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Breakups – Demolishment of Affections

Breakups – Demolishment of Affections There are a lot of misconceptions about various issues. We can never make correct judgment about an issue unless we have full sense about it. Nor we can interact with any issue unless we have a necessary ‘know-how’ prior to its get-go.

In my second opinion, I would like to dawn some facts behind common pitfalls resulting in ‘Love Breakups’ afterwards.

Love, itself, is a bottomless spirit which is one of the most commonly misperceived phenomenon ever been since the birth of this world. The perceptions vary from time to time and person to person. Everyone define it in his own theory. But it is noticeable factor that every judgment is given in the light of one’s consequences. Now you might be wondering about the stimulus behind my current opinion. Well, to be very true, being totally unbiased, I am sharing my thoughts with you, irrespective of my life consequences.

Love is not a cup of tea for everyone. It is a specific state of mind that is commenced, managed, debugged and sustained with consistency, patience and optimism. Whoever we make interaction with; considerate attitude must be ascertained at both ends. It must be kept in mind that the person we are interacting with; possesses real feelings and real existence. If someone is not favorable for you interact with, then don’t put both hearts on stake. These delicate matters must be taken great care of.

In modern world, we see, ‘love’ has become a ‘job’ or some commercial-like resort. For grown-ups, ‘love’ has become trendy enough to adopt without being rational. Young generation is aimlessly indulging in ‘affairs’. They consider it an important segment of their climax days. They have not enough time to even think what are they actually doing with themselves? This random exercise of ‘affairs’ is mostly resulting in unmanageable losses. We shouldn’t forget that every event has its ‘honeymoon period’ and the time when it’s over, the actual reality reveals which is often unacceptable at most ends.

While on the flight of fantasies, the winds of mishaps deflect the journey of ‘affair’. Soon the time comes when the ‘misallocation’ of values takes place. They ignore the importance and due rights of family members and pitifully consider it as normal. They get caught very badly that others can easily feel the difference in behaviors. This ‘change’ occurs due to outbreak of premature emotions. This coming ‘change’ is often painful for family members who deserve due attention and affection from their ‘victimized’ child. Sometimes there happen to be some expectations which prove lethal afterwards. Expectations become intolerable when made carelessly. I shall call them ‘vulnerable expectations’. These expectations drive them to the alley of disappointment where they have to avail light only by flaming their own hearts.

Then comes the number of ‘Priorities’. Unfortunately, priorities are also mismanaged and often swapped. They never wish to realize this to themselves that they have begun to overlook the vitality of family relations. When this element comes into existence, it applies on everyone including that ‘person’.

This attitude leads to another stage called “Fed-up Moments”. In this stage, the relationship seems a bit distasteful to both of them. They appear to be repelling each other. The spark of relation is diffused. Relation begins to move on ‘unwantedly’. Considerations begin to dispatch from souls. Rude behavior becomes routine job. How long a relation can sustain while having such deliberate disturbances. Consequently, air of indifference begins to envelop the heart and mind. Compromises mostly save the relation from getting in difficulty but now “compromises” have also lost their significance. Once the time was, when both looked for chances to meet, and now, they are looking for excuses to avoid. Warmth of love and care is transforming into the chill of indifference and detest.

Always keep in mind, that such big changes do not come unless there is an intervention from outside. When heart is driven somewhere else, then the deflection do occurs. This is absolutely clear that nothing can abandon any place unless there is some certain alternate to be shifted on.

In conclusion to the above, it is notable to mention that life should be treated the way it is bestowed to us only for once. It should not be spoiled for those who do not care for us at all. Love is not a fantasy or a paragon, but a stark reality, and can’t be denied by any argument or action. Hallmarks of a good person comprises of an ability to manage the life affairs with proper awareness and gravity, and to prioritize the tasks in accordance with their importance.