User talk:Amity Uche

NOTHING IS WORST —Preceding unsigned comment added by 78.138.30.218 (talk) 15:21, 16 December 2009 (UTC) I have heard and seen many people complained of their experiences: some social, emotional, professional, economical/financial experience etc. I came across a young lady who told a story of her life how she felt so lonely and needed a man whom she could at least take as loving friend/partner having stayed for many years without a man and undefiled. Unfortunately, she did not know that she fell on the wrong young lover who broke her virginity and also made away with the huge amount of money the young lady entrusted in his hands with the hope that she had found a real lover. I also know of a young lady who lost her father immediately she graduated from Primary school and her mother immediately after her secondary school. An old woman in my compound in the village had children but all of them died and now childless. A man I heard lodged millions of his money in the bank, immediately after that the bank was closed down. A man was traveling with his family and on the way they had an accident and all of them in car died. And many more awful stories.

The question is: Can any of these and many more be the worst that can happen to somebody? Well, with my life experience I have concluded in life that anything that I cannot control; I take it as part of life and trust in God for grace to overcome.

To anybody who must have gone or is going through any unexpected hurdles of life see it an opportunity to make a difference. The worst has not happened to you. I will say the worst is when you quit and allow the situation to control your life and ruin your destiny.