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 OUR PARENTS, OUR SUCCESS 

Every family in which the members are surviving from generation to generation, there is hope for the spouse to see their children becoming stars one day, for this great goal,families breeding out everyday through the elements of relationship; trust, believe, love, passion and patience…etc.

After several struggles with patience and counselings for the accomplishment of the wishes made by the two partners, when the day finally comes and the marital home built up completely, the parents of the spouse then become one family and also have important expectation for the success of their children’s.

Some parents at this stage engage in prayers for their offspring, giving out charity, giving the spouse chance to make their own decision and also sharing their ideas and experiences with them. Some parents giving out their own personal dress like special necklaces, ear-rings, cloths..etc to the newly bride.

The parents, who prayed to see their family extents through their ground-children, some of them are been neglected by their sons and daughters after such sons and daughters become spouse, some have been lockup by their sons through the influence of the new partner. Some of the fathers and mothers are been sent away from their initial residence because, their children see them as disturbance after they have become ground-fathers and ground-mothers, oh Lord!

At this stage many rhetorical questions rise as follows: Who is your foundation if without your parents? who introduce you to this world?? who taught you how to eat, walk, drink..etc, the school in which you get your qualifications and that pollute your mind against your parents who sent you to that school??

How many times have you fed-up with your girl-friends or boy-friends??, have you ever take that as a point to appreciate your parents for their patient for living together since longtime even before your birth???

If what your parents deserve from you, is to weak up early go to work, neglect them, insult them, going away from them , even to extent of beating them! then you have to prepare very well for what would be assumed you deserve by children who satisfied you from been care of your father and your mother.

Some of these parents got sacked, some of them got jailed some even got killed all of these happened to some fathers and mothers because of their children. So, why do you feel ashamed to call your father as “my father” but rather calling him different? or call your mother as “my mother”

“It is never too late to correct our mistakes” let’s correct our selves by apologizing to our parents, let’s correct our selves by visiting them regularly, let’s correct our selves by giving our parents gifts just to show love to them,

Finally, if you have nothing to give to your parents at least just eat food in the same substance with them.