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Removing the Stains on Us We Need To Forgive Those Who Hurt Us				Written By Animus We all can recall a problem that we usually do not like to share with other people, because it might be too painful to even talk about. The truth is as christens we don't have to be alone and try to work out all our problems by ourselves. God does not intend for us to live in isolation from him, that’s why we need help to stand. That is also why God gave us families, and Friends to help us to stand firm on our own two feet. Cause if we fall down there is always someone there to help us back up again. Even in dark times they are all ways there to help you with any problems. Bible verse Psalm 13 verse 3-5 says: Who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, which redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion, which satisfies your desires with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagles. Most of the times our problems in life sometimes can't be removed even though we have confessed them and asked forgiveness. These life problems we have our like stains in on our clothes, that won't come out. No matter how much you wash them they won't leave. Question to think about: We all know the feeling of when we get a stain on our clothes, and you think to yourself is this stain ever going to come off these clothes cause I need to wear them again tomorrow. It’s the same with the problems in our life. If we walked throw our problems instead of making them bigger then they need to be them we would have as many major stains on use. Quote that my friend said to me: “Forgiving the people that hurt us the most allows us to heal from the wounds they left."	God wants us to forgive those who have wronged us in the past; He also wants us to open up our hearts so that we can become better believers in Him. 	If we go around with pain in our hearts, that other people have left, we attend to walk around with grumpiness and loneliness it tends to make those around us grumpy as well. This is just a stage that most pre-teens/Teens, come to in life it is where they must decide rather or not that they should open up their hearts that have been filled with anger, hate, madness and etc. which had been built over the years. 	If pre-teens/Teens would move forward opening up their hearts, and actually talking about why they hurt so much and why they feel the need to be angry at everyone who hadn't done anything to them. Life for us would be lot better if we just talked to the four most people we trust and just tell them everything they would pretty much understand what you been through in life. Story: There was a time that I was like that, and it made me very angry against the whole world and other people I know and love with all my heart. The ones I hurt the most are the ones that truly cared and wanted the best for me. Grumpiness had gotten the upper hand in my life at the time, my family wanted me to stop, even my friends wanted me to stop, but none knew what was truly bothering me till It about May 1 that I actually started talking with my friend about it and when I started I found that I couldn't stop it poured out of me like water coming out of a faucet on a sink. My friend told me that if I just forgave those people I would feel a lot better on the inside as well on the inside. She was right I forgave those who have wronged me and I became new person with a new heart and it felt so nice, to be changed person. It works two ways you forgive those you gain new friends and a stronger friendship with your family as well. Plus you’re not filled with all those mixed feelings inside of you about the stains that have been on you. Bible verse Matthew 6 verse 14-15 says: For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men of their sin, your Father will not forgive your sins either. Our duty to God as christens is we should all be carrying for one another and be involved in each others lives; I'm not saying constantly but some of the time. All of this is a connectedness which means we should care enough about our neighbors to find out what burdens they carry, so that we might be able to help them in these hard times that are happening in their life. It’s a comfort to know that there is someone there that is carrying for us, and praying for us to heal. Just because of the mistakes that we made in our life over the years or the mistakes other people make we shouldn't judge them at all, because of what they had done before in the past. Cause maybe their having trouble about what to believe in or about what people think they know about the whole story that happened to us in the past.