User:K S Azeez Ahamed Meeran/sandbox

Good to see your decision to lead an independent, self-resilient life along with your family.

Whenever a woman is confronted with feelings of self-doubt it is so important to have a couple of strong, independent women one can look up to. Our mother, your in-laws are best example for that matter, she can inspire you to become a strong woman yourself to approach life with confidence.

When you take this decision, just our question is why now… what made you to do this at this point of time… will you be able to manage… what’s alternative plan if goes wrong.

When you can plan at your tender age to hold his hand; now you are mature mother of three, a lecturer with utmost responsibilities – plan your things precisely and decide not because of pressure from us; 2020 being a fancy number, we set target for you to plan and decide but not to put strain on.

… just to be independent …Can you write down the monthly basic needs …. Not limited to Monthly rent, School fees, electricity bills, groceries, conveyance like petrol and day to day general needs, medical emergencies, etc.

Any startup will always difficult… you know when we buy new vehicle, we cannot enjoy our ride in full speed…. At least for few mileages, you need to handle carefully with slow to medium speed… then once you cross the limit then you can gear in full speed and enjoy the fun.

“ you don’t get rid of yesterday by talking about it all of the time; you get rid of its effect on you by moving forward”