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Ji Sri Ram                             Grand Father First Words by Author. This book is dedicated to my Best friend Murali Krishna who came to this world as my cousin.This is the story of a boy who's straggle made him a successful brother, student, husband, son-in-low, employee, father, business man and a ideal human being.

I am very much proud to say he is my grandfather, my third teacher who taught me about the world, the satisfaction in working hard for your family and how to live with self-respect by working hard.

He worked hard in his 80* to earn money even thou his son is a topmost Entrepreneur in Chemical field. K.R.K.Prasad Rao MD of " Prasad Organic Private Limited" Chennai.

By his life I learned how life and people cheats use. How up and downs are common in life the person who feed so many people is suffering with hunger. From his life I learned that "love your family but don't let them misuse your love because blind love will spoil any one and one day that person will pull the wool over your eyes.

This is the journey of a boy who lost his parents at the age of 11 becoming a milliner who's life inspired his son to become one of top 10 business man in Aroma Chemical industry.

R.Sundara Krishna Chaithanya Sarma.

Once upon a time in British India there lived a rich Brahman family call Kottapallivaru.

They are the administrative heads of their place " Karans". Kottapalli Seshagiri [My grandfather] Rao was working as Madipadu Karanam. He was a genres and kind hearted man, he used to give food to poor people. In one word without feeding hungry people he won't eat.

For long time he didn't have children, so he and his wife went to so many pilgrimage places like Tirumala, Srikalahasti, Singarakonda etc.....

At last after 8 years there are blessed with a Boy, they named him Radhakrishnaiah. By seeing their son Seshagiri [My grandfather] Rao couple where very happy, Radhakrishnaiah became 14 years had passing very smoothly one day British government declared that no family should have more than 10 acre of land. From Kottapalli Seshagiri [My grandfather] Rao All 200 acre of land had been taken away by government.

Seshagiri [My grandfather] Rao think "Man, I just feel blessed... I was in a situation where the only way I could come out of it was by putting my faith in God. No matter how good my lawyers were, no matter how much celebrity I had, everything was just stacked up against me".

Now they got only 10 acre of land because of this Seshagiri [My grandfather] Rao went in to depression, it took some many days to come out of this major loss.

One day Seshagiri [My grandfather] Rao's wife asked him.

I want to see my Son as Bridegroom. I am becoming old so I want to play with my grandchildren in this age.

Seshagiri [My grandfather] Rao said" ok ok I am also thinking the same, I think Rajalakshmi is a suitable wife to our son what do you say".

His wife replied "I will be very happy by even thinking that such good a girl will be my daughter- in-low. But Ramaya is a very rich and powerful man in this district will he give his daughter's hand to our son.

Seshagiri [My grandfather] told her "Let's try without trying we can assume anything ourself,today I will go to Ramaya's house. He is one of my best friend he don't say no to me, bring my dovati.

His Wife brought dovati Seshagiri [My grandfather] started from home, in middle of his way to Ramaya's house he say Ramaya coming towards him, Seshagiri [My grandfather] called Ramaya " Namaste Ramaya, where are you going at this hour".

Ramaya replied " Namaste Seshagiri [My grandfather] I am coming to your house only I want to speak with you about an important thing, I expect you will not say no".

Seshagiri [My grandfather] asked Ramaya eagerly" What's the matter for which your coming to me in this hot summer day afternoon".

Ramaya said " Let's go to my house and talk", both of them reached Ramaya's home.

Ramaya started talking " See Seshagiri [My grandfather] you know how much I love my daughter, I want to give my daughter's hand to your son for marriage, I think you have no objection for that".

Seshagiri [My grandfather] happily agreed to that aliens, on one auspicious day Radhakrishnaiah and Rajalakshmi where bonded with marriage. Since Rajalakshmi was only 8 years old, after marriage also she stayed in her parents' house only.

Years passed Seshagiri [My grandfather] and his wife passed away Radhakrishnaiah become a reputed lawyers in his place and started earning plenty of money.

With money he got some bad friendships also, "A bad friend is worse than an enemy, an enemy you can see and avoid, but to detect an insincere friend is hard” “If you choose bad companions, no one will believe that you are anything but bad yourself,” It become true in Radhakrishnaiah life, he started drinking, sleeping with other women, he didn't bring his wife to home also.

By seeing all this things Ramaya tried to convince and show good path to his son-in-low Radhakrishnaiah, but Radhakrishnaiah was not that stage to understand his farther-in-low's words.

Money make him arrogant and slave to drinking and hooking up with girls. With this bad habits he started losing clients and money also.

One day at Ramaya's house " I did a terrible mistake by giving my innocent daughter's hand to that arrogant fallow, said Ramaya to his wife.

His wife replied" Leave the past now think what we have to do to settle our daughter's family, Son-in-low was spoiling both his and our family names.

Everyone in village are asking me that how long you will keep your daughter in your house, don't you have any idea to send her to her husband...........

In old days traditions are that much, if any girl stays in parents house after marriage menace all villagers will start criticizing the girls family.

Small Eg for this situation.

Story of Modubamma.

My grandmother's aunty she got married at the age of 4 and her husband passed away on her 8,she never saw her husband. she stayed in her patents house only.

One day one old Brahmin family came to my grandmother's grandfather's house, at the time of dinner, he asked " Who is the girl serving food, why she is not wearing mangalsutra, is she unmarried".

The host of the house replied " She is my daughter, she is a widow. She lost her spouse 3 years ago in an accident the old man got anger and washed his hand in fully served plate.

By seeing that the host i.e. my grandmother's grandfather asked the old Brahmin " Sir why did you do that is anything wrong happened wrong from our end?".

Old man replied as " How dare you to give me food on a un head shaved widow, didn't you know that widows should shave her head and should ware white saree, if you don't follow our traditions we with banish you from our cast".

By listening that my grandmother's grandfather, tock his daughter to pool and shaved her head and made her a widow since then she lived as a widow up to her death i.e. 98 years.

This is the situation in villages at that time. Years passed Radhakrishnaiah become 40, one day on court there was a hearing about husband and wife quarrel case, wife cheated husband by keeping a illegal affair with other man.

In court hearing the truth of the husband came out, that husband was a player who use to play with girls life's, he never treated his wife as wife......................................

By witnessing this he released how foolish he was he decided to quit all his bad habits and bring his wife back to home.

But it's too late all the property was lost and money he earned also finished.

He thought to start again from bottom, on the very next day he went to Ramaya's house and asked him to send Rajalakshmi to his house, Ramaya happily send daughter to her husband's house....

An year passed like water Radhakrishnaiah was living happily with his wife, one day asked Radhakrishnaiah to send a word to her mother, to come to their house...

Radhakrishnaiah asked what happened, Radhakrishnaiah replied she was pregnant, Radhakrishnaiah was very very happy.

After 9 months they were blessed with a boy they named his as Pattabhiramayya, days passed and after 3 years they are blessed with a girl baby...

After 1 year Rajalakshmi gave birth to boy who was named on his grandfather Kottapalli Seshagiri Rao [My grandfather] Years passed Radhakrishnaiah planned his daughter's marriage it was held in Kottapalli there native place.

Pattabhiramayya become 14 and started studying his 3 Forum then Seshagiri [My grandfather] asked his father, "Nana I want to go to Ongole and study 2 Forum".

Radhakrishnaiah said" Son we are not in a position to make two persons study in city, so wait for one year once your brother completes his education then I will send you to City and you can study 2 forum".

By this answer Seshagiri [My grandfather] was very sad, he went to his Mom and cried. She consoled him and said not wary I will asked your father to send you to City next year.

Days passed as water in a river, Radhakrishnaiah ended his Paanchabhutika yatra, by his father's death Seshagiri [My grandfather] became very sad and he didn't talk with any one for one month.

Now all the family responsibilities fall on Pattabhiramayya, he left his studies and joined in small school in Kottapalli.

Days are passing hardly, without father in that age(16) this children are struggling very hard, with old mother and young brother Pattabhiramayya is struggling to live.

One day Rajalakshmi went to Pattabhiramayya and said " Pattabhi I want see your marriage.

Pattabhiramayya replied that " Amma in this hard days I am not ready to take this extra burden. Wait for some more time, meanwhile I will manage all this financial problems".

Rajalakshmi said " Pattabhi I am becoming old and I need someone to take care of this family, your brother is too young we have to take care of him if anything happened to me menace, who will take care of our family".

After a long discussion Pattabhiramayya agreed for that marriage. Rajalakshmi went to his brother and asked his help to see alliance.

With the help of her brother Rajalakshmi find a suitable girls for Pattabhiramayya. Her name was Annapurna. She was the daughter of AmmanabroluVaru. Her father was a ILTD employee.

Pattabhiramayya's marriage was held in Ammanabrolu village, in 1938. His farther-in-low, helped Pattabhiramayya to get a job in ILTD as a Jr Accountant.

Now Pattabhiramayya's family was got small support to manage their house hold expenses, everything is going little smoothly.

One day Seshagiri Rao went to his mother and asked " Amma I want to go to town and study 3forum, last time you told that after brother's education I can go to town".

Rajalakshmi answered as " Chinna we are not in that position to afford your education and your expenditure for hostel and food, your brother's earning is very less, which is not Sufficient for our day today disbursement, then how can we make you to study in town".

At that time only Pattabhiramayya came home from office by hearing this thing he interfered  that  discursion and said " Amma don't worry about money we will manage that from some ware, tomorrow you two go to Ongole and join Seshagiri in school.

Next day morning Rajalakshmi and Seshagiri started from Kottapalli