User:Rajesh Chanchlani

The world around us is changing constantly, the pace with which we are witnessing them happening, the information flow has never been so rapid in history of mankind, the exposure rates have gone high and the scenes around us changing in friction of seconds that we are falling short of time to cope up with them. Tons of information comes up in the palm in a friction of a second, the variety, the depth and from basics to advanced, all of it is here. The questions arise, what do we do with so much of information? How much information is really needed? Will I be able to use all the information I am exposed to? What is the limit and demarcation? As grown ups we do face all these questions, then think what a child may go through when he/she in their early ages are exposed to such extensive loads and chunks of information. The basic is that unknowingly they are being pushed into the areas where they are least interested. As more and more attention is being focused on some limited areas, the so called competition is created, pushing them beyond their limits. The stretching is so much that at times the results turn out to be fatal. No doubt there is a pseudo unrest and competition we see all around which makes us react and not act properly, resulting in putting our children in depression, hypertension, anxiety and at time pushing them towards the doors of suicide. The recent incidences of 24 suicides and 1500 Counselings at Kota last year, the numbers are increasing every year are the indicators of this. This trend suggests that without knowing the potential of the child, parents are pushing them hard to fulfill self desires the outcome of which is self evident. Kota is only one such example to qoute, the scene is almost the same throughout the country, may be it is a small town or a big metro. Now the question arises, what is the amicable solution to this? Communication and training Parents must first have a quality communication with their ward and try to really find the core problem the child is facing, because at times the child is so introvert that he fails to communicate his problems with his teachers, parents or even with his peer groups and is a victim of stress and anxiety. The child doesn't know the way in which he has to handle and fulfill or deliver what parents have asked and changes the behaviors, here the entry of parents becomes must, because this is the most crucial phase or else the parent may loose their child. We all know that everyone requires training before taking up a new task, so is true with children. No one can give the best on the first exposure, it does require Proper training hours to become the best. Here I emphasize on the word a Proper, because to get the best results a proper training program, proper mindset, proper understanding, proper communication, checking the real potential and the desire for completing the task is required. Without all these inputs no one is going to get the desired results. There is a need of synchronization of all these factors where both the parents and teachers have to come up together jointly and take up the task, rather then pushing the responsibilities on each other. The second thing is to check the real potential of the child, understand it and then find out the ways to enhance it so that you get the desired results. Studies have shown that there is enhancement in the capacity in children to cope up and deliver their best once the training and communication is proper. They do require a healthy environment, exposure to new techniques, directions and feedback to be balanced giving their 100% with positive frame of mind. At Trainthebrain (Ttb) workshops we guage the real potential of your child and device methods which not only clear up their mental blocks, but gives them real strength to face the challenges and overcome the hurdles. With 16 different experiments they learn to program themselves, manage their resources, time, memory and studies. Give your child the best gift of confidence, courage and help him become a self starter.