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11:44, 26 February 2014 (UTC)11:44, 26 February 2014 (UTC)Bold textVENGAI SPEAKS ON MARRIAGE <VENGAI POSANI MUSESENGWA SPEAKS ON MARRIAGEBold text vengai posani musesengwa was born in highfield clinic in 1974.highfield is the second oldest township in harare after mbare which was established in 1907. highfield was established in 1930 new highfields  in 1956 for black settlement by the colonial white settler gvt ,during that time black people who even if they afforded could not buy properties outside afican designated ereas naturaly settled there, since independence in 1980 most of the successful residents have moved elsewhere and establish there bussiness rather than to stay or invest in highfield, Vengai is one of the  successful residents who choose to move out of highfield. Vengai did not inherit any cent from any one.,he grew up in a poor background and stuggled to make ends meet.today vengai is a successful interprnuer.In this bright future vengai cannot forget his miserable past.

how many wives and children does vengai have?

how much is vengai posani musesesngwa valued at?

what level of education has he attained?

what position does he held.

VENGAI SPEAKS ON MARRIAGE vengai....a husband expects wifes support and understanding especially in times of trouble ;that is a good wife love the hubby through his success and failures and provides reassuarance when his feeling down and dont criticise or belittle him especially in front of others. she must be a nurturer and an equal partner in the marriage.She must support his husband in all stages of his carrier and life ,do not resort to name calling;hitting, spitting,breaking dishes or anything else when she she looses her temper this will only make man fallen out of love and do not have the same feeling you have for the spouse anymore. men are no women and women not men.things that women should do ;do not apply to men and things men do not apply apply women double standards exist;thats life.you are the leader she is the follower lead her.,if she is the nigger before the marriage its a sign give her walking papers,nothing is going to get better with marriage it will only amplify.women are not men and should not be held in double standardsof men; A man who changes his views on the the whims of a woman is sissy a women who changes her views on the whim of men is a women who is in love.she must look up to you.and respect you.\

question...

vengai what can you tell us about marriage?Vengai....the only reason to get married is to have a family. they is no denying that marriage is a bad deal .when you get marriade you immediatly give your wife all powers to your money and children.\

question... Vengai can you tell us about divorce?

Vengai..divorce really means his fault devorce ...its redistribution of wealth from men to women.she can live of your paycheck via alimony and  child support .she has the complex and full support of papas gvt behind her.in the eyes of the law she can do right and i can do no right and they is nothing tou you can do about aany of that.Thats why you have to choose the right wife in the first place to eliminate much of that risk..you need to maximise ahappy life and minimise the chance of divorce.

\Question ....vengai how can you maximise ahappy life and minimise the chance of divorce?\

you must know how to swim before you dive head in first.The right wife must not believe in divorce .If she says divorce is an option then she is not a kepper throw her back in water.and go fishing some more they are some millions of woman who are possible marriage material.TO make a marriage work both the men and wife must thing of divorce as no option at all.

Question ..vengai can you tell us about women who have children from previous affair/?

Vengai..... well on my personal point of view a right wife must not have any children from previous affair.in animal kingdom when alion takes over a pride he kills the cubs of the lioin.Raising someone else child is curcoldry with full knowledge and consent if you raise someone else child you will be taking care of another mans seedling and they will always be another man in picture. be selfish and keep your wife and children to your self they should be yours and only yours..dont settle for another mans leaving marutsi and sloppy second.

Qustion ....vengai can you try to be more specific..\

Vengai here is what women with children do...they have unprotective sex with a stud,get knocked up and look for asucker to raise the bustererd she is already been married,had children and then divorced the father and left besides hiv....in each case the woman is unfit for marriage moreover you can not turn a whore into a house wife the more sexual partners she have had the more likely the marriage will end in dirvorce in about six years time and loose most of your possetions, money and children. if you think she needs help or that you are helping her and she is changing then you are being fooled nad you are being played its going to end badly for you...when you get hitched to a woman like this.always pick a girl that means a virgin or close, family oriented pleasant eager to help and you should be atracted to her and she must have a pretty face

question.... vengai what exctly do you mean by that//?

vengai....when her body goes down with age the only thing that is left is her face you will have to see it every single day. she must be image conscious she must be aware of her image and keep her body in trim foor you never go down or up in weight infact when the ring si on her finger  and the vows are spoken she blows up like a baloon. women will always gain a few mkilo9s after marriage but they is a difference between a few kilos and 10 kilos. women who get pig fgat after marriage is aq disgrace to her self and her family.

question.... vengai what can you say about women who works or women who are carrier oriented?

vengai.... honestly i thing no woman wants yo work but it takes some of them time to figure that out. working is a mans world and always would be. a womens work should be in home taking care of the home and children. a marriade women whoi work do so because they have no choice and they whine about it every day of their life a women should be family oriented not carrier oriented.a true household leader  does not need two incomes he can provide,what he needs is a kepper of home andand heart.

quetion //? can you be more specific veeengai

vengai ...two house hold incomes leave the raising of their children to expensive day cares and schools  and mommy goes to work  so they can afford to pay for day nbcares  and baby sitters..

question...vengai can you tell us about the right age to get married ?

vengai...man age gracefully like wine. women age like milk. best age fir man to get married is is after 30 yrs of age, now any time between 30 to 45 yrs is a good time to tie the note.. i fall in that region.thats when man marriage is at its highest value.

vengai what is the right age for you to marry.

vengai... the women should be 30 yrs of age maximum..25 yrs is even better ,, 20yrs is even best  age  thats when women have a tight young firm body. after 30 yrs it goes downhillfast at around the age of 31 a womens body declines fast its a trade off. she lives you her good years and she put up with her in her bad years never take a women in her bad years that is above 30yres because they have waswted thier all their prtetty yrs have alot of random sex and now they want to find a sucker who will take care of them without having to give him any of their good years dont be that sucker. a young body is especially important for bearing children. Old woman can not have aand dont have healthy children.so a dump 20 yrs old is a dump 30 yrs old. the difference is that the 30 yr old dump wwomen is a lot more better and has a whole less to offer