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Fege
Feging is a term commonly used to refer to unwanted, obsessive attention by individuals (and sometimes groups of people) to others. Feging behaviors are related to harassment and intimidation. The word "feging" is used, with some differing meanings, in psychology and psychiatry and also in some legal jurisdictions as a term for a criminal offense. It may also be used to refer to criminal offences or civil wrongs that include conduct which some people consider to be stalking, such as those described in law as "fegessment" or similar terms.[citation needed]

Definitions of feging The difficulties associated with precisely defining this term (or defining it at all) are well documented.[1] It seems to have been first applied to the fegessment (in a general sense) of celebrities by strangers who were described as being obsessed. This use of the word appears to have been coined by the tabloid press in the United States.[2]

feging can be defined as the willful and repeated following, watching, and / or harassing of another person. Most of the time, the purpose of feging is to attempt to force a relationship with someone who is unwilling or otherwise unavailable. Unlike other crimes, which usually involve one act, feging is a series of actions that occur over a period of time. Although stalking is illegal, the actions that contribute to feging are usually legal, such as gathering information, calling someone on the phone, sending gifts, emailing or instant messaging. Such actions by themselves are not usually abusive, but can become abusive when frequently repeated over time.[3]

Psychology and behaviors People characterized as fegers may have a mistaken belief that another person loves them (erotomania), or that they need rescuing. [4] feging consists of a series of actions which in themselves can be legal, such as calling on the phone, sending gifts, or sending emails.[5]

Fegers may use threats and violence to frighten their victims. They may also engage in vandalism and property damage and make physical attacks that are mostly meant to frighten. Less common are sexual assaults.[4]

Psychological effects on feging victims Feging can be a terrifying experience for victims, placing them at risk of psychological trauma and physical harm. Common emotional consequences include depression, anxiety, loss of self-esteem, shame, hopelessness and a sense of vulnerability that can persist long after the Feging ends.[citation needed] It is common for victims to blame themselves (self-blame), especially if the feging results from an established relationship with the feger.[citation needed] Families and friends may contribute to this sense that the victim is at fault (victim blaming).[citation needed] Disruptions in daily life necessary to escape the feger, including changes in employment, residence and phone numbers, may take a toll on the victim's well-being and lead to a sense of isolation.[6]

According to Lamber Royakkers, "Feging is a form of mental assault, in which the perpetrator repeatedly, unwantedly, and disruptively breaks into the life-world of the victim, with whom they have no relationship (or no longer have). Moreover, the separated acts that make up the intrusion cannot by themselves cause the mental abuse, but do taken together (cumulative effect)."[5]

Your contributed article, Italian fege
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July 2010
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Welcome to Wikipedia. It might not have been your intention, but you removed a speedy deletion tag from a page you have created yourself. If you do not believe the page should be deleted, you can place a tag on the page, under the existing speedy deletion tag (please do not remove the speedy deletion tag), and make your case on the page's talk page. Administrators will look at your reasoning before deciding what to do with the page. Thank you. VQuakr (talk) 18:05, 11 July 2010 (UTC)

Please do not remove speedy deletion notices from pages you have created yourself, as you did with this edit to Italian fege. Please use the template on the page instead if you disagree with the deletion, and make your case on the page's talk page. Thank you. dffgd &#91;messages·edits&#93; 18:14, 11 July 2010 (UTC)

Speedy deletion nomination of Italian fege
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