User:Thecompletesavage

THE GUY BEST FRIEND: Male Perspective

1. I will say this once and I will say it again HE IS IN LOVE WITH U OR HE IS GAY.

He will always be there for you and we will always be the girls go to. Over time he may develop feelings for you but he may never tell u abt it maybe because he is scared too or because the girl has a boyfriend. But the thing is he can do things that you might not notice that he will show his attraction for you. He will do things like want to hang out with you a lot, text or snap you more often. He will ask you things like how are things going with ur bf because he wants to see if things are going bad so he can give you advice to fix them to seem like the nice guy or give you advice to drag u away from him because of the fact that he likes you. When he figures out problems that are happening he uses those and knows what not to do if he dated you and make it seem like he would be perfect for you. It is dangerous sometimes when he knows everything going on between you guys cause he just uses it to make him seem like the better guy. The guy gets jealous and worried a lot of the time because of this. They think you like him more because he been around for longer and you go to him for a lot of ur problems a lot of the time and talk to him a lot. These are the reasons the guy gets jealous and/or worried because it seems like your dating him too in a perspective because you treat them the same way. In order for the guy not to get jealous at all the girl needs to be very clear on what her intentions are with the bf and the guy best friend. If she does some things with the guy best friend that he doesn't comfortable with then change some things cause hes you bf and hes the one you want to be with so you should make him happy too cause he wont do these things cause he always wants to make you happy. Listen to the guy and treat him like you would pick him over the guy best friend anytime he wants to feel like the best guy in your life that you have. Hang out with the bf more, talk or snap him more, tell him how you feel abt the bf and how you feel abt the guy best friend cause if knows how you feel abt him then would stop having to worry cause he knows ur intentions. After that he will have nothing to worry abt cause he will feel like hes on top. NOW, if he is gay. If he is gay then he will talk to you a lot be your guy best friend bla bla bla and the guy has nothing to worry abt here cause he knows that guy will never go for her. If he brings up other girls the guy best friend and says how he wants to date them and stuff the bf has nothing to worry cause he aint going for their gf. But this is also a tactic to see if she cares what girl your with and its also a tactic for the man to show ur gf that he is so sweet because he says how feels abt that girl he likes. So most of the time theres no need to worry if he likes another girl but it still might be something to worry abt because he can be trying to show her how would he treat a girl and how he feels about relationships and make her thinks he more sweet then her bf when it comes to relationships. So be kind of cautious. Overall, the men in relationship were the girl has a guy best friend have to figure out what the intentions are between him and the gf and her and the guy best friends. Women please show a guy and tell your bf how you truly feel and treat him higher than your guy best friends cause he is the one you wanted to get into a relationship with so you need to make each other happy cause he already wants to do that cause your his world so do the exact same back. Also fact: 90% of the time the guy likes the girl way more in the relationship and more quickly than the girl does and thats why he always needs reassurance on what he means to you in your life. Ladys always treat the bf higher cause I will say it for the last time He is Gay or He is in Love with you.

Marco G