User talk:Anup Kumar fuis

From feminist angle, intimate terrorism is a new developed social behavior of empowered women. For men at large it is intimate terrorism; for women at large, it is a weapon to tackle men’s atrocity and taking them on toes & bending them on knees. Top & powerful feminists simply give their verdict that “now it is man‘s turn to suffer.” Punishing the entire “He figure” of the society in revenge cannot create a path of women empowerment. “He” cannot be separated from “she” and “she” cannot be empowered just by following the philosophy of intimate terrorism. The word and an act which surrounds intimate terrorism has become a part of well educated and financially strong society. Some of incidents of intimate terrorism might be taking place in between less earning husband and wife but they don’t lack education and awareness, wife finds herself equipped with strong laws that can ruin the lives of husband and in laws and husband fears for the same. Husband is being terrorized by wife and a segment of people getting a kind sadistic pleasure out of it and name it women empowerment. And this way our esteemed society is heading towards progress. Feminists have made wife – husband relationship a zero tolerance zone and with all the vengeance injected an injection of intimate terrorism in the veins of wives. Can any husband under the sun touch his wife if she turns back in rejection on bed? Can any husband request his wife to make food for him if wife says she has taken disprin ? Can any husband favor his mother if it goes against the wish and will of his wife? You can count hundreds of points where husband remains on back foot and bound to face intimate terrorism that ultimately breaks the family and make no one happy. A family cannot be a no tolerance zone and cannot be strengthened with fear of laws. Feminist’s laws have made family a place of committing crimes and getting punishment and its resultant force have come up in the shape of intimate terrorism. No matter how much healthy & prosperous relationship you carry with your wife, fear of feminist laws exist in between your relationship, and if you are a husband ,either you are facing intimate terrorism or be ready to face it. Married men may not facing criminal charges but surely they are living with the threat of family laws. He just keep his mouth shut because some one old person or relative should not suffer. Gender biased laws like 498a; Domestic Violence Act and Sexual harassment at workplace are changing this society in a wrong direction. The youth of the nation are being terrorized. They often hear about false cases in their neighbor, families, friend, friends of friend. Law against dowry and domestic violence had come up to eradicate the curse within the society but its implementation and procedure has been making families and society more cursed making youngsters confused and terrified. What if, he faces such false harassment cases in future? What if, after 10 years, she files such complaints? Would if, she would not ready to live with my parents? Would such problem be resolved within family? Such questions come up into the minds of youngsters and they are heading towards live-in relationship. Gay, lesbian and other forms of relationship are also the resultant force of dreaded family laws. Such activities and incidents are not good for social health. Jail to his family members and to him result in mental trauma and again a social curse. Just think that an innocent family is going to jail and they would be proving their innocence after being behind bars. Would it making our society healthy? Can`t two cases of female harassment in families be different? Should not it come up in family court instead of criminal court? Bail process is pathetic. He and his alleged members of his family would be treated like criminals, worst than terrorist. We need to accept the truth that a female is now smoking, drinking, practicing illicit relationship, adultery, drugs, scams, telling lie more convincingly than any other men. Actually female has got power of law which can be easily misused. These laws are of instigating nature. Women can walk freely even after proving wrong in filing cases against her husband and his families. Suppose a wife files a case against her husband and his family members in just impulse and realizes that she has done wrong but these laws never gives a way to roll back. People of this decade are forced to live within harmful, deterrent and terrorizing law and finding no solution from any corner of the society or law. Society is breathing an intimate terror.