User talk:41.142.23.228

December 2023
Hello, I'm Chaotic Enby. I wanted to let you know that one or more of your recent contributions&#32;to Gurdev Singh Gill (physician) have been undone because they did not appear constructive. If you would like to experiment, please use the sandbox. If you have any questions, you can ask for assistance at the Teahouse or the Help desk. Thanks. Chaotıċ Enby  (t · c) 21:30, 29 December 2023 (UTC)

Please refrain from making unconstructive edits to Wikipedia, as you did at Gurdev Singh Gill (physician). Your edits appear to constitute vandalism and have been reverted. If you would like to experiment, please use the sandbox. Repeated vandalism may result in the loss of editing privileges. Thank you. Chaotıċ Enby  (t · c) 21:38, 29 December 2023 (UTC)


 * Did you see my edit summary? I asked if you know how to find people in the queer community who care a lot for others and aren't explicitly trying to prioritize just themselves more, because having a satisfying social life is what will get me to stop vandalizing. 41.142.23.228 (talk) 21:39, 29 December 2023 (UTC)
 * I can't help too much about this, I'm sorry. There are other websites or forums or queer associations you can look at, Wikipedia isn't really your best bet for this. Chaotıċ Enby   (t · c) 21:42, 29 December 2023 (UTC)
 * It's not that I don't want to help you, it's just that it's hard to answer something that broadly. Self-care is important, and socializing with others is too. I suggest talking to a queer-friendly therapist would be a good first step for this. Chaotıċ Enby   (t · c) 21:44, 29 December 2023 (UTC)
 * I've just already tried in my local community and people keep rejecting or blocking me no matter how hard I work on changing the boundary issue that come with my form of neurodivergence, and another thing that comes with my neurodivergence is the strong urge to do destructive stuff when my life is not going well, hence all the vandalism. 41.142.23.228 (talk) 21:44, 29 December 2023 (UTC)
 * I understand that it can be difficult. I'm genuinely sorry for what is happening. Are there associations inclusive of neurodivergent people, or maybe therapists that could help understand what's happening? I understand that it can be hard to deal with these destructive impulses. Your original message talked about sexual trauma, although I'm not sure if I understood it well and which part was about you/your friend. Unfortunately, I'm not myself qualified for therapy, so I can't be the best help, but there are more qualified people out there specialized in helping neurodivergent folks. Chaotıċ Enby   (t · c) 21:49, 29 December 2023 (UTC)
 * Someone is working on referring me to therapy, think I am going to get help, and the person it happened with had a history of trauma and being raised with sexist ideas that made her feel obligated to do what it turned out neither of us wanted. I have basically made things right with her and we talk again which makes me less inclined to want to express hate against everyone but my best friend of 4 years, who I said stuff to in the hours following the incident about wanting to kill myself or random strangers that I didn't mean, hasn't talked to me since sending one long message the next day, over two months, and still hasn't when I sent her a Christmas gift that arrived on Tuesday this week. 160.176.129.59 (talk) 21:55, 29 December 2023 (UTC)

Please stop. If you continue to add commentary to articles, as you did at Gurdev Singh Gill (physician), you may be blocked from editing. Chaotıċ Enby  (t · c) 21:41, 29 December 2023 (UTC)

 Anonymous users from this IP address have been blocked from editing for a period of 31 hours for persistently making disruptive edits. If you think there are good reasons for being unblocked, please review Wikipedia's guide to appealing blocks, then add the following text to the bottom of your talk page:. Euryalus (talk) 22:14, 29 December 2023 (UTC)
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