User talk:Charlie14Zaza

I think the problem with verifying citations is due to the fact that Dr. Glasser was a casual individual who frequently would explain his philosophy in a comfortable manner. He would sit down in a chair on stage in a hall with his legs crossed. He treated everyone the same. He treated patient, clients, colleagues and staff as if they were on the same level with him. When I saw him lecture, which was several times, I felt as though he could be sitting down in my living room with me. His comfortableness was thus transferred to the individual he was talking to. The last time I heard him speak was at the University of Akron in November of 2003. I have my notes from his "lecture" at that time. He would frequently prescribe "doing behaviors" for his clients (patients) because by doing something,one feels better. For example,if one dwells on their problems, they continue to feel miserable and do not get well. If a patient came in and was depressed, he would prescribe a simple task of having a a time every day so the client could depress. This time was of their own choosing. He would ask the client to pinpoint a time that they wanted to depress. The time that they "chose" was the essence of Choice Theory. Let's say they committed to 4:00 p.m. time, everyday, to depress. He would remind them several times in the interview of the 4 o'clock "choice" they made. Most of the time the patient would come back to their next session failing to complete their homework because "it was boring" or "not any fun." They chose, instead, a healthier path. Reality Therapy is client-driven. In the last lecture I attended, he stated that "our behavior is made up of four separate but inseparate parts. The car was the motor of our basic needs. Thus, four wheels drive the car; front wheels steer the car - one front wheel is thinking; one is acting. Every behavior has a feeling component (a rear wheel, if you will) - this tells you how well you are doing." He made the therapy sound simple. However, it was very difficult to put into practice unless you were trained by the Institute. I became Reality Therapy Certified in 1984 in Hollywood, Florida at their yearly conference. Learning Reality Therapy is the best thing that ever happened to me.Charlie14Zaza (talk) 02:50, 12 June 2015 (UTC)

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