User:Lucesco

Lucesco is the Internet name for Marc Webb

Here is a sample of Marc Proverbs

Marc Proverbs
Global

all of life is forward and back

aging is mostly caused by forgetting what you once knew; how you moved, how you played, how you lived, how you once lived

being of value has little to do with what you have and everything to do with what you offer

don’t ask why, ask how

it’s always the wrong people who are hard on themselves

liars delude themselves the most

life needs a view in space or time

life needs light

loneliness is the human condition

most of your life is already how it will always be

people do what they desire - not what they say they desire

pleasure doesn’t equal happiness

private personal cultures make acceptable behaviors seem wrong - when they’re not

successful–even happy–doesn’t equal self-aware

the source who hurts you will not be the source who heals you - no matter how you try to make this so

there are levels and layers to God

you can never own something, you can only prevent sharing it

you will never meet your enemy so you have to fight back differently

Perception

accept and understand: I am not damaged, I am not broken

ask yourself, what is enough?

be aware of thinking that is permanent, pervasive, or personal

be careful of the meaning that you ascribe to body types - we all look different inside

consider what you do and don’t have power over

everyone’s perception and understanding of ourselves is partial and inaccurate, as are all our perceptions and understanding of others

get useful comment on how you are doing

its not vain to like yourself and love yourself

life reflects you, as do people

try not having to understand

try not reacting to yourself and making it worse

try not reacting to what hasn’t happened yet

try understanding life at all its levels

understand the nature of secondary benefits

what has happened to you does not equal who you are or what you deserve

Activation

accept loneliness first

be accountable always

be responsible first

choose reality, it’s more boring, but oh - how it lasts

depressed and paralyzed? get angry and motivated!

don’t perpetuate a problem in your desperation to change it

improvement causes disruption

make choices informed by the concept of opportunity cost

move slower, conscious, forward

questioning what you do not know for sure? then do nothing to complicate matters further

reduce your harm to yourself, don’t cultivate pain

SHOW UP

sometimes there are no more intermediate steps, you just have to do it

think, be : uncomplicated

try narrowing your possibilities to succeed in more of them

you can’t change all but you can affect some

Connection

avoid people for whom nothing is significant or sacred, except what pleases them

be available and find someone to love who is available; an unavailable man is not worth more

create proximity

don’t confuse breadcrumbs–especially without pattern–to be a feast

everyone deserves to be touched - however that means to you

love and pride are incompatible

only actions count

relationships require the ability to communicate, a common sense of time, and compatiable demons

relationships can be easy

sometimes the only way you can love someone is by not hurting them more

sometimes you have to experience pain once so you never have to experience it twice

support authentic relationships

there are many who are “the one”

true relationships begin once you’ve each fully dissapointed each other and are left with no illusions

understand what you believe in to find people who believe in you

you cannot create desire-for-who-you-are if someone chooses not to see you

weave a life to find a relationship