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UNTOLD LIFE STORY OF CHANDRA KUMAR DEY AND HIS SURVIVORS§ Chandra Kumars father Ramkumar Dey of Katthail (Raghabpur) left parents in 1895 and came to Aithor and settled permmnently with his fatherinlaw. Aithor was a village of rich cultivators. Aithor was in Mymensingh district; Netokona subdivision and Kendua thana. Nearest rail staion was Atherabari, 16miles away.It was on Mymensingh-Bhairabganja rail route.Only one bus made one trip from Kendua to Atherabari per day, that was only in dry days. Chandrakumar got Middle standard education in Bengali from Kendua H/school.He was very intelligent and had great interest in literature.He was fund of company of Kabals,Bowlls,Bhats,Folk singers and he never missed their functions. He was married to Kaminikusum, at the age of 16 to daughter of Sudhir, village Sajiwoora. At the age of 17yrs he was sent to Kendua to work with a grossery store which he disliked. Later Mahim Sen, Talukdar of Aithor got him a job of Tax collector with Zamindar of Gouripur.In 1914 he got job of Messenger in Netrokona court.He got opportunity for travelling to distant remote places and came closer to many unknown Kabials           ;Bowls,Folk Singers, Bhats.He took advantages of their company. On his tours he spent nights with them and local people,heard stories,songs ,which were not available in books and with any literary society or associations mostly they were Legends, stories personal life which easily people did not like to disclose, At time he was driven forcibly from some villages Legends.that heard,  wote down immediately in his note book. This practice enabled him to collect old literary important articles of Eastern Bengal and Mymensigha Ballad, Which were Valueless and precious gift to Bengali literary society and he climbed to the peak of the literary society of Bengal.His publications were edited by Dr.Dinesh Sen. No other person attempted to bring this hidden Treasure of ballads of East Bengal to the outside world. He was issue less. He adapted ,Khagendra(Hiren) the younger son of his friend Surendra of Aithor performing all Hindu rituals. He renamed the boy as BINOY. He also adapted Jyotsna,the daughter of apoor widow. Chandra kumar never liked separation of his father from his parents. He marrried Binoy with Binapani(Bani),the only issue of Sachindra Sorcar of Aithor. Hemarried Jyotsna with Abani(Tunnya) of Aithor who was a clerk in Union Board of Ghurail.During to and fro journey to Calcutta he had to night stay at Mymensingh.Train was in the Next day.So he purchased a small house in Chakpra of Mymensingh.Maina Sen of Aithor,a lawyer was his neighbour. In those days division of country into Pakisthan(for Muslims) and india became politically hot. East Bengal would be East Pakisthan. Chandra kumar selected a house in Bhubaneswar for purchase. He left Aithor with wife on 15/8/1946 for Bhubaneswar. Stayed in his Mymensinha house on that day. In the night he felt chest pain. on the same night he expired due to heart attack(16/8/46). Maina sen sent messenger to Binoy immediately.Binoy reached in the afternoon and set fire to his father on the bank of river Bramhaputra near the railway bridge.A 6ft. high umbrella was constructed on the burning site(Samadhi).Because Chandra kumar always carried an umbrella wherever he went. At last on 14/8/1947 Pakisthan was formed.East bengal became East Pakisthan.Hindus did not prefer to live in East Pak. Binoy,my father, left Aithor on 14/7/1948 and came to Brajrajnagar(orissa).Got asylum from Late.Atul Ch.Deb,a contractor. Atul Deb was originally from village Danachakur where mothers Mamas lived.Binoy (my father) was peniless.All cash,ornaments,siezed and belongings files & dcoments and photos damaged and thrown into river Jamuna by Pakisthani securities at Shirajganja Steaer Ghat. Binoy got a job of Timekeeper in Rampur colliery there. Atul Deb financed him (nonreturnable)till he got salary.He faced acute hardship to maintain family.Mother started tution to earn. Grand mother Kusum left us on 28/12/53 and went to Jyotsna at Patna where she expired in 1958. Father visited Aithor with us once every two years up to 1962.He managed to bring manuscript of Gorakhyanath to Rampur. Father always motivated us to over come poverty by self effort to live a respectable life.We faced fully the evils and pains of poverty. After matric Pradip went to a cousin sister Chameli and stayed with her at Kalighat.Passed B.SC.(1962-Aug) from Ashutosh college.He did tution and part time job in a press at Hazra to meet his study expenses. Pradip got job in Bhilai Steel Plant on Dec 1962. After retirement he settled in Bhilai at Pragatinagar-Street3E. His son SKDey is in DGM post inBhilai Steel Plant. His daughter Mausumi is an Asst.Prof. in Govt.College, Balod(C.G.) After matric I (Dlip) went to Sambalpur and stayed with Late Narendra Roy, a friend of Atul Deb,(1961). Passed Pre.Professional exam from G.M.Collge. Passed BE(mech) from UCE,Burla(1968). Met my study expenses from Orissa Govt.loan stipend and Coal Mines Welfare Deptt.scholarship.Passed MTech in 1971 from MACT-Bhopal. Got employment in Bhilai Steel Pl. Mines Deptt.on 21/12/71. Posted in Iron Ore Complex at Dalli-Rajhara(Durg). Worked through different levels and retired as DGM I/C in 1Apr 2005. Settled in Ashishnagar (West) Of Risali, Bhilai.Dst. Durg.(C.G.) Parents were with me. Mother expired on24/6/1984 and father expired on 17/7/2000.Both expired in Rajhara. My  elder daughter ManikaDey(Sharm) M.S.(computer Tech) from Pilani, is in F grade in Institute for Plasma Research,Ahamedabad. Her husband Dr.Devendra Sharma is a Sciencetist there. They have settled in Ahamedabad near Vastrapur Lake. Younger daughter Bithika Dey(Das) is post graduate in Bio.Tech. and is a lecturer in Mahadevi Birla World Academy,Kolkata. Her husband Manas Das is a Project Engr. in CESC,(Calcutta Electric Co).They have settled in Behala of Kolkata. Manas Das is from Bhilai (HUDCO).His father S.Das was a D/Mgr in BHilai Steel Plant Manuscript of Gorakhsyanath is with me.Front cover partially damaged due to handling. Originality can be detected by testing its paper and ink (70 yrs old).I have decided to hand it over to some literary society of Kolkata or Bangladesh, if come forward with authentic identity and officially acknowledge the reciept Presently staying alone in Bhilai with wife Nilima.I am at age of 69yr.at.time of need nephew  Subid and his wife Dr Meeta do needful and they are very concious about≈ us. NAMASKAR. Dilip Kumar Dey H.no. A3, St.no. 8,Ashishnagar West Po. Civic centre,Dist.Durg(CG). email. 1.dilip.bhilai66@gmail.com 2dey1dilip@gmail.com