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Dr. Sanjay Mehrotra
is an Indian. he

born at Calcutta
in the year 1960. He was

student of Model Higher secondary School Jabalpur
in the year 1977. Dr. Sanjay Mehrotra has done his

graduation from Ravi Shankar Shukla University Raipur
in the year 1980. He was awarded

Ph.D from University Rani Durgavati Vishwavidlaya Jabalpur
in the year 2000. Research matter was Cultural Migration from Proto Historic Central India. He did his M.A in Ancient Indian History Cultural & Archaeology from Jabalpur University Rani Durgavati Vishwavidlaya.

He

started his career from Raipur
in the year 1980 as Sales Personal and served products like Kirloskars, L&T, Bajab Auto,Love-Joy,and joined Life Insurance Corporation of India as Officer in the year 1989.

He is a kind Social Worker
always interested to serve YOUTH for Career Guidance, Placements, Job Oriented Education and Morality.

He started a Distance Education Institute

National Institute for Technology & Management
for the benefit of the YOUTH of Central India where short term job oriented courses are provided with Personality Development and Motivation and Morality teachings and training. Focus of the NITM is is financially and Educationally weaker students and specially candidates from Villages and Slums.

He is a member and Secretary of

JOC Society for Education & Entertainment
an NGO engaged in serving Poor needy and women-girls. Through the programme of NGO on personality Development and Motivation he has given guidance to number of students and children.

He with his NGO planned to organized a

BIG SALUTE an Honour
to POLICE Motivation Morality and personality Development programme with Entertainments and AWARDS for POLICE just to motivate and thanks them for thankless work they are doing for us is our Security & Safety.

== He is member of several Organizations and hold Positions == 1-

Life Member INTACH Jabalpur
Chapter INTACH has done a comprehensive survey on the heritage structures of Jabalpur and its surroundings. A total of 500 heritage structures have been identified so far. INTACH is also actively involved in the restoration and protection of the heritage structures of Jabalpur.

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GENERAL SECRETARY STATE M.P JAN JAGRAN MORCHA
FORMED BY Late Shri Rajiv Gandhi and Patron of the organization is Cabinet Minister Shri Kamal Nath Ji. Predident Shri Mathura Prasad Ji Social Worker.

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Hon. Director National Institute for Technology & Management
Institute of Short term job oriented courses and Personality Development and Motivation programmes for every one.

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Secretary JOC Society for Education & Entertainment NGO
engaged in Cultural & Heritage Protection Awareness programme and Women Empowerment, Global Warming Protection, Education with Entertainment, Save Girl Child, Forest Conservation, Water Conservation, medical & Legal Aid and Camps.

5-Shephered Education Society Nagpur Engaged in Medical & Nursing Training

6-Member Serv Siksha & Rojgar Sansthan

ABOUT PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT

1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 2. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the  positive present moment 3. Don't over do ; keep your limits 4. Don't take yourself so seriously ; no one else does 5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip 6. Dream more while you are awake. 7. Smile a lot- Nothing works better than a big smile when it comes to interacting with people around. Do not forget to flash your trillion dollar smile quite often. Believe me, it works! As they say “a smile is a curve that sets everything straight”. A smiling face wins even the toughest soul. Wear your smile while interacting with others. Smile not only helps in enhancing an individual’s personality but also winning other’s heart.

8. Think positive- It is really essential to think positive. Remember there is light at the end of every dark tunnel. Do not always think negative as it not only acts as a demotivating factor but also makes an individual dull and frustrated. Don’t get upset over minor things. Be a little flexible and always look at the broader perspectives of life.

9. Dress Sensibly- Dressing sensibly and smartly go a long way in honing one’s personality. One needs to dress according to the occasion. How would a female look if she wears a sari to a discotheque? Obviously ridiculous! No matter how expensive your sari is, you can’t wear it to a night club or a pub where everyone is dressed in smart casuals. Price has nothing to do with smart dressing. An individual who is well dressed is respected and liked by all. No one would take you seriously if you do not wear suitable clothes fitting with occasions. Do take care of the fit of the dress as well. An individual should wear clothes as per his/her body type, height, physique and so on. Someone who is bulky would not look very impressive in body hugging clothes. It is not necessary that something which looks good on your friend would also look good on you. Wear the right make up. You do not have to apply loud make up to look good and attractive. Even minimal make up, if applied sensibly can really make you stand apart from the rest.

10. Be soft-spoken- Do not always find faults in others. Fighting and quarrelling lead to no solution. Be polite with others. Be very careful of what you speak. Avoid being rude and short tempered.

11. Leave your ego behind- An individual needs to hide his ego everywhere he goes. Be it office or workplace you need to leave your ego behind if you wish to win appreciation from others. An individual who is good from within is loved by all.

12.Avoid Backbiting- Backstabbing and criticizing people are negative traits which work against an individual’s personality. Learn to appreciate others. If someone has done some extraordinary task, do not forget to give a pat on his/her back. Believe me; the other person will speak high of you even when you are not around. Do not spread unnecessary rumours about someone. An individual should not try to interfere too much in someone’s personal life. Dishonesty, cheating, lies tarnish your image and people start avoiding you in the long run. If your friend is seeing someone, you have absolutely no rights to make his/her affair national news.

13. Help others- Do not always think of harming others. Share whatever you know. Remember no one can steal your knowledge. Always help others.

14. Confidence- Confidence is the key to a positive personality. Exude confidence and positive aura wherever you go.

15. A Patient listener- Be a patient listener. Never interrupt when others are speaking. Try to imbibe good qualities of others.

Techniques in Handling People Don't criticize, condemn or complain. Give honest and sincere appreciation. Arouse in the other person an eager want.

Six ways to make people like you

Become genuinely interested in other people. Smile. Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound  in    any language. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves. Talk in terms of the other person's interests. Make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely. Win people to your way of thinking The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it. Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never say, "You're wrong." If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically. Begin in a friendly way. Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately. Let the other person do a great deal of the talking. Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers. Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view. Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires. Appeal to the nobler motives. Dramatize your ideas. Throw down a challenge.

Be a Leader: How to Change People Without Giving Offense or Arousing Resentment A leader's job often includes changing your people's attitudes and behavior. Some       suggestions to accomplish this:


 * Begin with praise and honest appreciation.
 * # Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly.
 * # Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.
 * # Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.
 * # Let the other person save face.
 * # Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Be "hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise."
 * # Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.
 * # Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.
 * # Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.
 * # Fundamental facts you should know about worry
 * # Fundamental facts you should know about worry

How To Make Good Personality Many people want to be noticed and stand out. You, too, can make your personality stand out in a good way. Don't be afraid to be different. People will admire you for your unique personality. Be kind and considerate. People who truly practice these virtues to everyone they meet can be true to themselves and still stand out. Steps 1.	Don't be loud. Other people find noisy people to be obnoxious and annoying. We don't want that, do we? 2.	Know when to speak up. Defend friends in tough situations. 3.	Don't be afraid to talk to others. Always look people in the eye when you're talking with them. It makes you appear more confident. Nobody wants to talk to someone who can't stop staring at their feet. Remember to stand up tall. Never slouch. 4.	Having a sense of humor is a plus. Know the right time to laugh. It's good to crack a few jokes every now and then, but don't overdo it. 5.	Remember personality doesn't mean that you should have looks. Personality means to represent the people how you are. You should have confidence in your eyes, voice and your face too which should obviously reflect to others 6.	Don't be afraid to be different. People will admire you for your unique personality. 7.	Be kind and considerate. People who truly practice these virtues to everyone they meet can be true to themselves and still stand out. 8.	Create a special "trademark" for yourself. People will remember you for it and see how unique you really are! Tips •	Keep a smart head and keep cool. •	Don't shout or be aggressive. •	Don't doubt you self. •	Be executive in dress •	Create your own personal style. •	Don't copy anyone

1-कुछ लोग अपनी ज़िंदगी से नाख़ुश होते हैं.उन्हें अपने भाग्य, अपनी किस्मत से शिकायत रहती है जैसे “मैं जो भी चाहता हूँ मुझे कभी नहीं मिलता, मेरा भाग्य मेरा साथ कभी नहीं देता या हर कार्य में मुझे असफलता मिलती है”. ऐसे लोग निराशा से घिर जाते हैं और हमेशा उदास और तनावग्रस्त रहते हैं. 2-कुछ लोग ऐसे होते हैं जिन्हें अपने आसपास के लोगों, अपने दोस्तों और अपने रिश्तों से शिकायत रहती है जैसे “सभी मुझे इग्नोर करते हैं, मेरा मजाक बनाते हैं या मुझे कोई नहीं चाहता, कोई मदद नहीं करता.” ये लोग धीरे धीरे दुनिया से कटने लगते हैं. एकाकीपन और अवसाद के शिकार भी हो सकते हैं. 3-कुछ व्यक्तियों के लिए खुद से जुड़ा निर्णय लेना बहुत मुश्किल होता है जैसे “मुझे कौनसा कोर्स करना चाहिए, करियर का निर्माण किस क्षेत्र में करना चाहिए, किस क्षेत्र में मुझे सफलता मिल सकती है.” ऐसे लोग अपना लक्ष्य निर्धारित नहीं कर पाते और अपने जीवन से जुड़े निर्णयों में हमेशा खुद को दौराहे पर पाते हैं. असमंझस की वज़ह से कई बार गलत निर्णय कर लेते हैं जिसका परिणाम सिर्फ पछतावा रह जाता हैं. 4-सभी परेशानियों और समस्यायों से निज़ात पाने के लिए सबसे ज्यादा जरुरी है कि आप सबसे पहले अपने दोस्त बने और अपने साथ समय बितायें. अक्सर ज़िंदगी कि भाग दौड़ में हमारे पास खुद के लिए जरा भी वक्त नहीं होता. हमारे साथ जो भी होता है हम बस उस पर अपनी प्रतिक्रिया दे देते हैं और ये नहीं सोचते कि ये क्यों हो रहा है? 5-सभी को चाहिए कि हम रोज कुछ समय सिर्फ अपने साथ बितायें. खुद से बाते करें. हमें क्या अच्छा लगता हैं, क्या बुरा लगता है, किन कार्यों से ख़ुशी मिलती है और किनसे नहीं….ये सोचे. अपने हर कार्य, अपने व्यवहार, अपने मूड, अपनी प्रतिक्रियाओं और अपने प्रत्युत्तर का निरीक्षण कीजिये. 6-प्रतिक्रियायें आपको कैसे प्रभावित करती हैं, आप दूसरो से कैसे इंटरेक्ट करते हैं, आपका वातावरण आपको कैसे प्रभावित करता है… इस पर गौर करें. दिन भर आपने क्या किया, किन लोगों से मिले, क्या बात की….इस पर भी ध्यान दीजिये. 7-किन लोगों का साथ आपको अच्छा लगता हैं और किनके साथ आप असहज महसूस करते है. आपकी कौनसी बात दूसरो की तारीफ पाती है और कौनसी बात आलोचना…. इसका भी निरीक्षण कीजिये. 8-अपने व्यवहार, अपनी भाषा, अपने रहन सहन, अपने व्यक्तित्व सभी का पूरी ईमानदारी से निरीक्षण कीजिये. अपने आलोचक बनिये और अपने प्रशंसक भी…पर पूरी ईमानदारी के साथ.

9-अपनी खूबियों को तराशिये और अपनी कमियों को दूर करने का प्रयास करिए फिर देखिये आपके व्यक्तित्व, आपकी भाषा, रहन सहन और आपके व्यवहार में कैसा निखार आता हैं. स्वतः ही आप लोगों का ध्यान बटोरने लगेंगे और उन सभी की नज़रों में खास बन जायेंगे.

10- नौकरी या करियर से जुड़े निर्णयों की हो तो उसके लिए जरुरी हैं अपनी पसंद, नापसंद,  स्ट्रेंथ और  कमजोरियों को पहचाने. आप किस क्षेत्र में माहिर हैं, क्या करके आपको ख़ुशी मिलती हैं, आपके कौनसे कार्य की हर जगह तारीफ होती है और किस कार्य को करते समय आप पूरे आत्मविश्वास से भरे होते हैं.

जब आप खुद को पहचानने लगेंगे तो आपके लिए लक्ष्य का निर्धारण आसान हो जायेगा. आपसे जुड़े निर्णय करते समय आपको दुविधा का सामना नहीं करना पड़ेगा. समय की बर्बादी से भी बचेंगे और गलत निर्णयों से भी. आप अपने भाग्य के निर्माता बनेंगे. अपने रिश्तों और अपने दोस्तों का चुनाव कर पाएंगे और रिश्तों में मधुरता आएगी. सही दिशा में सही कदम उठाकर अपने सभी सपनों को साकार कर पाएंगे और जीवन के हर क्षेत्र में सफलता आपके कदम चूमेगी.