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Sexy Texts and Sexy Texting
Sexy Texts and "Sexting" has been around as long as cell phones. In reality sexting has been in existence since the first chat rooms began. Before the internet was created, sexy texts were in the form of "notes" on paper or cards...somehow sexy texts have always existed.

What Are Sexy Texts?
Sexy texts are messages or notes from one lover (admirer) to another. They can be graphic and sexual in nature. The only thing that has changed over the years is the terminology and the method of transferring a message from one person to another. Some may call them dirty talk others may refer to them as intimate letters.

The Purpose of Sexy Texts
As a whole, sexy texts, flirty texts, and dirty texts are sent as a means of sexual foreplay from one interested party to another. No matter what the actual words are, the intent is to show sexual interest in the receiver of the message. The more well versed a person is with crafting their "masterpiece" the better the anticipated response.

The Exchange
At first, sexy texts are a means to flirt with another person. The back and forth teasing builds over time and depending on the levels of attraction, can graduate to more graphic content rather quickly. When things go "right" an exchange ensues, usually of what the first person "is doing" virtually and then the second persons "virtual" response. Many times this exchange leads to physical arousal and even climax.

Sexy Text Opening Examples

 * Obviously you know I think you’re sexy…but do you know how much?
 * hope you’re rested, cause you’re gonna need every ounce of energy you can find tonight
 * I had so many dirty thoughts today…guess who inspired them all 😉 ?
 * Every time I close my eyes…I see you naked…just so ya know…I would like seeing you naked with my eyes open even more;)
 * Your wish is my command. How many wishes can you think of?

These are just some openers people use to tease the one they are pursuing.

What Type of People Send Sexy Texts?
Literally all types of people send one kind or another of sexy texts over their cell phones or by email. Professionals in the white collar fortune 500 arena have made news headlines with their sexting activities. Singles, married couples, engaged couples, and those who are just dating engage in sexy texting both as a release and as a form of "courting" their significant others. This is just one more type of communication the culture of today utilizes on a regular basis.

Infidelity
Although technically sexy texts are just words written from one person to another, many a couple have broken ties over sexts to another of the opposite sex outside of the relationship. Even without physical interaction this type of thing can and is most often considered "cheating". Most believe that sharing such intimate thoughts and desires with such extreme descriptions of wants and desires shared between two people breeches the relationship trust.

Conclusion
We live in a very virtual world. It seems as if everything around us is electronically based. The days of pen and paper are nearly gone, yet the notion of sending racy provocative sexually enticing "notes" is not a new practice in any way shape or form. Sexy Texting has always been around. I would suggest that the very first love note ever written, whenever and wherever that may have been, was in fact a primitive sexy text. From the beginning of time, men and women have pursued each other in as many ways as they could think of. Sexy Texts, sexts, or love notes or even dirty texts are all just ways of showing our interest in another. It's nothing new...and they will be around until the end of time for certain.