to cancel anyway. i told my best friend and he was surprised and could not believe. Later, a friend called from Mozambique Africa and he asked me how is my girlfriend and i replied very slowly she is fine. He then said hey i guess you are not fighting with her,, and i replied hum hum i guess we are fighting now because she wanna break up with me but we will see what happened. i didn't want to go deeper. i cant continue writing this thing and i need to stop here. Breaking up on Sunday is so hard because you are all alone in your room. to remember this date, it is 22th march 2009 just five months after being together. So we decided to meet up at my place so i could give her some DVDs i made for her and she came over on Monday around 7:30PM and i was praying. she came in and sat down and waited for me. As soon as i finished praying, i looked at her and we both smile and we started talking. she started crying too and that was hard. we sorted things out and the reason she wanted to break up with me is that she doesnt see us getting married. she is from Russia and i am black and you all know what i mean. I told her that i have read a lot about Russia and i know that. i told her the best thing to do is to focus now on the present and lets see what happen next. we were both happy to be back together. she means a lot to me but race can be an issue. my family is ok with me getting married with a white because things have changed backhome. i am from a less developed country but we have passed that stage, Thanks God we are back together. As soon as thing went alright, we both started thinking of what we could do. she asked me if i have ever thought of Australia and yeah maybe we could move there. I just said that was a good idea and yeah we could move there in the future. Of course, moving there wont be easy anyway but it is good to see us both thinking that way. Nice to be back together but racism in Russia is still there. Anna's mother came to Bangkok and i could not meet her. I knew from that point that our relationship could not last. I knew her parents would not let her marry a black man. I felt bad but we kept in touch. Anna left on the 13th of May 2009. She went to Russia, and then The United States and then went back to Russia. She has been there since and whenever we talk, she cries. Anna loves me and I know that. She would like us to be together and I would love the same too. Racism is a problem and i cant do anything. I am black and am proud of it. The problem is Anna would love to come back in August and that is fine. I have a problem because i dont just want to be her boyfriend. I want more than that. I need a wife and of course if she ready, i can go for her but she is not and it is impossible. That is my problem and I need to discuss it with Anna. I am 30 years old and i am not getting any younger. My family will be fine to see me marrying a Russian but hers will not be good with that. I waited for so long. She decided to come back on saturday 22 nd of august 2009 but she got sick. she cancelled it and stayed at the hospital for about 13 days. she came out and spent another week. after that she decided again to come on sunday 13th of september 2009 but she changed her mind to stay with her mother. she sent me a message and i could not believe after reading it. i tried to convince her but nothing worked. she asked me to move on. she loves me but we need to grow and move on. I told myself this is it. i need to move on. I gave her old clothes to the laundry woman. I didnt throw any of her pictures away but i removed them from my wall. I left them in the album. that was on the 7th of september 2009. I just felt dumb after all. There was a moment I wanted to give up but she promised me to come back. I told her we didnt have any future but she insisted saying "baby i am now coming to live in Thailand with you and I told my mother I will take her to Bangkok later too. There is nothing to do here and my mother wants me to go" Things like that gave me hope. Another funny thing was that her mom was happy when she told her she would stay in Russia. Her mom smiled but i dont know what she expected. All moms will smile for that. End of story. All the best Anna Tuesday 08/09/ 2009 I turned the page. I have moved on. No more waste of time. I need a wife now. since anna is not coming back, i am now looking forward to get married and am looking for the woman. i know it is not easy but i will do my best and May Allah be with me. That was what I thought of but to be honest it is not easy to forget aboutt the person we truly love. I have been talking with Anna and we have been planning on how to be together again. I believe we just live our lives and one day none of us will be here. We have a very limited time and we should take advantage of it.

On Saturday 18th July 2009 i bought a new motorbike and am suppose to be paying 3010 Baht every month for two years. Thanks I have started a new business with Daddy and this month was not great/ i could only make 8000 benefit

My meeting with my wife was a chance. i met her on the 1st january2010 and we were officially marrie on friday 4th of december 2010 in guinea. special thanks to N'do lamine, Nkende, my brother and uncle bourama. those people really help me out

i joined a new tontine on 15th july with tantie oumou and we have ten people

i finished paying for my motorbike on 20th july

i started paying daddy's money on 5th august 2011. paid 12000 first and have paid 13000 in september

On 15th July 2011 i gave 10000 to tantie oumou and the first person for our monthly contribution took the money. so i have to pay 10000 every month for 10 months and the reason i joined is to pay my brother's daddy's money i should get mine on 15th october

on 7 november 2011, i received 170,0000 baht from petit ibrahima dabo to my kasikorn bank. 170,000 that day was 5.6666 us dollars... baht as 30