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UNSEEN CHILD ABUSES
Child abuse is present nowadays all around the world. It is any mistreatment done by relatives or someone else unto a child. It happens within a family and the parents may do it deliberately or not unto their children. Abuses can be set in two groups: active abuses and passive abuses which we may see or not evidently. This work will present mostly the unseen abuses made by the parents unwillingly or willingly toward their children. Passive abuses are not perceived evidently by everyone but they are especially more damaging and difficult to heal in the children as they grow up than active abuses do. We tend to recognize easily active abuses. But some of our ways of parenting are already active abuses to our children. The parents may not be aware that they actually abuse their children. The children may only discover later in their life or never that they were abused by their parents during their childhood. Some of the parental acts at home can already be a child abuse even if the parents think it as normal and that they have never thought it as an abuse. A neglect of the crying baby or feeding him/her on time is already a veiled abuse. This work too tends to help any child victim for passive abuse to know basically what to do. In this part we will present practical solutions for the abused child or for potential abused child for their protection. Any abuses toward anybody will have an impact on his/her entire life. It may even destroy his/her entire life if it does not receive any recovery or stopped. Abuses cause shame, fear, guilt and resentment which will cause addictions in life. Recovering from any abuses is a very long process especially if it is due to a passive abuse. Through statistics it is found that men are the most abusers. In addition to that child abuse is done by a person known by the child or even by relatives, best friends.