User:Walid16dz/The stages of love

In order to know what successful relationships are, let's start the topic from the beginning.

1- The First Stage: Dazzling :
At this stage, the story is at its beginning ... Cupid's arrow soon implanted between two  innocent hearts ...

This stage is characterized by:
You see the person you love as if he is (perfect) and there is no shortage in him .. cute and light shade and you be happy and you are with him .. you feel that he is different from everyone you have met in your life .. in short: you will feel that he is (perfect)

This stage is the one that produced all the love poems and songs in human history .. and it is the only stage that the media and romantic drama focus on .. because - as we all know - the most wonderful thing in human relations.

Very important thing:
- Beware of all caution about the decision of engagement or marriage at this stage.

2- The second stage: discovery:
It is a stage when they get to know each other.

Over time, you will discover that this person you love is not perfect as you thought ... There are flaws here and there, and things you did not know ... and things that really bother you!

is this normal ?
The answer: completely normal .. and when you find that this is happening in your serious relationship, know that you are on the right path ..

At this stage, the fake image that you saw in the first stage (fascination / Dazzling ) disappears .. You will see the person as they are, and at this time you can decide ..

3- The third stage: the stage of coexistence:
At this stage, the two parties reach a full knowledge of each other's faults .. They know what the defects are and adapt to them and can deal with them ..

This stage is the most difficult stage in relations ... because it includes your means of resolving the disputes that - inevitably - arise between you ... and how each of you deals with each other's faults ..

This stage, if successfully passed by both parties, means the maximum level of love that the relationship can reach.

Do you know why ?
Love is in the stage of ( fascination / Dazzling ) is natural, because you do not see flaws .. But when you reach the stage of coexistence, this means that you knew a person and realized his faults, and you insisted on living with him despite everything ..

This is love
A successful relationship is one that maintains its balance in all of these stages.

After we reach the stage of coexistence .. It is okay to use the phase of ( fascination / Dazzling ) from time to time .. We visit the same places where we were at the beginning of our acquaintance .. A gentle word .. A gentle touch .. A simple gift ..

This is the ideal relationship ... and it is not just the ( fascination / Dazzling ) stage as the drama delivers in TV.

Millions of people fall into this trap .. When they find that their relationship has finally matured and moved to the next stage, they consider this a failure because their feelings have changed without understanding the reason ..

And that spoils a great relationship.

** This article is a gift for Gabriela ♥ from Peru **