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= Transition of life from school to college =

Introduction
"Growing old is mandatory, Growing up is optional" said by Chili Davis. Human life is divided into various phases and each phase has its own unique learning gift to offer humanity. ‘School’ and ‘College’ are such some phases of human life. They might seem to be similar but are so different from each other that parallels can be drawn between the two. On one hand there is school life starting right after the birth and includes infancy followed by childhood, adolescence and adulthood. School life is basically a preparatory stage for entering public life. The foundation of a life starts with values transferred by the family followed by school. Virtues such as sincerity, truthfulness, tolerance, discipline and obedience are intended to develop in a student. School plays a very vital role in our lives as it provides framework for building as a person and also covers the two most building stages of life i.e. childhood and adolescence. From the very first day of school, we come to know the realities of the world and goes through various experience, and spending 15-16 years of our life it becomes our second home.While on the other hand stands the college. As life is unpredictable. It might be good, bad, weird or interesting, and such is a College life. It is a perfect blend of joy and hardships. And this golden period equips one mentally and physically for the future challenges. Most people consider moving to college as the biggest adaptation one have to make in its life. Not only because it is totally different from high school in relation to the homework and classes, but also in terms of life and environment. The most notable change one observes in college is that they are required to be more responsible for their own education. Teachers although care about their students, but are less strict and less willing to chase their students around for assignments. The main lesson one can learn from this stage is managing the independence.

== Concept of transition in life == Transition means a period of changing from one state to another condition. Transition of school to college plays a crucial role in many individual life. These transition brings the positive as well as negative change but with this changes it brings the ideology of understanding the concept. It also enables the power of decision making in individual, while in school we rely on our parents for small decision whereas in college decision making power remains to yourself due lack of time available to make the decision.

Peer pressure and competition
Pressure among students can be seen at different stages and how the peer pressure and competition affect the students. In school, kids use to compete with each other and always in the race of completing first from the other but in college it bring the concept of group work and working in groups brings new ideas and can explore the innovation. The style of competition among each other in school and college is one of the example of transition. In school there were supposed to be high peer pressure among the individual to compete with each other while in college it brings the cautiousness to complete the task on time. In India there high ratio of peer pressure and competition due to which students commit suicide.

Emotional management
Emotional management is one of the good example of transition. Students goes through many emotion in life. The control over emotion moves with time. In school we used to live with our parents and share all the information with them while in college due to studies we live away with the parents and the bond between parents and child get vain. Even many more things get changed in college, bringing relationship in college may enable to multi task but control over emotion plays crucial part. Happiness and anger are not the emotion you manage but even you start managing the emotion of other also. These transition helps an individual to control over emotion and enable him to show his best in his worst situation.

Time Management
Time management is essential for students to do the examination with focus.Time management is vital for students to get high marks. Student's achievement in contemplates depends much on overseeing time proficiently. The propensities and ethics they gain amid schools time and home will stay with them all through future.Time management shapes the student's psyche into the heading of train and feeling of obligation. Train is critical particularly in school life to end up better students. Time management is an aptitude that empowers students to utilize their time gainfully and effectively.Time management isn't instructed as a scholarly subject in schools. Students need to use their 24 hours to wind up best students and specialists in the subject. The focal point of learning time management aptitudes is simply to build up the propensities for investing energy astutely. in exams, students need to finish the given question paper. In exams the time is constrained. Inside that time they need to demonstrate what they realized in the entire year. A few students have incredible learning and know nearly everything about the subject yet they neglected to endeavor the inquiry paper in 2-3 hours settled time. That is the reason overseeing time for all inquiries is extremely essential. Today student's time is devoured by different things. For example, overwhelming heap of homework, family get together, devices, Internet, recreations and TV. Everything looks fascinating and vital when we're students. Be that as it may, when the exam comes students and guardians begin getting pressure. Rivalry to get more marks expands worry in students and guardians. In any case, a few students are as yet upbeat and sure to perform best and guardians don't feel any pressure. That is the way great propensities assume their part. By and large, it's tied in with having great time management abilities that different the great students from normal ones.As a rule, a student's time allotment is prefixed by the school and colleges according to their calendar and timetable. There is the settled time for each class, lunch and for physical exercises. Instructors and experts endeavor to ensure that students remain concentrated on the main jobs.

Usages of finances in school
In school life, finances were not the major issues. Because of allowances from parents, there were no major issues regarding to finances. In school money were spent either on stationary or on giving small treat to their friends. In school the expenditure of books and tuition fees were not so high. Birthday parties were given in canteen of school, where food cost is low or else to the restaurant which is backed up by parents.So these expenditures used to come under the pocket money or the allowances parents used to gave.

Usages of finances in University or in College
As you move into University, away from hometown, you get the responsibility of managing finances. Even though you are economically supported by your parents, there are the highest chances that you run short for money. Students drown into this issue throughout their University life. High accommodation cost in paying guest or hostel where there are chances that they exclude food facilities to the students living there. So the majority of allowances given by our parents are spent on food. The treats and parties given to friends are increased and so does the cost of treats and parties given. If your accommodation place is far from the campus then it also includes daily transportation costs, fares if you use public transportation and fuel prices if you use private transportation. Basic necessities like providing laptop, purchasing of textbooks, references books, notes and other stationary costs are also increased as you entered into University.

How Students manage finances in University
University life teaches us how to manage money. Rough budget on where our money are going to be spend and where can the money be saved are jotted down. Also we can learn to differentiate between our needs and wants which are useful to save extra money. Also we can watch our expenditure by daily checking our bank accounts if we use ATM cards or plastic money. Also  we limit the usage of plastic money and we don’t over use it.

Behavior and Psychology in School and preschool
School students are naive and immature and because of their naivety they are free minded. Though they are free minded they lack open mind. Their perceptions for things are narrow and follow the things people used to say. The biggest achievement is when their parents used to drop off and pick up them in school. Marks and competitions are the last things they used to think. For them their biggest priorities are to play in break time and creating big circle of friends to play. Because of these priorities there was no partiality of treatment to batch mates. In school it seems their was no ego among the students and also there was no discrimination or jealousy regarding to the brands of clothes they wore because of uniforms they compulsorily have to wear but having inferiority of having fancy compass box or different brands of pencil they use.

Behavior and Psychology in Universities
But as the boards came nearer, the close bottle of competition and marks suddenly opens up. Rock of maturity becomes solid and unbreakable. Scoring better than others became the priority, leaving friendship of many years just because of competition. The first step of entering into professional life starts when you enter in University. University makes student more of robot then a human. Starting from taking decisions to maintain a cool person facade was important. Your vision of thoughts become clearer than what it was in school. You perceive things about your surroundings differently from what you perceived in school. University tests our strengths, weakness and our patience. They also help to discover our strengths, make your weakness hidden, and make you aware of your threats. Your heart becomes a caged bird under the supervision of brain. You study for good earning jobs and you forget what your hearts want. You like to behave rationally rather than what your heart says. You start to believe in brands of clothes, accessories and play the game of show-off. Therefore by entering into university you enter into real world.