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Heteropessimism or Heterofatalism is a term coined by writer and academic Asa Seresin, that refers to the belief that heterosexual behaviours and relationships are inherently inferior and more problematic compared to non-heterosexual ones. This perspective is often associated with critiques against the patriarchy, heteronormativity, and other forms of discrimination and oppression that disproportionately affect LGBTQ+ individuals.

History
The term "heteropessimism" or "heterofatalism" was coined by writer and academic Asa Seresin in 2019, in her The New Inquiry essay On Heteropessimism. Seresin discusses performative acts by straight people to express embarrassment or guilt from past relationships, and blaming men and "straight culture" as the root of their interpersonal issues. While her essay focusses on disaffiliation of heretosexuality by women, Seresin also observes that married men and male incels also express heteropessimism, although these groups do not criticize current societal norms. Her final paragraphs highlight how positive and virtuous traits in heterosexual are silenced, and obscure ongoing chances in heterosexual relations.

On The Conversation, various academics give examples like female friendship and "sisterly love" followed by disappointment in a heterosexual relationship.

Societal impact
While decrying current heterosexual norms ("straight culture"), society has seen an increase or upkeep of "incels" and misogyny, domestic violence and loneliness. Some attribute these issues to a lack of action, and an increase in standards for romantic relationships.