User:Islam ali

'Bold textPlease listen when i talk, but don't only listen with your ears, because if you do, you might not hear all i'm saying. For I do not only talk with my mouth. Listen with your eyes. Look at me, watch me. My actions may be saying more than my words. You must listen with your eyes because I speak with my eyes. My eyes are the mouthpiece of my inner self, and the inner me is the real me, the me i need you to know. Listen with you mouth. I need to know, you are hearing me, that you are interested, that you care. Most of all. listen with your heart, for I talk mainly with my heart. My voice might say, 'How are you, what are you doing?' And your ears may hear this. But my heart might be yelling, 'Ask me how I am, get me to talk, I need to talk!' If you don't listen with your heart you won't hear this, and I will be afraid to really talk to you. But if you listen with your heart you will hear this, and I will talk and you will listen, and the rainbow will seem to have more color'

The Best And Most Beautiful Things

In The World Cannot Be Seen

Or Even Touched.

They Must Be Felt With The Heart

-Helen Keller-

If you are seriously about your relation, you must be willing to give up the following:-

* Always start a relationship by asking: Do I have ulterior motives for wanting to relate to this person? Is my caring conditional? Am I trying to escape something ? Am I planning to change the person? Do I need this person to help me make up for a deficiency in myself? If your answer to any of these questions is "Yes," leave the person alone. He or she is better off without you. :)
 * The need to be always right.
 * The need to be first in everything.
 * The need to be constantly in control.
 * The need to be perfect.
 * The need to be loved by everyone.
 * The need to possess.
 * The need to be free of conflict and frustration.
 * The need to change others for our needs.
 * The need to manipulate.
 * The need to blame.
 * The need to dominate.


 * Forming good relationships takes a lot of looking. But looking can be fun.

Relationships are not sporting events. Stop wrestling for control. No one ever wins this kind of match except divorce lawyers.


 * Someone wrote :

Remember the day I borrow your brand new car and I dented  it? I thought you'd kill me, but you didn't. And remember the time I dragged you out for hiking, and you said it would rain, and it did? I thought you'd say, "I told you so." But you didn't. Do you remember the time I flirted with all the guys to make you jealous, and you were? I thought you'd leave me, but you didn't. do you remember the time I spilled strawberry pie all over your car rug? I thought you'd hit me, but you didn't. And remember the time I forgot to tell you my work party was formal and you showed up with jeans? I thought you'd drop me, but you didn't. Yes, there were lots of things you didn't do. But you put up with me, and you loved me, and you protected me.

You love to love, not to get something back, or isn't love. To hope is risk pain. And  To try  is to risk failure. But risk must be taken, because the greastest hazard in life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing does nothing, has nothing, and is nothing.
 * To love to risk not being loved in return.


 * It's the weak who are cruel, gentleness can only be expected from the strong.


 * Hate, bitterness and vindictiveness are overpowering, self - defeating and intellectually as well as emotionally depleting.

Respect my silences. Alternatives for my problems, creativity, and spiritual needs are most often realized in moments of quiet.

People are about as happy as they make up their mind to be. ( Abrahim Lincoln)

If people are unreasonable, illogical, and self - centered, have the courage to love them anyway. And if you succeed you're going to win false friend and true enemy, have the courage to succeed anyway. And honesty and frankness and forgiveness are going to make you vulnerable, have the courage to be honest, frank, and forgiven anyway. The good you do today you're going to be told will be forgotten tomorrow, have the courage to do it anyway. The biggest people with biggest ideas they can be shot down by smallest people with smallest mind, have the courage to think big anyway. What you spent years building can be destroyed over night, that's the vulnerability of life, but have the courage to build anyway. Give the world best you have and you'll get kicked in the teeth, have the courage to get kicked in the teeth anyway.. :) In essence, have the courage to be courageous anyway.

She fooled me with her smile, she deceived me with her tears I didn’t know the deception of her love. I knew her but I knew her not.. Yes, she said she loved me, and out of my excitement I believed her. I used to see the world with her love, I used to see the future in her eyes. Oh, you taught me how to love, I wish you never did.. I knew looking back on the tears would make me laugh, but I never knew looking back on the laughs would make me cry. Why did u deceive me ….why Why couldn’t you leave me live in heaven deceived ‘ Then you woke me up in hell I was the tree, and you were the rain. You were the air I breathed, you were the sun in my cold days We dreamed together, we laughed together We planned the future together. But I didn’t know, I was the dreamer

I am your friend don’t get scared don’t worry.

Its just me just a friend

don’t hate don’t turn away.

I am just a friend

Lets share our loves lets share our dreams.

Lets not yell or fight.

I am just your friend.

Don’t ask where I have been or where I come from just be my friend.

Don’t ask me about yesterday, lets live today and think about tomorrow.

Yesterday has forgotten me and I don’t really care. I am just your friend.

ALLAH

Summer ends with Autumn, Health ends with illness , Life ends with death, Empires rise and fall, Stars burst out in space and disappear, The material world around us has multicolored changes , but like butterflies will disappear into distinction.
 * The sun vanishes, Flowers turn to yellow and die,

that kind of world. Allah can not get ill, age or die. The world is unjust and Allah is just. The world will be extinct; Allah is eternal. The world changes faces and Allah is fixed. He does not move or travel. The world is a prisoner of time and space. Allah is above Time.
 * Allah is not from that world; He is much exalted from

He has no age, beginning or ending. He has no density or weight. No vision can encounter Him; but He is everywhere. He has no past, present or future, but is absolute present and continuous. It can be said that He is above, below, left or right . He cannot be replaced in shape or body; it cannot be said that He is growing, increasing or decreasing in power or integrating because He is perfectly complete. He is in absolute composition and immanently indispensable. *He is the peace and protection/ t hat our souls go to after a rough journey the journey of life.

We rest there like ships docked at port. *He is one Who can help you and Who can destroy you. He Himself put the poison in the Scorpion. He Himself put the scent in the Rose. There is no one comparable To Him. He is the doer. He does not split or divide, neither does He increase or decrease. He does not dissolve, compound, disperse, connect or disconnect. He is the most unique of Himself meaning. He does not fissure on Himself. *Allah �There is no god, but He, the Living, Eternal,

Self Subsisting, Ever Sustaining. Neither does somnolence affect Him nor sleep. To Him belongs all that is in the heavens and the earth; and who can intercede with Him except by His leave? Known to Him is all that is present before men and what is hidden ( in time past and time future); and not even a little of His knowledge can they grasp except what He wills. His seat extends over heavens and the earth, and He tires not protecting them. He alone is all High and Supreme. (Qur’an 2:255)

He is the living with no need for a creator to give Him life. He is the absolute living with no dependence on anything � contrary of our life depending on Him. He is the sustainer who sustains everything of nothing. Everything exists by Him. The stars float in their orbit held by Allah's law. Trees grow and spring by giving them right of the sun, water and soil. And we are powered ourselves by Him. We are seeing and hearing with his giving that allowed us to enjoy life and the whole world owes Him. He is ascending us to the day of Judgment.

************************************************************************************ P ACKING MY BAGS –  GOING AWAY, TO THE PLACE WHERE THE AIR IS CLEAN - ON SATURN. THERE’ S NO SENSE TO SIT AND WATCH PEOPLE DIE, WE DON’T FIGHT OUR WARS THE WAY YOU DO. WE PUT BACK ALL THE THINGS WE USE – ON SATURN THERE’S NO SENSE TO KEEP ON DOING SUCH CRIMES. THERE’S NO PRINCIPLE IN WHAT YOU SAY. NO DIRECTION IN THE THINGS YOU DO. FOR YOUR WORLD IS SOON TO COME TO A CLOSE. THROUGH THE AGES ALL GREAT MEN HAVE TAUGHT TRUTH AND HAPPINESS JUST CAN’T BE BOUGHT OR SOLD. TELL ME WHY ARE YOU PEOPLE SO COLD. I’M GOING BACK TO SATURN WHERE THE RINGS ALL GLOW. RAINBOW, MOONBEAMS, AND ORANGE SNOW – ON SATURN.

Today I cried a painful tear for the world that’s falling apart. The violence and the terrible ways, I wish people would have heart. The people of the world today, It’s obvious they just don’t care. The worlds too busy thinking of themselves, They’re really not aware! The world is going very fast, Please hear the words I say. With a prayer, and some love, and little luck… We might shape up someday. I have a message to the world The only answer I see The way to keep our world alive, Is to think more of WE …..than ME! Where are you taking me? Oh Lady, you so pretty and so young And for how long I have to follow you You want to venture with me, You want to take me to a journey that I’ve been there before You want to take me on a road planted with sharp rock and thorns. How long should our souls ascend then descend in such painful road. I bring my little heart carry him in the palm of my hand to you. I know you want to extract his deep secret Look at him now; he is trembling like a leaf He is sensing going on another journey Please aim not your arrows at him. He feels vulnerable he remembers the calamities Those calamities opened my heart and tears cleansed my eyes. And mistakes taught me to learn the language of the hearts.

Something inside me is twisting and turning My heart is thumping Burning and yearning It’s a new kind of feeling It’s hard to explain Yet it’s pleasant and comforting Leaving no sorrow or pain Something is calling.. From far up above Telling me,that something is love. DEATH tells us  that we must live life now, In the moment – that tomorrow is illusion and never comes. It tells us that is not the quantity of our days, or hours, or years that matter, but rather the quality of the time spent. Everyday is new. Every moment is fresh. Time has no meaning in itself unless we choose to give it significance. Moments pass swiftly or as lightening depending on our state of mind - or rather how we are willing to suspend our mind. LOVE each day as if it was your last day because one of those day you're going to be right.

When you tell me you love me...... Does it mean you like me? Or just that you think i am nice? Does it mean you want to be close to me? Or that you want to be close to somebody, and I'll do, for tonight - or for a while? Does it mean you deeply care for me, and want a lasting relationship? Or that you're feeling sexually turned on.. and want me mostly as a mean of physical relation right now? Love means so many different things, to so many different people. Perhaps love can't be defined at all. How can you stop the stars from falling down? How can you stop the moon from shining in? How can you stop the rain from coming down? How can you say goodbye without a word? How can you mend a broken heart? How can you touch a soul then you let go? How can you let the tears falling down? How can you let the rainbow fad away

My happiness is me, not you. Not only because you may be temporary. But also because you want me to be what I am not. I can’t be happy when I change. Merely to satisfy your selfishness. Nor can I feel content when your criticize me for not thinking like you. You call me rebel. And yet each time I have rejected your beliefs. You have rebelled against mine. I do not try to mold your mind. I know you are trying hard enough to be just you. And I can’t allow you to tell me what to be. For I am concentrating on being me. You said that I was transparent and easily forgotten. But why then did you try to use my lifetime To prove yourself who you are? ********************************************************************