User:Selvaganeshdurairaj

My given name is Selva Ganesh.

I am a carefree young dynamic person. I always bring my joyfulness to everyone's life and smiles in everyone's face. I believe personality does not come with face alone. I have strong belief that life is meant to be lived with smile!!! I always prefer to have a charming and outgoing personality that has a positive effect on everyone. I always try to be like a charismatic busybody!!!

"Shared sorrow is half sorrow, shared joy is double joy"... So, I hide my sorrows and hurts within myself and I share only my happiness with all. My actions must change the lives of everyone around me and I push people to become the best that they can be always!!!

Speed, style and sparkle are the essence of my life. I always do works with speed and style!!! I never felt inferiority complex about myself and I always think I am more energetic person. Because I like Swami Vivekananda's quote..."We are always stronger and powerful than we think..."

My image on the left side explains my views on myself...!

Like all people, I have myself good and bad habits...I have put them in my site to make you all understand who am I and what type of person I am...I am the youngest kid in my family. My family is a very lovable small family, which consists of my dad, moms, two brothers with in-laws and 2 kids. In this big world, apart from this family, I have an eternal relation which is only for me....That is My mummy, Rekha. You can read about each and every relation I gathered in my life in the next 5 consecutive pages...

My good habits are...

I am a happy-go-lucky person. I know my life is short and uncertain, so I am always easy-going, soft-spoken and loveable to all.

My ideology is "MOTHER, FATHER, GURU, GOD!!!" Nothing in this world is important for me than my family.

I learn lessons from the people I meet in my life and the tough times of my life. I dont expect a teacher beside me to teach everything in life or an advisor to solve all my problems!!! I wish to do everything of my own....

I respect my elders...regardless of the relationship, I pay respect in the same manner...

Basically, I am very jovial person by nature. I always try my level best to make people happy and impress them by small quotes. I always behave like that my presence and absence in any place should be felt at the people's heart.

I love this world, all people who adds flavours in the life. But I dont trust anyone fully...Because if I trust anyone more, I may get disappointed with that person in coarse of time. So, I trust people but not fully!!!

I help others if I can. I like the character "Karnan" in the epic Mahabharatha for his helping nature and he is one of my role model in my life for friendship, gratitudeness and helping tendency. I will try to do my best to others when they come to me. If I can't do anything, I will just say it to their face so that they can avoid any disappointments towards me!!

If I hurt people either by words or deeds, I ask sorry immediately without any hesitation. I strongly believe people who forgives others' mistakes are big hearted and people who apologise for their mistakes are good hearted...

I listen to people of all age groups if they say good things though they are younger to me. I dont neglect anyone!!!

I am a very devotional person.. I know many mantras and songs in praise of God but I am a lazy fellow in praying to God..! I just make prayers to God when others need my prayers...I prayed very few times for me because my family always pray for me!!! So I dont need to pray for myself again..!

My bad habits are...

I just say everything directly on face...I dont keep anything in my mind.

I do what I say and I say what I do...Sometimes, I dont listen to people to get their ideas about an issue. I do whatever I like to do...

I never give/have solid assurance about anything. Because this whole life itself happens in a probability and no one cannot predict how we will be in the next moment...I wont even say I am punctual, because there may happen a day when I cannot be punctual.

I dont like people talking at the back in my life. A person can even scold me in front of me and I wont get angry...But if any of my friends or known people talk bad about me at my back, I feel irritated...

I strongly hate suspicision. I dont like anyone suspecting me, because suspicision arises when we break a person's trust on us and I don't do any action in my life that will break the trust and confidence that my family kept on me...

I dont feel hesitation to ask help from anyone. I never care whether the person can really help me or not. I just ask without thinking that...I feel this is one of my bad habits...

I never judge people and I dont like anyone judging me. Because no one knows a person's strength or character at anytime!!