User:Sanjibchakroborty

The unfold truth Date:-06.08.2012. 1969:- Born at Lady Dufferin Hospital, Amherst Street, Kolkata in the year 1969, 19th September, poyla aswin 1376 may be at midnight. Because poyla aswin 1376 the date according to English calendar was 18th September but as because I was born after 12:00 at    night so the date according to English calendar was 19th but as Bengali calendar we generally calculate a day starting from 4:00 am. So I exactly do not know the time and never asked my mother about the timing but I guess it would be around 12:00 to 4:00 am. It’s still remain a birth mystery.

Lived at Behala. The house was zamindar pattern house. At that time all the girls of the family could not go outside for studies. As a result my Grandfather established a school for all the girls of the family. Later the school was taken by the Government. The name of the school was Rukmini Vidya Mandir according to the name of my Grandmother.

1971:- Shifted to Kharagpur, West Bengal due to father business purpose. There I and my sister was admitted to St.Agnes Convent school. I was not at all good in studies from my very childhood. In every class I hardly obtained the pass mark to be promoted in next class. My minds always rummage around for new creation of life. For what purpose we study, that was big question in my mind. At that time we were in a rented house. The house was very beautiful. We use to fetch water from patkuoa. There was beautiful garden with mango trees. I and my sister use to play all around the garden. All the children use to accompany us in the evening in the play ground. At that time we participated in many of the cultural functions which use to take place in the local community. 1985:- We shifted to our new house. Dreamland of my mother and father. It took a long time to finish the construction of the new house. Finally in the 1985 we shifted to our new house.

1987:-But our joyful moments didn’t long last. In March 5th 1987 my father passed away. My Board exam was knocking at the door. Very crisis period. But however with the blessings of God I managed to pass out the exam of Madhyamik as usual with margin number. Admitted to Commerce stream in Hijli High School for further studies.

1988:- Days of misery did not leave us. In 1988 22nd July my beloved mother passed away in the afternoon. In my life I could not think anything without her. She was like a umbrella who use to save from all the disasters of life.

1989:- The final countdown of Higher Secondary exam. Mind was very much upset in the sad demise of my mother. However with the blessing of God this time I narrowly managed to pass the Higher Secondary exam with same margin equation.

The hurdle was very much tuff at the moments to proceed in the life further. Again I and my sister went back to Kolkata for survival of next part of our journey. The situation became much tuffer at this time in our stepbrother’s house. The tears of my sister drastically made me very painful at the moment. At the time I was fully ruined in the dark waves of life. This time I could not manage to clear my graduation after several efforts. Life went very miserable at that time. My sister got married and I became very much lonely at time.

1995:- I was kicked out of from my brother’s house and was to be settle in our ancient house or rather paradise dwelling at Kharagpur. There also the situation did not go right at all. With my immature age the whole world looked like a fantasy to me. I thought I got escape from the prison of my life. But I was wrong. Mistake after mistake has once again ruined by life. Several clashes had put my life into the graveyard. I was thinking of escaping from the horrible miserable days of my life but got no way out.

2001:- My life was born to do mistake after mistake. Finally to escape from this horrible situation I caught hand of a swindling lady, where situation was just waiting for another horrible mystery of my life. She was the personality who came to end the last optimism of my life. As a consequence she had totally ruined me in every aspect of life. Huge amount of loan, relation with unfaithful persons, fraudulent, telling lie. She had all this quality in her blood by birth. Ultimately when the lights of all hopes were bunged up, in the year 2003 in the month of December my brother-in-law came with the lights of hopes in my life. Life has not yet end it’s a new journey. Come up be steady forget the past. It was the then main motto of my life. Leaving my home for new destiny I join a construction company with strong recommendation of my brother-in-law. That time I earned only 2,500/- per month. But it was like a peace of heaven to me at that time.

2006:- I came to Arunachal Pradesh that also with strong recommendation of my Brother-in-law. Here the situation was much better than the previous one. Lord Shiva has blessed me with his blessing and my god father my brother-in-law stood beside me to take out of this drastic situation. At that time nobody supported me, nobody came beside to catch my hands from drowning. But my past history still poked me every here an then. Torturing and fraudulent of my so call wife was still going on over phone. No peace of mind was there still being in a good company. But with blessings of Lord Shiva I manage to escape from that vamp. But divorce was still then not completed. Life is still passing on its own rhythms. But gone are the days which will never come back which use to be in late1980’s. My mom who I love the most, without her the moments are still overcast in my life. Was she alive I would have not in such a drastic position today. This story may not mean to you much, but it’s mean to me lot. As you are my friends so I am sharing my life story with you. Today I will feel glad if you read this story of a poor deprived bloke and will think that someone is still there to listen to verdict of my life.