User talk:Dessydes/Sarging

Miscellaneous

 * Get some practice here
 * Palmistry - Women like stuff like this.
 * Cold reading - And this is the stuff WE actually use.
 * Openers - See also Pickup lines.
 * Approach Anxiety - How to cure it.
 * Conversation Starters
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 * Picking up in bars and clubs
 * Interview with seduction masters.

Player Terminology

 * Sarging - Going out to pickup women. Comes from Sargy, the name of one of Ross Jeffries's cats.
 * Neg - A backhanded compliment.
 * ASD - Anti-slut defense, term for the things women do to not come across as trollops.
 * DHV - Demonstrating higher value.
 * Kino
 * AFC - Average Frustrated Chump, also known as a backster.
 * PUA - Pickup artist.
 * AMOG - Alpha male of group.
 * Peacocking
 * More terminology

Renowned Players

 * Johnny Savior
 * John Alexander
 * satoshi Fujita - Expert on nanpa
 * Joseph Matthews/Thundercat
 * Shawn Rees
 * Casanova
 * Don Juan - Okay, he is fictional, but just go with it.
 * Udayama - An ancient Indian Emperor, had 16 000 shorties.
 * The Pharoah Sneferu - "Bring to me 20 women with beautiful limbs, deep breasts, braided hair, and whose bodies have not been streched in childbirth.Also, bring me 20 fishing nets and give the nets to the women after their clothes have been taken away from them."
 * List of commercial seduction teachers
 * Ross Jeffries
 * Style
 * SwingCat
 * Mystery
 * Major
 * David Shade Shade
 * "The Player" (seduction community)
 * C R James
 * Carlos Xuma - Creator of R.E.A.L. game.
 * Wayne Elise/Juggler

The Annihilation Method
The annihilation method is one of the treasures of the seduction community. Only 375 guys were chosen to be taught this method (they had to pay up), and the final five got a real treat, ALL Neil's secrets were revealed. I somehow manged to find links to what went on during the last days.


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The Final Five

 * Wiseguy
 * Rourke
 * Outback
 * Zone
 * Indiana

Recommended reading by Style

 * Influence: The Art of Persuasion by Robert Cialdini

This is THE classic book on persuasion. And though it focuses on the advertising and consumer worlds, the basic principles it sets forth are the cornerstone of highly successful interactions. This is where the PUAs got key concepts like Social Proof from.


 * The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene

This is a great historical study affirming and elaborating on the main principles of courtship, attraction, and seduction. It's great for long-term sarges. Maddash, in The Game, ended up attracting and marrying a girl who he and his friends considered an "11" by using the principles in this book.


 * Mastering Your Hidden Self: A Guide to the Huna Way by Serge King

This is the book that helped most with my inner game. The lesson: "The world is what you think it is."


 * Introducing Neuro-Linguistic Programming: Psychological Skills for Understanding and Influencing People by Joseph O'Connor and John Seymour

Style also suggests watching "Walking with Cavemen". During the Stylelife challenge he recommended reading The Red Queen by Matt Ridley, from chapter five onwards, in order to understand the evolutionary nature of women.

Pickup Lines
These are external links to sites with pickup lines. I googled them because I couldn't find quality openers. These at least have one or two useful lines. Some are quite funny.


 * Funny pickup lines for various situations.
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 * These sites also have responses for women to use for pickup lines.
 * This site has comebacks for guys who've been rejected.
 * Geeky pickup lines.
 * Guide on how to use pickup lines successfully.
 * A collection of negs.

Other Pickup Lines
just had to touch them! Then she started screaming "My eyes!, My eyes!" and ruined the mood.
 * I couldn't help myself. They were so big and round and beautiful, I
 * This time next year we'll be laughing together - Japanese consider this to be most successful pickup line.