User talk:Dmsmith0363

Dmsmith0363: I am 44yrs old. I have just been seperated from my 2nd wife for 3 months. We where married for 12 + years. No children. I have "killed" our relationship. No abuse or neglect. Just to much me... I do not have a life. Work and her. She wants us to get back together some day, but I need to develope a seperate life to give her space.

Can't seem to move on after seperation. My wife loves me but I have over whelmed our relationship. I didn't want to do any thing if I wasn't doing with her. No friends. Do not even have my own seperate life. She is giving me a chance to develope a way of life that allows her to be an individual as well as myself and still be with me. I love her, but understand why she has been over whelmed by my "over whelming love". I need to know if anyone else has experenced this and what else I can do to help myself become a seperate person and allow her to do her own thing with out seeing me every time she turns around. thanks