User:Jamesladson

James Mitchell Ladson was born December 15 1973 to Louise Ladson and James Billings. He was rasised by his mother and two brothers Charles A. Ladson, Albert Ladson and a sister Elizabeth A Ladson. In 1987 his baby brother, Matthew S. Green was a new and wonderful addition to his family.

James had a lot more sibling some he knew some he didn't and some he never knew existed. In other words his dad was a male how that cheated on his wife over and over making babies and leaving the mothers to fend for themselves and raise these kids. His decisions not to be in our lives had it's pain on us some more than others. And now it is time that my truth and life be told.

Coming up I thought my dad was everything. I wanted to be just like him. I wanted to drive trucks like him. Be admired by him but most of all to be loved by him. But found out early in life that if my mom was not going to be in his life, than he really did not want me in his life. Yeah I guess that was really messed up on his part.

I remember going on trips with him on his truck. I remember the two dogs he got me. He was a good dad to me showed me the love I needed. But when my mother decided to end their relationship he basically decided to end ours. For a long time my mom did what she could to keep him in my life and me in his. Even when it got to the point that she knew she could not make him be there for me.

I feel why his wife hated me so much. She had me because of him. Do you know how hard it was for her to let a bastard child sleep under her roof. But the way she treated me was uncaused for. Statements and comments were made and because I was was a child maybe she did not think I would understand. How wrong she was. But that is not why I stop going to spend the weekend I stop because her husband, my dad was really just dropping me off at his wife the baby-sitter.

At a young age he begin to work for want he wanted and to help around the house. He worked on farms and landed his first public job at the age of 14 as a cook.