User:Sarahsisson

the social psycho if you have the same issues as I do, you have been told to take it down a notch. beware of this for it is a 'one' that usually has this sort of opinion about you. the one is a devious creature. The one never speaks when you are around but when you leave they simply roll their eyes. now what makes a person a one. You really ought not consider every low key individual as a one. There are many quiet people that serve as a spiritual foundation for certain organization. they are the ones that do not roll their eyes back. Ones are betas, beta that have one controlling ability and that is the subtleness of their jeering. How often do our eyes and ears entertain what we see and hear about our selves coming from the mouths of those that fear the energy we naturally have. The in boxer, the one, will always make you into the fool unless you follow these steps 1. do not try to defend yourself. Defending yourself makes the one right. It is true proof that you are paranoid and care too much about what people think about you. you and I know that you do care too much but that is the internal issue. We will get there. the point is. do let them know you hurt. do this by not making eyes contact. eye contact may make you seem aggressive because psychos' al have a very mean streak. 2. say something positive but not to the one. after a one tells you tone tone it down or rolls their eyes it is important to say something nice. be very careful here because we can seem very passive aggressive at this point. face it we get angry and hurt. remember that how you handle yourself after a one complaint is an impression that will stay with you forever. 3. try to take it down a notch. see ehat happens. i guarantee that the people on your side of the scale will wonder what is wrong with you and if you are having a bad day. when that happens snap to the grid and get over your damn self. at work do your job well. school do the same but know that at home people cant run off so be as crazy as you want. 4. don't ever tattle on a one that rolls their eyes at you. you will get fired. when you challenge a non verbal person you will loose because talking too much when you are hurt erases certain credibility's, makes you look immature and the boss gets mad a t you too. if you complain about other people then the microscope turns to you because your boss expects you to behave like you demand to be treated and believe it or not you will be the one in certain situations. 5. don't obsess on what "they' think about you. odds are they are not thinking about you at all but keep in mind that they do have an opinion about you. we give people every chance to judge us and when we are embarrassed it is too late. truth is, stop obsessing if a one cuts you down. you can make yourself nuts with worry if you do and believe me it has an escalading impact on how you behave i the long run. when we obsess. we get angry and that makes us look even worse. so, parent yourself. think about what that one person that you know does keep up with your energy but is perceived as an even tempered creature. if they tell you to let it go then you have not followed any of the previous steps.