User talk:Bcatcool

I WAS RECENTLY IN A DISCUSSION ABOUT WHEN A BOY/GIRL FRIEND CHEATS ON YOU. WHAT DEFINES CHEATING? AT WHAT STAGE WOULD YOU SAY THE CHEATING ACTUALLY STARTED. EXAMPLE:

YOUR IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS ROCKY AND YOU NOTICE CHANGES. THE RELATIONSHIP TOOK A TURN FOR THE WORST DUE TO OTHER FAMILY ISSUES THAT EFFECTED THE BOND THEY HAD. SHE BEGINS TO NOTICE THAT HE LEAVES FOR WORK 3 HOURS EARLY AND RETURNS 2.3 -3 HOURS AFTER CLOSING. HE OWNS THE BUSINESS AND NEVER DID THIS BEFORE. YOU BOTH FEEL A DISTANCE GROWING BETWEEN THEM AND COMMUNICATION IS NOT GREAT. HE STARTED TO CRITISIZE HER MORE AND MORE ABOUT VERY SMALL THINGS. THE GIRL DECIDES THAT IT MAY BE BEST IF SHE MOVES OUT, SO THEY BOTH CAN HAVE SOME SPACE AND FIGURE OUT WHAT THEY NEED TO DO TO REBUILD THEIR RELATIONSHIP. WHEN SHE WANTED TO TALK WITH HIM AND START DOING THINGS TOGETHE AGAIN. HIE S RESPONSE WAS A BIG SURPRISE HE STATES THAT HE WANTS NO RELATIONSHIPS OR COMMITMENTS AT ALL RIGHT KNOW. HE NEEDS SPACE HE JUST WANTS TO DATE OTHER WOMAN AND THATS IT, BUT HE TELLS HER THAT HE STILL LOVES HER. BUT 2 WEEKS AFTER THE BREAKUP THE GIRL CALLS AND HE IS NOT NICE AND TELLS HER THAT HE IS IN A COMMITED RELATIONSHIP. THE WOMAN WAS SOMEONE HE MEET AT WORK. THIS IS WHAT HE SAID TO HER; BUT CLAIMED HE NEVER CHEATED ON HER. WHEN THEY FIRST MET AN ATTRACTION STARTED AND AN INTEREST STARTED TO BUILD BETWEEN HIM AND THIS WOMAN. HE WAITS FOR HER TO COME IN AGAIN. AND STATED TO THE GIRLFRIEND THAT SHE HASN'T BEEN IN FOR MONTHS. GIRLFRIEND WONDERS HOW WOULD HE KNOW THAT BECAUSE HE IS NOT THERE ALL DAY. THE GIRLFRIEND IS HEARTBROKEN AND IS PUZZELED BY HIS STATEMENTS. SHE WONDERS HOW LONG HAS HE BEEN TALKING WITH HER OR HAS HE BEEN SEEING HER AND THIS WAS THE PLAN. THE RELATIONSHIP WAS GOING TO END IT DEFINITELY WAS HAPPENING WHEN THEY WERE STILL LIVING TOGETHER AND BEING INTIMITE. SO WHAT DO LYOU THINK?