User talk:Debjani.m03

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Hello friends, I want to share an story with you all about my life or u can say a disgusting part of my life. So we all know that we girls r always tought that "You are a girl you have to learn everything. "Stop why are are climbing trees you should know that girls don't do this things" "You should learn how to talk, how to walk" etc..etc... But We girls can climb tress , we can walk like this , we can talk like this. we are girls not your puppets. one day me and my cousins are talking about something and suddenly she says that "girls can't do everything that a boy can do" and I was like "what" she said that "No matter how much the girl reads, but she cannot do everything and if a girl works till late night then she does not get respect" I was shocked. And then the day I was doing some work and my neighbour said that very good dear you are a girl and u should learn work because study does not matter because one you have to go to your in laws house. And I was like what stop it aunty because if i was a boy and doing this work then u would say nothing to me that you are a boy u should learn everything. And again one day I was going to market with my aunt and an old lady ask my aunt that who is she? and my aunt told her that she is my younger sister' s girl and the old lady ask my aunt that "do I have I a brother" and my aunt replied "no" and "she was like oh my god what are saying" that day I felt so sad. But I m little bit lucky because my mom and dad always support me they were like you are my girl. Girls can do anything and my dad always say that You just study. Focus on studies nothing else. They always supported me. I just want to say that we girls can do anything but boys can't do what a girl does In her every day life. They can't bleed like us they can't leave their parents and settle in others house, they can't understand what we feel. If the problem is at home then how will the world change its mind That is why you should first start from your home, then after that people will change their thinking. At last I just want to say that keep loving yourself girls you can achieve everything. Believe in your self and trust your parents they are the only person who will love you at your worst. Debjani.m03 (talk) 06:10, 14 March 2021 (UTC)