User talk:Ashshels

Perverted or innocent?
There’s an older man who’s a close family friend, my parents, siblings and friends all know and love him. He’s honestly a great guy. He’s generous, caring and genuinely interested in others and fun to be around. But around a month and a half ago he sent me a message admitting to having romantic feelings for me. He’s 47, and I’m only 17.. I told him I didn’t know what to say, and I’m sure it’s clear to him that the feelings aren’t mutual. But we still see each other at least three times a week, and he continues to take us kids out for fun or to hang out with our dad and I can’t help wondering if he’s been doing all of this to get close to me?ill even post a selfie on social media and he’ll send me a private message about how “beautiful” or “smokin” I look.. I haven’t told ANYONE about his feelings for me and I don’t think I will because everyone loves him and I don’t want their opinions of him, or their close relationship with him to change. Should I tell anyone? Should I limit the amount of time we see each other? He hasn’t made any inappropriate advances, but are his feelings for me and attraction towards me perverted or pedophilic in any way? Ashshels (talk) 07:16, 8 December 2017 (UTC)